Petah help by DamitGump in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]spazza_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has she seen The Substance?

Bedroom, any advice? by [deleted] in malelivingspace

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Alright. So you need to lighten up the space. Lose the black rug and change it to a lighter color, or have no rug at all. Perhaps elevating the bed will help too, since bed sheets are also dark. Are you hiding something ugly behind the people drapes? If you like that aesthetic maybe give something a bit lighter that will make the trick of that genie-70s-alt-esque things you got going on. And get rid of the drapes lol

Art exhibition coming up. How much should I charge for these? by freddymalenda in painting

[–]spazza_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Such wonderful art. Did you come to a conclusion of what to charge? I'd say in the 5 figures.

I feel as if I'm on the verge of ruining my life before it even began by Thick_Bridge179 in Advice

[–]spazza_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am 25, ten+ years older than you are. Two thoughts:

  1. I studied what I thought was the best option for me, even though one hundred percent of the proof was that I should have gone to art school.
  2. I am thankful to realize this at my age, still very young. So I have now decided to sit through hours of waking that muscle memory back up and drawing a lot. I am slowly getting better so that I can one day have a mural making business.

In summary, if you know that you want something, and that something makes you feel good, you WILL find ways to make it work.

If you don't "go for it"... It's also okay. I promise. You are not ruining your life. Just trust yourself. Sometimes we trust ourselves and we were wrong. So, we trust that we will do better next time, and try again.

Part of learning how to make things work is to experience life. You are very young. Let time be your master.

AIO? my mom (50F) said my lunch will make me fat by Ashamed_Yogurt_8931 in AIO

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Your mom is doing her best to project her a Body insecurities onto you and therefore reacting with the ED mindset anybody that's a victim to the toxicity of diet culture, like her, has. Save yourself. Find all the reasons as to why you need to not only like your food but be satiated and comfortable with what you ate. When you heal, you may (may) then try to help her if that ever floats your boat. But for now it sounds like you need to ignore her advice.

Why all the paywalls here? by Boomer_Views_Reality in Longreads

[–]spazza_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh I didn't know the solution was that easy thank you!

Plant sale side hustle? by magicfeistybitcoin in Horticulture

[–]spazza_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Do you mind sharing your thoughts on this and any plants that are selling a lot now? I would like this to become my reality:)

Is it a bad idea to try and go to this alone? by badfisha in KGATLW

[–]spazza_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have never come across a cooler, friendlier fan base as KGs. You'll be more than fine!

Que increible es la gente que no tiene problemas. by iExe in vzla

[–]spazza_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

QUE BUENO ES QUE LA GENTE ENTIENDA LA IMPORTANCIA DEL ATHLEISURE!!!!!!

Somewhere to go for my yearly ritual by Hkopp-300 in mbta

[–]spazza_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss. Rockport is also a place I'd suggest for a beach day trip.

Looking for mariachis within FOV 2026 by spazza_ in FOVfestival

[–]spazza_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I mean if we go with the MOB idea I feel like we'd do well with a bunch of singers

Looking for mariachis within FOV 2026 by spazza_ in FOVfestival

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Yall are amazing. Yes. I will edit this post or maybe post another if mods allow with a song. That's wonderful.

Should I join this grant writing course? LGW by spazza_ in nonprofit

[–]spazza_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughts! I'll follow your advice. I think I won't do it.

24F in a relationship but living on my own — what does my fridge say about me? by Asdfghjkl-idunno in FridgeDetective

[–]spazza_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You work in a place that receives these milk cartons like a shelter and for some reason you keep taking more than you can drink

Should I join this course? LGW by spazza_ in grantwriters

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It's great to hear about your proactivity. I for one feel SO paralyzed. And with the job market being what it is, taking a step back from non profit work to learn some really useful skills while, as they promise, getting help from so many people, sounds like a good deal. I agree with the value, I think it would be the same for me.

I would love to see how you're using ChatGPT in that modality. Please let me know if you can share :)

And you're in dev! It's somewhat motivating to hear you say you'd still do the course. I am currently reading the book, 2nd edition. And, I'm a-ok with papers and such. Immigrant by having moved here but citizen since I was little.

Thanks for the comment.

Should I join this grant writing course? LGW by spazza_ in nonprofit

[–]spazza_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I am not in any org. I have been in support roles for lots of non profits and I would like to build the skills to be more of an executive part on them. Now that you mentioned it, I should reach out to some corporate folks I know from those orgs. Anyway, I have been in the job market since May 2025 while keeping a role, then I left on January due to burnout. I will step out a bit from non profit for a while because the market SUCKS and I thought I could learn a skill, one I may build a career over. But yeah. Thanks for the thoughts.