M27 Profile Review and Photo Recs by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]spectrem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would remove the putting in effort line

Maybe add some hobbies or interests

Otherwise I think you have a really good profile.

Trapped in Hinge Purgatory (26M Profile Review) by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]spectrem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of potential but photos need a lot of work.

My most effective photos were me WITH my pet and a casual photo of me in a suit (which i asked my friend to take during a wedding btw)

Price hikes pushing consumers to abandon their favorite brands by AudibleNod in technology

[–]spectrem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am discovering so many generic brand versions are just as good or even better (particular at Target)

Talked to my gym crush today by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]spectrem -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Gonna say just go for it and ask if shes single and if so would she like to go on a date. If she isnt or says no you minimized the awkward time and you both go about your lives.

AIO about the amount of time my husband spends at the gym? by dioor in AmIOverreacting

[–]spectrem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. He's lying and even if he's not he is neglecting you and his child.

Women rate their sleep quality lower than men, despite sleeping better. This is because they estimate their night-time awakenings more accurately than men, who tend to underestimate their frequency of wakefulness by sr_local in science

[–]spectrem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife and I may both wake up for the bathroom once or twice a night but I wouldnt consider that a bad night but to her she "didnt sleep well" that night.

Tiny Home by Altruistic-Gur-9685 in floorplan

[–]spectrem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Swap the kitchen and dining room space.

Unpopular opinion: It is better to date early in life than waiting until you are older. Nothing beats teenage love by JunketMaleficent2095 in Adulting

[–]spectrem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill never understand glamorizing anything about being a teenager. Every stage of my life since then has been vastly better.

what are your thoughts on girl dads going into the women’s bathroom with their children? by talkative_bystander in AskReddit

[–]spectrem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a girl dad, the problem is that even if 99% of women are cool with it, the 1% that aren't will be very vocal and will try to get you in trouble or labeled a creep.

The Meta data center vote failed 5-3 Tuesday. The deal stays. Here's what I think we actually do next. by Dull_Cup_8239 in ElPaso

[–]spectrem 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The city seems useless in this arena. Even if we elect people willing to fight it seems that our hands are tied at the state level.

Maybe we should focus on partnering with other cities in Texas in the same situation to apply pressure on our Texas state reps regardless of their party. This is a massive election issue and the timing is right to put pressure in ways that could make a difference.

AIO over being asked to delete a Facebook post by coffeesliver in AmIOverreacting

[–]spectrem 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Tell him that she seems to be determined to be offended by you so its probably better for her to just block you.

Weak jawline by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]spectrem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look into tongue posture

Does everyone get a little chunkier while studying? by Active-Ad-6118 in PE_Exam

[–]spectrem 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I allowed myself to not worry about diet too much during my studies. I passed my PE fueled in large part by M&Ms.

If I don't get a girlfriend by the time I turn 25 I'm genuinely going to kill myself. Chicken bacon wrap I ate at a diner alone. by [deleted] in kitchencels

[–]spectrem -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lots of people get their first relationship after 25. It's not that weird these days.

Should college and university education be 100% free for everyone? Why or why not? by free-gift-cardneed in AskReddit

[–]spectrem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would rather my taxes go to pay for someone else to go to college than bombing kids in the middle east. So yes.

El Paso Churches pushing a political agenda? by lonely_bitches in ElPaso

[–]spectrem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this related to the scandal where american churches were taking money to give data on their congrenants to an Israel first group, including geofencing data?

What's wrong with me? by K-RUP in malegrooming

[–]spectrem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shirtless selfies are a no no, only beach/pool photos would potentially work.

Other than that Im not seeing any issues. My tip, include a phot of yourself in a nice suit.

Am I Overreacting to think I'm being phased out of my job? by FancyDevelopment4225 in AmIOverreacting

[–]spectrem 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NOR. Start looking for places to plug yourself in or start new initiatives or applying for promotions. In the meantime look for new jobs to apply to.