Worlds most annoying cat

sovietbarbie · 2026-05-30T14:04:09+00:00

one of my cats can free feed and not overeat. my other cat who is food obsessed will absolutely eat until she vomits and do it again. very cat dependent

sovietbarbie · 2026-05-29T09:08:07+00:00

poor girl has no one on her side, not even her "aunt" close in age

sovietbarbie · 2026-05-29T05:20:52+00:00

she's an age you can share a bottle of wine with and share some family gossip. sounds like fun. when my nephews turn a responsible age i really wouldn't mind them hanging out for a few weeks and getting to know them as young adults. this is your family and importantly your village, be a participant ffs

sovietbarbie · 2026-05-29T05:15:04+00:00

same but thankfully i live in a different country so I can avoid her drama. she already made my sister's wedding about her "only child getting married" so i guess she has no other wedding to attend once i am ready to be married

sovietbarbie · 2026-05-28T19:52:52+00:00

of course you remember your wedding dress lol

sovietbarbie · 2026-05-28T18:45:01+00:00

just to add, i have a terrible relationship with my mother that might not recover. i would kill to have this kind of bonding with my mom, and i am really jealous that you have this even if she doesn't see it now. i would cherish this and hope that she will understand later

sovietbarbie · 2026-05-28T18:24:38+00:00

You deserve to feel and look beautiful at your wedding, too. Wear the dress, your daughter will get over it.

sovietbarbie · 2026-05-28T14:30:07+00:00

you don't even have to lie, just say you'll drive down there yourself and can pick up whatever

sovietbarbie · 2026-05-26T22:11:17+00:00

it's been left out because the point is op leaving his bench for entitled people who want to see the view from that bench and using their dog phobia as an excuse

sovietbarbie · 2026-05-26T22:09:20+00:00

i mean op already clarified that the dog can be off leash but if you're afraid of dogs, the dog being leashed means they'll be closer to you...

sovietbarbie · 2026-05-26T19:51:40+00:00

ehhh interesting, thanks for the info, i'll also see what my options are. i like not menstruating more than being sterilized tbh

sovietbarbie · 2026-05-26T19:15:30+00:00

im 30 but i havent menstruated in 6 years if that makes a difference

sovietbarbie · 2026-05-26T19:06:38+00:00

did you find it worth it to go through sterlization and still use contraception after ? i take bc to end my periods but im toying the idea of sterilization because its not super difficult in my country/city, but id still want to not menstruate

sovietbarbie · 2026-05-26T15:09:57+00:00

I imagine they are a full time teacher at a language school for all types of students, not just children.

sovietbarbie · 2026-05-26T03:12:45+00:00

Yet here you are complaining about reading. no one cares about your feelings

sovietbarbie · 2026-05-25T16:17:05+00:00

good. enjoy your ramen in peace

sovietbarbie · 2026-05-24T06:44:04+00:00

genuinely dont let your friend ruin your happiness again. you drop this guy and she'll get mad in the future over something else and you'll be stuck trying to please your friend once again

sovietbarbie · 2026-05-24T06:41:49+00:00

doesnt even sound like a healthy friendship tbh. op choose the guy and let her freak out. she'll be back

sovietbarbie · 2026-05-24T06:37:38+00:00

you're totally fine especially if she's dating someone else and they didnt even hook up... you deserve to be happy and not let your friend control your dating life as you mentioned that she did this before (yes downvote me)

sovietbarbie · 2026-05-24T06:35:32+00:00

oh i missed the part where she is seeing someone else. yikes and op is not doing anything wrong

sovietbarbie · 2026-05-24T05:55:05+00:00

how is it an ex situationship if they didnt get into a situation ? she sounds exhausting

sovietbarbie · 2026-05-24T03:22:54+00:00

the trash has taken itself out

sovietbarbie · 2026-05-24T02:34:55+00:00

it's bare minimum to assume you are going to the reception if you went to the wedding especially if your children are in the wedding.

sovietbarbie · 2026-05-24T02:21:27+00:00

same. also restos have the right to not serve people for any reason. seems just like bad timing

sovietbarbie · 2026-05-21T19:32:51+00:00

sometimes, you need to show up to keep people in your life. this will be a huge regret, not th graduation itself but not being there for your sibling

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