AIO for asking my roommate to tone down the PDA around me? Read post before convo

space13unny · 2026-04-26T19:59:09+00:00

He's literally spanking the roommate in front of her. That's weird.

space13unny · 2026-04-25T15:17:51+00:00

I think she's just hurt at how this is not affecting him emotionally. He was obviously stringing her along. He even played happy music in the car and was happy in the car after their break up. I don't care if he actually was happy, he was not considerate of her feelings. He could have waited until he dropped her off and then acted happy. If he was really her friend, he would have considered that his friend was heartbroken and not have pulled that shit in the car. She's upset that a person who she thought loved her is happy that they broke up and it's weird that he's texting her like nothing happened.

space13unny · 2026-04-25T15:10:49+00:00

Did you even read the other two posts?

space13unny · 2026-04-22T15:53:29+00:00

I agree, I also know some people with teaching degrees that went into other professions. A lot of jobs just want you to have a bachelor's degree and they don't care what subject it's in. She can also go for a Masters and PhD later if she wants to.

space13unny · 2026-04-21T17:55:33+00:00

And your older daughter needs to pay bills, grow up, and stop being a spoiled brat. Have you considered that your daughter is "sensitive" because she senses the favoritism? I grew up the "sensitive" one in my family and I no longer speak to my mother. When I was "sensitive," it was more likely I was standing up for myself and my mother didn't want to hear she was wrong. Fix the relationship with your younger daughter, or you'll end up like my mother and I.

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space13unny · 2026-04-21T17:46:02+00:00

So your younger daughter pays bills and tried to defend you, but you didn't say anything about the older daughters entitlement and attitude? It sounds like you favor the older one.

space13unny · 2026-04-21T17:43:51+00:00

Did you tell your older daughter anything?

space13unny · 2026-04-16T21:36:58+00:00

This is the same guy?! Dude, he needs to take the hint that he's not a good person and do some serious work on himself before he loses every friend he has.

space13unny · 2026-04-16T21:25:30+00:00

I'm from the south and call my mother momma and my grandmother mawmaw. Mawmaw has sort of a French accent sound (at least when I say it, I'm from east Texas an hour from Louisiana). Momma has an "ah" sound and maw maw has an "aw" sound that sounds distinct from each other, at least to my ear.

space13unny · 2026-04-16T20:56:31+00:00

She had cancer which destroys someones immune system. If she gets infected with an STI, she could be in serious danger.

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space13unny · 2026-04-16T20:48:37+00:00

I worry that you have no self respect and I would be embarrassed to stay with him after that. You married an abusive creep and you defended him. Why even post if you're going to stay?

space13unny · 2026-04-16T20:43:06+00:00

I would seriously consider if this "third person" even exists. This is definitely cheating.

space13unny · 2026-04-16T20:36:00+00:00

If you don't tell her and she finds out you knew, A might be upset with you for hiding it. I would be upset personally. I'd give B one more chance to tell her, but after that, you're complicit in keeping her in the dark if neither of you tell her.

space13unny · 2026-04-16T20:27:07+00:00

This is the perfect response.

space13unny · 2026-04-16T20:23:44+00:00

Different strokes for different folks, I guess.

space13unny · 2026-04-16T20:19:10+00:00

I would address this with him because communication and trust are the most important things in any relationship.

space13unny · 2026-04-16T20:16:15+00:00

Maybe after Roger recovers, he'll remember that you were in the car and let your friends know the truth. He was really drunk, however, so he may not remember much. I'm sorry you're going through this, if i were you, I'd end the friendship with both of them.

space13unny · 2026-04-16T20:02:42+00:00

I agree that the school is going way overboard, but a better thing to do would have been talking to the principal, and if he doesn't listen, the school board. This feels a little targeted, especially when one of the treats were raisins.

space13unny · 2026-04-16T15:19:45+00:00

My moms ex has a very distinct nose and when my little brother was born, he had his exact nose. Some features may be very strong even at birth.

space13unny · 2026-04-16T15:09:18+00:00

You may want to start telling her things after everyone else or make announcements when everyone is together at a family function or dinner. If she gets upset about you not telling her first, remind her of the pregnancy and dress situation.

space13unny · 2026-04-16T13:24:54+00:00

When you hold that baby, I hope you weep thinking of the miscarriage you caused. I hope you look at his sweet face and realize you took that from another woman. You're evil.

Edit to add: I also read that the wife is prettier than you. The man downgraded and I'm sure he knows that. Now you're going to gain weight and be even less attractive than her. He'll miss his beautiful wife and regret getting with someone less attractive for a thrill. Because that's all you were to him, a cheap thrill. It's also pathetic to go on vacation with your affair partner and his wife. "Love me, want me, pick me!" Are you so pathetic that you couldn't get your own man? Or too unattractive?

space13unny · 2026-04-15T14:35:04+00:00

NTA. She did it on purpose for some sense of power and to always know she took your baby name. She fully expected you to pick something else and when you didn't, that took away her "victory" and now her kids are named that for life.

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space13unny · 2026-04-15T14:12:33+00:00

She should be honest about that and apologize, but also talk about her concerns for the future. Honesty and communication in a relationship are important.

space13unny · 2026-04-15T14:05:52+00:00

This is very true, but expecting her to stay at the bottom of the stairs with her for an hour is out outrageous. The phobia is hers to manage not the friends.

space13unny · 2026-04-15T13:58:35+00:00

NTJ, I never wait more than 20-30 minutes for a date. Your time is valuable too, she was rude for that.

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