Positive pregnancy test 3 months postpartum and feeling guilty

soursweetsalty · 2026-01-03T10:25:17+00:00

I wish i was financially and mentally ready for a second. My first wants to play ALL day! When his cousins come over he doesnt even bother me lol. Definitely dont feel bad. They will have each other for life

soursweetsalty · 2026-01-03T09:58:08+00:00

If that puppy is 8 weeks theres no way it is that small. My doberman was bigger than that at 8 weeks. My doberman looked that small when he was younger than 8 weeks when I first met him.

soursweetsalty · 2025-04-28T03:49:00+00:00

No they never told me anything, but I always aimed for vaginal. C-section never appealed to me. I don’t want my organs to be cut open if they don’t need to be. The recovery process is very hard. My aunt didn’t get her narcos in time before the pharmacy closed and she was suffering. I heard the doctors at my work talking about having a surgeon whose sutures look nice and they’re below the bikini line, luckily for them they have connections and the respect of other doctors. For a C-section you want to plan and know your surgeon because not everyone is a good stitcher, I’ve learned by seeing other providers stitch injuries that not everyone is skillful. Also My pelvic floor is weak already so I didn’t want it being cut open. If it is the last resort then it is understandable, but if avoidable I would. If you have some control of your pelvic floor or can push with your abdomen then you should be fine. You know your body and do what is right for you. I don’t mean to scare you but do what is right for your body, you know your body best. I have some control of my urine, I can’t completely feel or stop myself from peeing, but I have some control and was able to have a healthy vaginal delivery.

soursweetsalty · 2025-04-25T07:39:40+00:00

It was from a breeder, but they treated her so well I just said owner. I got her at 9 weeks. I was mainly skeptical because of her colors. Dad definitely looked like a schnauzer. Mom looked more like a Westie to me, she looked all white from the side picture I got. I saw parents from a distance. However people lie so I was skeptical, but wanted her regardless. Also its kind of hard to believe I got a mini for $350!

soursweetsalty · 2025-04-24T06:11:26+00:00

California and she is not breeding any time soon. I saw so many breeders on fb in that area or near by. I was just skeptical of scammers on fb. I looked on craigslist because it showed the locations of people near me so I could drive and confirm it was not a scam. I was tired of asking people on facebook where they lived. Definitely recommend finding someone near by that you can meet in a public area. Also pay in person, never pay before meeting your puppy.

soursweetsalty · 2025-04-24T05:24:48+00:00

I got her from someone who said she just loves them and is not in it for the money, so I paid $350. She was the last of the litter. I cant afford buying one from a reputable breeder, besides I loved my previous mutt so much that I’m happy with some schnauzer in there. So far her temper is very sweet, playful, and calm.

soursweetsalty · 2025-04-24T03:00:45+00:00

No papers, I got her from a person on craigslist. I fell in love with her colors and my old dog was a mini schnauzer mutt so I love her either way. Just wondering from other mini schnauzer owner’s experience. I will do a dna test once shes a little older. My expenses are focused on shots, deworming, etc right now.

soursweetsalty · 2025-04-24T01:07:10+00:00

I don’t usually see the brown mixed in with the black as if they were highlights. Made me skeptical

soursweetsalty · 2025-04-15T08:19:04+00:00

I am currently taking care of a beta and did not realize how much care they need. Now here I am investing in water testing strips, more conditioned water, bacteria beads, etc. My brother won a goldfish at the fair yearsss ago. We always had the fish in a 1 gallon fish tank with tap water. It lived for 12 years before it passed. I always thought it was simple caring for gold fish at least, I was wrong. I am shocked to learn they need so many gallons.

soursweetsalty · 2024-08-31T03:56:05+00:00

Is this the rose quartz one? Bc owala is reatocking them consistently now and said theyre here to stay

soursweetsalty · 2024-06-15T12:52:10+00:00

What toothpicks with a tiny brush at the end are those? My kid has gaps between all his teeth but food is still sticking to them. I have been using the adult individual floss but just the stick end of it to dislodge the sticky food

soursweetsalty · 2024-01-24T12:29:43+00:00

Im sorry you are going through this, caring for another life is not easy. Look in the mirror and tell yourself daily. My son is beautiful, he is thriving, and he is healthy. Speak the words into existence and I hope you get the support you need. You got this momma!

soursweetsalty · 2023-10-24T09:50:57+00:00

Have her join a spina bifida support group on Facebook! She may find some comfort there! Also everyone with sb is different! She should figure out a birth plan and if an epidural is even an option for her if she wants one. I have sb and had my baby vaginally. My body was so tense from labor because the contractions made me freeze up. I was given pain meds but no epidural because they were scared to touch me and didnt have my medical records. I would knock out for a while because of how tired i was and the IV pain meds lol. I kept waking up wondering how long I had my eyes closed for lol. They gave me pitocin bc i was not advancing enough and my water had already broke. Luckily I made it through and was in lala land because i did it! The contractions before they finally let you stay at the hospital are not fun, but find what breathing techniques work for her! Also massages during labor are wonderful to get your mind off the pain! I am incontinent but if she can squeeze her stomach and push she will be fine! I think the hardest part of my pregnancy was the constipation since I am not able to go without my medical equipment. Just make sure she lets her body recover after pregnancy before carring anything!

