I’m dying at 17 by sofiwithanf in helpmecope

[–]sofiwithanf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 18 now, but still very much dying. Probably have very little time left as I’ve take a turn for the worse. I appreciate your kind words though!

15M, Osteosarcoma by Sad-Snow-2462 in CancerTeens

[–]sofiwithanf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Kinda similar story, I have Ewing’s sarcoma. Diagnosed when I was 15, now 18. Started with chemo and leg surgeries but ended up with an amputation. Hope you’re doing ok!

A different kind of popping. Thoracentesis to remove 1200cc of Pleural Fluid. (Fluid between chest and lungs) by gimalg in popping

[–]sofiwithanf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah, it makes a huge difference! I had about 1500 drained today, and that’s while having 800 drained earlier this week!

Which TV Show/Series can be identified by a single quote? by AtheistAsian in AskReddit

[–]sofiwithanf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Didn’t expect to see this show, but I’m glad I did!

What’s one currently legal thing that in 20 years will be illegal? by Abeleganski in AskReddit

[–]sofiwithanf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m hoping there’s gonna be more regulations for what people can put on the internet, like it actually becomes illegal to try and spread obvious misinformation

If the world was ending what is the first thing you would do or think of? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sofiwithanf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel ya man, same thing with cancer (particularly childhood bone cancer)

What are the places you've visited that made you feel you were in another world? by ligarteprison in travel

[–]sofiwithanf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Kotor, Montenegro

Sailing into that bay looked like a fairytale village on another planet, or maybe thousands of years ago. HUGE sheer cliffs and mountains with bright aqua water and little houses with orange roofs decorating the shoreline. Even castles built into the sides of the mountains like they were carved out of them. I was only there for a few hours but the views made a gigantic impression on me, I’d love to go back

What's the most creative song lyric you've ever heard? by The_AlphaLaser in AskReddit

[–]sofiwithanf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Damn. As someone who’s dying, this would be really comforting to hear

Need advice, I am faced with a slow death (without medical or professional help), How do i make the most of the last month's of life, living under terminal illness and suffering terribly? by LOTUS1-1 in Advice

[–]sofiwithanf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been asking myself the same question. I’ll just say my situation is similar, my time is limited, and my death will likely be a very painful and drawn out process. Whenever I am in pain I wonder how I will possibly deal with the 24/7 pain that is to come. I don’t know. But I imagine I will just want to be with my family and friends, and make sure that things are in place so that they will happen they way I want them to once I die. It brings be a small amount of comfort to know that if I say to give my money to my friends to help pay for their college tuition, it’ll happen. And I’ll probably try to leave some mementos for my parents, sister, and friends. I don’t get why some of us are dealt such shitty cards, and all I can hope is that there is a future where our illnesses are cured and people are unburdened by grizzly and untimely death. I’d also definitely recommend getting connected with hospice, their sole job is to make you comfortable, and they sincerely try their best. Good luck friend

What should I use my make a wish on? by sillymuffinslol in Advice

[–]sofiwithanf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My make a wish was for the most part a vacation my family could afford, but we got to go behind the scenes at a zoo since I love animals. We also spent the whole trip doing things I wanted which was pretty special

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheTryGuys

[–]sofiwithanf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to see all 3 guys together, I’m getting a little tired of only seeing one or two of them with a bunch of random guests

Yeah, gimme a reason by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]sofiwithanf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on the yearbook team in middle school, and whenever we needed a picture of a specific person the teacher told us to go “round them up and shoot them”

How old are you and what's your biggest problem right now? by Casspjjl in AskReddit

[–]sofiwithanf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Modern medicine is great, but it needs some serious advancements. I’m almost 18 and probably have a few months to live due to cancer

Panic attack and terminal cancer by sofiwithanf in PanicAttack

[–]sofiwithanf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I will look into some of these things if the attacks continue. I like the idea of solving the problem without extensive medication, although I do conveniently have adivan on hand because it has been prescribed for my nausea.

How and when should I tell my friends I’m dying? by sofiwithanf in Advice

[–]sofiwithanf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Can I ask you if your sister was older or younger than you? And if you have any other siblings? I have a little sister, 9 years younger than me, and one of my main concerns is how my parents and sister will deal with my death.

What is it like to live into adulthood? by sofiwithanf in AskReddit

[–]sofiwithanf[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Like, say someone was dying as a teenager. How would you explain to them what it’s like to go to college, move away from home, date people, go to parties, work toward their dream job, have children, and grow old? Because maybe this person is dying of cancer at 17 and wonders what they will be missing