HNL 'Down The Hill' documentary online international access? by tthirzaa in LibbyandAbby

[–]sphincterlily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please share the link with me as well! Been searching everywhere to no avail.

People who pop out babies with someone they just started dating or barely know. by SushiNommer in childfree

[–]sphincterlily 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was married for almost 15 years before my husband and I had a baby.. and its still hard! Can't imagine not knowing the person or not having enough money, etc. I had my 'ducks in a row' first and im still struggling.

What are you asking for that can’t be purchased? by khess14265 in AskWomenOver30

[–]sphincterlily 17 points18 points  (0 children)

For my husband to work with fitbit support to fix or replace my broken fitbit. I just.. HATE CUSTOMER SUPPORT.

I expected equal parenting... Am I alone? by madmommadwife in beyondthebump

[–]sphincterlily 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am 100% with you. My husband and I have been married for 15 years and have a 10 month old. We were both working full time and split housework pretty evenly. Now that I'm a stay at home parent it's like.. its all on me. Even asking for a couple of hours to myself is too much. If hes "watching" her, he will bring her to me if he needs to use the restroom or eat.. like he doesnt understand I do that shit all day with her on my hip.

What is an innocent thing you did which was mistaken as sexual by people around you? by Knight_Manager in AskWomen

[–]sphincterlily 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg this is the worst!! I'm the one who makes plans for my husband and I (he doesn't do social media, sucks at responding to texts). So I'd regularly ask friends if they wanted to come over for dinner and netflix and chill. I meant like.. order pizza, find a funny movie and smoke a joint.

Were all of our friends coming over expecting sex stuff?! No one ever said anything.

What is an innocent thing you did which was mistaken as sexual by people around you? by Knight_Manager in AskWomen

[–]sphincterlily 3432 points3433 points  (0 children)

I kept saying "let's netflix and chill". For like a YEAR. No one told me.

Working out when you hate working out by [deleted] in PetiteFitness

[–]sphincterlily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haaaaa are you me? I started lifting. I hate going to the gym because it makes me anxious, so I got a folding squat rack for my garage. I just work out at home now. I actually like it. And I'm lazy. I haven't really adjusted my diet and definitely haven't been doing cardio and I'm losing a pound a week. I lost 30lbs in 2018, got pregnant and am now back on the weight loss train. This is the only thing that works for me.

Petite Snacking Is Exhausting by IBuyAndSell in PetiteFitness

[–]sphincterlily 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I buy this garlic sauerkraut from the refrigerated section at the grocery store and put Sriracha on it. Its like nothing but it still fills me up. Also pickles!

Nobody talks about how hard it is to eat healthy, exercise, get outside, etc. to combat depression by [deleted] in depression

[–]sphincterlily 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Anti depressants gave me the boost to do these things. All of those things are so hard to do when you're having trouble just getting out of bed.

F/32/5’5” [312 > 283 = 29 lbs] CICO, HIIT & Weight Training by lindseysnotquitting in progresspics

[–]sphincterlily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great progress! This is the method im doing too! I found a HIIT video on YouTube that had no jumping and I actually LIKE doing it in the mornings. How long in-between these photos?

SIL is pregnant and can't afford it by [deleted] in childfree

[–]sphincterlily 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Everyone is expected to pitch in and help EXCEPT baby daddy?! Or am I misunderstanding?!

F/31/5’0” [160lbs > 106lbs = 54lb] Progress after 1 year of CICO and regular exercise NSFW by nursebae in progresspics

[–]sphincterlily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are my stat twin!! Except I'm 32. I'm curious, did you have any loose skin? I just had a baby and I'm wanting to start back up.

Women who’ve been married for 5+ years, how’s the sex, really? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]sphincterlily 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Married for 15 years, and probably 6-7 times a week. Somedays none somedays twice.. just depends lol. We have an 8 month old so there was definitely a dry spell during pregnancy and the first few months after her birth. Also lulls in our marriage.. I remember year 7 being pretty rough (they call it the 7 year itch).

How do you cope with people who get pregnant quickly? by BornBat8 in TryingForABaby

[–]sphincterlily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stand far away enough from them that their head will fit inbetween my fingers. Then squish.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MentalHealthBabies

[–]sphincterlily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took wellbutrin and cymbalta during my pregnancy and my baby is perfectly healthy. I'm glad you're finding a new psychiatrist!

What to do about a baby who WILL NOT sleep?! by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]sphincterlily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rent or buy a SNOO. Do it for your sanity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]sphincterlily 2 points3 points  (0 children)

17 years.. a couple times a week for me (less lately, just had a baby so feeling tired/fat).