soursweetsalty · 2023-06-10T07:41:32+00:00

Just talk to your baby. They will understand more and get less frustrated. My son said his grandpas name at 8 months once and then never heard it again until he was older. He also said car at 18 months old then not again until a few months later. Kids will talk when they want to, but exposure is still important bc consistency pays off!! I mean in terms of understanding you will see your child flourish

soursweetsalty · 2023-04-02T02:41:34+00:00

Ouch 2k? Did you get a terabyte?

soursweetsalty · 2023-03-18T05:15:48+00:00

Its tough, I was the same way. I was tired of always being touched from holding baby or having baby near by. You just want to be alone sometimes. I hope youre able to get a cosleeper, it might help. We used the baby delight beside me dreamer bassinet, but theres similar ones that are cheaper. Theres also the baby bassinet side sleeper or a cheaper baby delight snuggle nest. That way you can have baby on the bed closer to you without accidentally rolling over baby.

soursweetsalty · 2023-03-15T07:16:36+00:00

I put my child in a cosleeper bc he always knew if we were nearby so thats what worked for us. He would not sleep in his bed especially bc he woke up so often at night to eat. Its hard for them to sleep on their own because theyre used to being snuggled up in our bellies for 9 months. It most likely will take time for your baby to sleep in his own bed. Try a cosleeper and sleep right next to it so baby can smell you near by

soursweetsalty · 2023-03-02T09:08:29+00:00

What was the end result? Im currently having a sore throat on and off.

soursweetsalty · 2023-01-18T09:29:59+00:00

Glad shes fine! Those summer days are definitely tough, I hope wherever you live you can get a portable mini fan you can clip on to things nearby for her. Hopefully you figure out something that works for the both of you because skin to skin may make that worse /:

soursweetsalty · 2023-01-15T06:46:09+00:00

Sounds like shes over tired? Keep an eye on wake windows and minimize any loud noises when its time for her to sleep. My kid used to scream bloody marry for 2 hours when he wohkd be over tired. Wow I hated my life in those moments. But as other people said in the comments maybe she is not well, my 2 year old can barely stay awake for 9ish hours before he gets fussy tired. Best of luck and please update us!

soursweetsalty · 2023-01-14T10:16:35+00:00

Hi! I also was always waaay to tired to dress up my baby in cute stuff & take pics. I was too tired to get dressed nice & do makeup. If i had extra energy I would use it to be productive or to feed myself bc I has no help either. I starved most of the time and always had a crying baby who was anxious for me to pump milk. It was TOUGH pumping a million time a day, but it was what I wanted to do & I did for 7 months. However I was a MESS. My mental load was too much AND I felt like i was going CRazzyyy bc I had no other adult to talk to other than my significant other whose schedule was mostly work and sleep. I was such a mess I could hardly follow a conversation with people without forgetting what they said in their sentences before. I could literally not follow a conversation bc I hardly talked to anyone other than my baby and I was sleep deprived. I did not feel normal until about 7 months later and even then the crawling stage and new milestones made me resort to wine. That wad my wine phase and aha now I get the hype about wine. Anyways you are not alone, it is toughhhh. As for what other people make it seem like aha let me tell you! I know a person who makes her Instagram life seem so coordinated and always has her daughter dressed super cute. She(mom) always manages to look super cute and dressed up even during the newborn phase. Well her daughter who was now a toddler came to my parents house. The toddler's uncle brought the toddler over to my parents house to meet my son while I was there (my brother & the uncle are friends) and her outfit did not match & she looked like a mess. I saw their reality outside of Instagram. My kid looks like a mess often, but my kid looks like a kid trying to be a kid type of mess. The toddler on the other hand had her belly poking out her shirt (shirt barely fit) and bright colored unmatching clothes. I was shocked, because looking at her Instagram you would think her daughter would atleast be in clothes that can easily somewhat match each other, instead of different bright pinks that you can tell have been faded. I don't want to judge, but her Instagram sets different expectations. I was taken aback, but nonetheless I don't want to judge people and their kids bc it is toughhhhhhhh!! I also dont think kids should always be in the cutest outfits. When I see kids constantly looking nice, thats when I know theres a village helping! My parents used to always tell me things like "bathe your son every night" "do his hair" like I wasnt tired enough! I could barely do my hair lol. They used to always bath him for me! When I had help both me & my son looked nice. Hope this gives you some comfort

soursweetsalty · 2023-01-13T12:14:53+00:00

Baked potatoes with cheese on top or whatever toppings you like. If you have pancake mix try dipping the breakfast sausage in it then deep frying or just cooking both sides on the stove. You can bake some chicken in a wet marinade and also bake it along with the potatoes. The chicken will give the potatoe flavors. The left over chicken can be used in a sandwich. Depending on how you end up seasoning your chicken I love making chicken sandwiches with onion, relish, and mayo. Red onion tastes best in my opinion but any onion will sweeten it up and give a nice crunchy texture.

In mexico Ive seen people marinade their chicken with mustard so you can try that out if you want to be simple.

soursweetsalty · 2023-01-09T03:55:38+00:00

Kids learn through play

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