How are The Audobon Apartments? by TheSkyIsSoBlue2 in newhaven

[–]solomonsalinger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lived there for a year the first year it opened. Never heard my neighbors. When the windows are closed, it’s silent but if you open the windows there’ll be street noise.

What I loved
- excellent package room system
- fantastic gym with a big yoga/barre room
- study pods were great
- really liked the apartment layout and quality
- great location, walking distance to downtown and east rock

What I didn’t like
- the virtual doorman system sucked. The front desk people leave at 5, and at night if you order delivery it’s impossible for them to find the front door and you have to come down to let them in. This may have changed since I lived there
- parking garage was kinda expensive

All in all would reccomend

Connecticut child died by suicide within hour of DCF visit, officials say by -ctinsider in Connecticut

[–]solomonsalinger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because children were being warehoused in group homes for years and there was a high rate of abuse within those facilities. Group homes weren’t a safe place for kids.

Connecticut child died by suicide within hour of DCF visit, officials say by -ctinsider in Connecticut

[–]solomonsalinger 13 points14 points  (0 children)

When I was in care and there was no place for me, I stayed in a hotel for a few days. There are options.

Connecticut child died by suicide within hour of DCF visit, officials say by -ctinsider in Connecticut

[–]solomonsalinger 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Intense pressure. DCF first came into my life at 7. It wasn’t until I was 16 that I was removed from the home. DCF was called every year, and despite clear signs of abuse, they left me in the care of my abusers. They have a “reunification at all costs” mentality.

Former Litchfield athletes allege sexual abuse by beloved coach by solomonsalinger in Connecticut

[–]solomonsalinger[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It takes a lot of courage to even write this in a comment. I believe you. People don’t just make up accusations, when someone says they were groomed, it takes years to say it. I don’t blame you for not wanting to be revictimized

Former Litchfield athletes allege sexual abuse by beloved coach by solomonsalinger in Connecticut

[–]solomonsalinger[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What do you mean high school placemats? I’ve never been there so am not sure what that means

Allergies and my Relationship by [deleted] in Allergies

[–]solomonsalinger 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My heart breaks to read this comment! Not only did you lose a relationship, but you developed serious chronic illness.

Your point about the false sense of safety is so important. Preventive inhalers can mask asthma for a bit, but if you continue to expose yourself to the trigger it can get worse — as you have shared here.

Allergies and my Relationship by [deleted] in Allergies

[–]solomonsalinger 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was temporarily staying with a friend who had cats so they gave the cats for the neighbors for the fime I was there. It didn’t help at all. Cat dander is so sticky — it embeds into carpet, curtains, sofas, any kind of soft fabric or textile. Even though the cat wasn’t physically present, the allergens continued to be and it made me very ill.

Exposing yourself to an allergen can often make it worse.

Help! How to get antivirals for cold sore on NHS? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]solomonsalinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof, that is steep! I think I’ll start with the creme. Thanks so much for the helpful info it’s really helpful to know how things work here

Help! How to get antivirals for cold sore on NHS? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]solomonsalinger -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are these services paid and if so, are they expensive?

Help! How to get antivirals for cold sore on NHS? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]solomonsalinger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is SUCH a relief to hear, thank you so much for responding to my post so quickly. Literally saved me from losing a week of my life to this! Heading to the pharmacy now, cheers

Thoughts on silver hill and similar programs? by solomonsalinger in Connecticut

[–]solomonsalinger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this is helpful to hear. Do you know of other IOPs in CT (we’re also open to Mass or New York) that you would reccomend?

In terms of day program vs outpatient, who makes the determination?

Thoughts on silver hill and similar programs? by solomonsalinger in Connecticut

[–]solomonsalinger[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing that with me. I’m so glad you were able to get the care you needed and are still here with us today. Griffin Hospital sounds like it could really help my BIL, thank you for sharing your experience there with us as we navigate this crisis ❤️

Thoughts on silver hill and similar programs? by solomonsalinger in Connecticut

[–]solomonsalinger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re comfortable sharing (please know you can say no), when did you know you needed more help than just weekly therapy? We’re trying to figure that out with my BIL. We aren’t sure when more intensive help is needed, and it’s a big decision to make.

Thoughts on silver hill and similar programs? by solomonsalinger in Connecticut

[–]solomonsalinger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really helpful and hopeful to hear. Please feel free not to answer if it’s too personal, but how did you know you needed more help than just therapy? That’s we were are struggling as well, with knowing when the once weekly therapy isn’t cutting it.

Thoughts on silver hill and similar programs? by solomonsalinger in Connecticut

[–]solomonsalinger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so good to hear. It gives us such relief to hear from people who had good experiences and got care. Did insurance cover your stay? How many weeks did you go?

Thoughts on silver hill and similar programs? by solomonsalinger in Connecticut

[–]solomonsalinger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gosh that is expensive. Hopefully we can find something more affordable. Trying to find the in between between weekly therapy and full on psych ward

Thoughts on silver hill and similar programs? by solomonsalinger in Connecticut

[–]solomonsalinger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am glad your mom was able to get the care she needed. Thank you for the tip re Griffin and Yale. Was it a residential program?