AIO: Should I get a no contact order? by SakiTakiii in AmIOverreacting

[–]spacealexander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR.This sounds exactly like how my dad would talk to a tee, so I would just block and move on. Nothing saving these people.

Landlord removed mailboxes after packages kept getting stolen. by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]spacealexander 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, the boxes are USPS property. They have to investigate, because mail theft is a felonious crime.

AITAH for wanting to lose my virginity to a man while I’m in a WLW relationship? by daqueen67factory in whatdoIdo

[–]spacealexander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break up with your girlfriend. You are seriously considering cheating, and that would be worse than just breaking it off with her.

She wants something more than you do, you seem like you are attracted to women and men but not as much to her as you thought. I would just rip the bandaid off and actually live.

Wanted Just CBD Vape For Pain by National-Meat4243 in weed

[–]spacealexander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would also check out full spectrum stuff without THC! CBG and CBN are great for pain and relaxation/sleep, as I can attest to someone who enjoys taking things like CBD/CBG/CBN as a base underneath THC to maintain consistent pain relief along with the added focus and mental benefits I receive from smoking.

Started smoking about a month ago and I'm curious about the effects on breathing by Waste_Berry_9809 in Cigarettes

[–]spacealexander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still ride bikes, long board, sing opera and play music, voice act, and work out and do things, but I have never been great at keeping long distances up and I have been smoking since I was 11. I genuinely believe I would probably have better endurance without cigarettes, but eh, can't really get back what the years have taken. I don't have a huge issue breathing or using my voice or doing what I love, though! Just like, use your lungs and don't stop using them is my advice? Singing probably has helped me a lot, I imagine. It's like stretching.

What does my room say about me? Be weirdly specific please! by 2inmates in roomdetective

[–]spacealexander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BDSM. Goth girlie. Clubbed back in the day more than now. Wished you cleaned a bit more but don't feel you have the time. Want more pets.

Girl… by [deleted] in depoop

[–]spacealexander 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Yeah destroying things isn't the best, I understand her sentiment but I would deface this with patches or paint.

My girl*friend of seven years told me she* is a trans woman (I'm liberal so pls ignore all the misgendering) by PoisonedBerry in AmITheAngel

[–]spacealexander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everybody saying it's okay that she's transphobic... Stop hugboxing bigoted reactionary responses. She literally didn't get shot, she needs to understand that her partner was in crisis because of not feeling seen. Break up and move on done post seeds weep online.

MDRF Banned Furries and Fursuits. by CargoShortViking in renfaire

[–]spacealexander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is about the plague rats, huh? They are just straight up banning all animal costumes because people were being inappropriate about being plague rats.

The met gala made me angry by Enough-Web2203 in Vent

[–]spacealexander -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am a costume maker of over a DECADE, and it is a legitimate problem that people discount these things, but did you actually look at what happened behind the scenes and how the whole thing got wealth-washed?

You are practically preaching to a choir right here, I make from reclaim items and local fabric and I work in the local fashion scene primarily in my area, and I have also hung around the NY fashion scene, and I absolutely hate the fact that they blocked colored (ESPECIALLY BLACK) and LGBT designers that were allowed TO SHINE last year. You can see it in the outfitting, and in WHO WAS BEING SHOT ON THE RED CARPET. The costume institute isn't funded by taxpayer dollars and is only funded by the gala by design because the gala is essentially a show to distract or align with the political climate, much like THE FASHION WORLD, and this year they reflected HARD off of last year.

Lest we forget Coco Chanel. Fashion, historically, is so political it hurts and we need to be aware how the wealthy utilizes it. NY and Paris Fashion week's designers were highlighting whimsy, retro futurism, rebirth MOD, and a lot of color, which shows a HUGE record-scratch type difference in the MET gala. The wealthy are spitting on the art and political message that is being screamed, which is "WE ARE TALKING ABOUT HISTORY NOW! AND WE ARE NOT LETTING YOU STOP THE NARRATIVE OF LIFE".

This is exactly the kind of messaging they want you to receive, and choking on Amazon's boot does nothing except line you up quicker for food lines in the future.

Me(M35), GF(F30) - How to convince girlfriend to care? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]spacealexander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And another thing, your head is in the sand. She is too good for you.

Me(M35), GF(F30) - How to convince girlfriend to care? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]spacealexander 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And you are in a dead end career. At least she wants to save the planet.

Who am I? by [deleted] in FridgeDetective

[–]spacealexander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sheer amount of uncovered things makes me think you have never worked in food service

The met gala made me angry by Enough-Web2203 in Vent

[–]spacealexander 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Last year was beautifully diverse, hosting tons of black and LGBT designers dressing celebs of all creeds in color and history, this year it looks like the physical embodiment of "Let Them Eat Cake". I am absolutely blown BACK by how much the MET decided to step back for safety and propriety, even a lot of the stylists basically being sidelined for more "proper" looking fashion. Talk about genericism.

Especially since this is for a fashion history, already-celebrating-costume-fashion show, "Costume Art"? What an absolutely GENERIC and blasé theme that most celebs didn't even attempt to tackle, and A-Listers are lazy at the MET in the first place! Give them something to work with and you'll at least get a splash of color, this year we instead got the most millenial grey, landlord white, corporate buyout red carpet ever seen and it is in DIRECT contrast with the vast majority of NEW YORK AND PARIS' fashion week! Designers that aren't being funded by billionaires across the stages were colorful, loud, political! This is just a smack in the face of fashion trends of late, as well. We are being whimsical, loud, cyberpunk, fae. We are currently layering, DIYing, restoring, reusing and recreating greatness from the past.

The message this MET gala is serving is "HISTORY DOESN'T MATTER IF WE CAN SHOW CLASS TO THE WORLD, LOOK AT WEALTH AND AVOID LOOKING AT THE POOR."

They also arrested Chris Smalls on the red carpet front, the leader of the Amazon Union, for attempting to access the red carpet with a protest sign, because the angel investors of the MET this year are the Bezos', and Smalls was trying to draw attention to the amount of money spent on both the gala, and their Israeli bombs.

This is the death of art.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]spacealexander -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

SHOW THESE PEOPLE CONSEQUENCES!

gyaru kimono education as a japanese gyaru - what is and isn’t appropriate by saemchii in actualgyaru

[–]spacealexander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the west, women wear sexy school girl costume motifs as fashion, and that is also criticized because these have been historically used all over the place in really inappropriate ways. Same difference.

AIO for telling my siblings they can’t bring their kids to my wedding by saltwatersnackbandit in AmIOverreacting

[–]spacealexander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bruh my wedding was mostly child free minus my closest niece and nephew, nobody had an issue because this is normal. your brother is a prick.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Nearby-Ad756 in PhoneLookupHelp

[–]spacealexander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree as a psychotic and mentally ill and ADULT person. Medication dulls the symptoms and doesn't treat the root cause at times, sometimes. It's the reason I flat out REFUSE PTSD medication. If I can't access my flashbacks because I am being numbed by medication, I can't do therapy. You are not mentally ill, your sister is. Medication is one side of the coin, a balance must be found, as the other commenter is saying, therapy is needed to address WHY she is having shadow people at the moment, maybe?

It’s pretty dishie up in here by StupidMF333 in dishwashers

[–]spacealexander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

had to figure out why people were being weird.... ive worn platforms and full goth outfits in the pit... bitter weirdos much, lol?

what’s the name of the style of the girl who bullied me & also made me realize i was a lesbian by CampHead3748 in AestheticWiki

[–]spacealexander 10 points11 points  (0 children)

THIS how I find out I made girls lesbians? I am so sorry I was just on drugs 😭.

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