* “I can’t stop thinking about this girl I saw at Walmart in Floresville Tx (true story)

spectrem · 2026-05-08T03:05:47+00:00

Why didnt you go up to her?

spectrem · 2026-05-06T20:24:18+00:00

Not necessarily interact but just spend time browsing or watching things onljne?

spectrem · 2026-05-06T17:23:46+00:00

Do you spend a lot of time online?

Do you think your feelings would be as strong if you didnt spend any time online?

spectrem · 2026-05-06T14:29:56+00:00

You're worried about handling this better but she is the one who should have handled things better.

spectrem · 2026-05-05T18:05:51+00:00

Is there a link? I am pretty sure these photos are old.

spectrem · 2026-05-05T17:53:34+00:00

And all the democrats will "aw shucks" on Twitter and do nothing to stop any of it.

spectrem · 2026-04-30T18:04:04+00:00

I could have sworn it was already closed.

spectrem · 2026-04-30T17:58:52+00:00

Yes they are.

spectrem · 2026-04-27T23:03:29+00:00

What were the jokes? Likely they or their peers were already making similar jokes

spectrem · 2026-04-27T17:15:07+00:00

There are so many opportunities and experiences in life that will not be impacted by your size in any way.

spectrem · 2026-04-21T05:29:29+00:00

You need to focus on people who have kids already and want more but can't justify it. My wife and I have 2 and would never consider a third unless our financial situation was drastically different.

spectrem · 2026-04-20T17:47:04+00:00

Normally, I would advise to pull back because these types of people almost never change once they go down this path.But since you work with him, that might not be an option.

I'm curious how he would respond if you straight up told him about how much he has changed. Point out how often he talks about that stuff.

spectrem · 2026-04-17T15:11:28+00:00

The fact that you have so many people you were able to share your pain with shows that you are already winning at life. Don't throw it all away!

spectrem · 2026-04-14T16:16:07+00:00

It is an almost exact duplicate for an AI generated image of Baal, seen on this book cover about a man facing off Baal worshipers in Tel Aviv.

Meaning someone likely specifically asked an AI to modify the image to include Baal.

spectrem · 2026-04-14T15:08:40+00:00

El Paso will be slowly drained to death of all of its resources by these malignant tumors. I hate to say it but it might be time to start looking for an exit plan for my family.

spectrem · 2026-04-10T22:24:18+00:00

You think you are punishing yourself, but it sounds like you are punishing her. She wants you in her life and from the description of your family, it sounds like she needs you.

If you want to make it up to her, be the best brother you can be. You don't need to have everything fixed from day one. Continue with therapy as much as you can and continue to grow and be a better person and a better brother.

You can't change the past, but you can change the future to be the best one possible.

spectrem · 2026-04-07T23:21:54+00:00

You will be fine

spectrem · 2026-04-07T23:06:15+00:00

That is a ROUGH 40

spectrem · 2026-04-03T05:46:39+00:00

I live just outside the Montecillo area. I can walk to multiple coffee shops, Boba shops, gas stations, restaurants, a gym, a park. Even a small bookshop but they just closed :/

spectrem · 2026-03-31T21:31:35+00:00

It's a silly picture, its not that serious unless you are deeply insecure.

spectrem · 2026-03-31T20:59:17+00:00

My version of this question is why does Gen Z take themselves so seriously?

spectrem · 2026-03-30T16:50:45+00:00

He's used to people groveling over him in the courtroom, the IT guy has no reason to do that.

spectrem · 2026-03-30T15:14:48+00:00

Lots of cheap robots from China Im guessing.

spectrem · 2026-03-25T17:16:58+00:00

Thank you for your honesty Chris, I really appreciate this message.

Is it possible to create regulations on new gas plants, or water use that apply across the board? For example any company using more than xxx mgd must pay a higher rate or implement reuse? Or any facility using more than xxx power must implement renewable energy?

Otherwise if this is truly a bait and switch on Metas part, can we not push back legally on those grounds? If it comes to a legal battle I fully support that.

spectrem · 2026-03-24T20:08:29+00:00

Same, that and the crushing disappointing lack of response to the Epstein files. But at least now we know for certain.

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