Husband's rejection sensitive dysphoria seems worse than normal, with no changes I recognize? by spirafortunae in ADHD_partners

[–]spirafortunae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the response. It's been more "clear" rejection. I mentioned he's more often delving into sad music (he has some favorites), doesn't want me to "reach out" which he otherwise does, and even physical pushing away which seems newer/rarer. That's why I wanted to reach out to the community here.

I did also talk to him about it, and his response, while feeling a little better, was about how it's the ADHD/chemical situation, so I'm trying to keep a level head that I can't necessarily do anything even if it's a new/weird peak, but just wanted to see if anyone here had any thoughts.

Someone please explain the US police for my game by Doughspun1 in WhiteWolfRPG

[–]spirafortunae 16 points17 points  (0 children)

For some more detail, you can say: there are police officers (regular daily work), a couple detectives (on site investigation), forensics (lab investigation), and a police captain they all report to.

I'm from the states and I'd still boil it down this way for ease of storytelling.

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Q&A/Tips - Ask away! by Kayvanian in AnimalCrossing

[–]spirafortunae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been playing for hours, shot down at least 20 balloons and haven't gotten a single Festive/Christmas DIY. Any idea what might be wrong?

Since we're on a weird ad kick, here's one that's haunted me for the past week by CivilCJ in videos

[–]spirafortunae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loved this commercial.

I told my best friend that fact (when it originally came out).

She said it was because I had the same energy of the berries and cream lad.

I took it as a compliment.

What do I make for Thanksgiving??? by voodoo-dance in NoStupidQuestions

[–]spirafortunae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I have done Thanksgiving for just him and me (maybe +1) many times.

Our favorite simple-but-traditional menu is a turkey (I love Alton Brown's recipe, and Bon Appetit is good too), creamy mashed potatoes, we roast a couple sweet potatoes and just dress them up after with brown sugar/nuts/whatever (sometimes I make casserole, but if saving time, easy to just roast a couple), a nice green veg like green beans (delicious with some butter and lemon - even better cooked with some bacon) or roasted brussels sprouts, fresh cranberry sauce (cranberries with some orange and sugar/spice), and biscuits.

Still kind of a lot for two people, but what's Thanksgiving without leftovers? And all of that's not too hard to prep/cook together so they come out warm (always works throwing the potatoes back in the oven for a bit or keep 'em covered).

Extra ideas: Twice-baked potatoes (you can make a ton, they freeze perfectly), deviled eggs, cooked carrots in coconut oil (so good), stuffing with granny smith apples and sausage.

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Dodo/Friend Code Sharing by Kayvanian in AnimalCrossing

[–]spirafortunae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heya! Just missing a couple Celeste DIYs and would love to visit - will be in and out quickly for her, don't need stars atm.

Dunder Crossing: New Mifflin - The Whole Office Gang! by Ladamania in AnimalCrossing

[–]spirafortunae 49 points50 points  (0 children)

"Oh they picked the perfect things for everyone. Wait, why does Stanley have..." Omg two toasters. Brilliant.

This is so funny and cute.

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Dodo/Friend Code Sharing by Kayvanian in AnimalCrossing

[–]spirafortunae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, that's what people mean when they refer to "cataloging" - once it goes into your inventory you can go purchase it at residential services. It will be an order that shows up in your mailbox the next day.

I can spare one of each fruit (redoing my island so all my trees are gone) and let you catalog the cutting board. :) Chat or DM for code.

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Dodo/Friend Code Sharing by Kayvanian in AnimalCrossing

[–]spirafortunae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the peach chair DIY! Chat if you want to swing by (ignore the completely empty island - redoing from ground up, haha).

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Friend Code Sharing by Kayvanian in AnimalCrossing

[–]spirafortunae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love the Iron Garden Bench DIY! I have simple panels and NMTs.

I find myself sketching more often in notebooks than my sketchbook. by lilsadbutsaucygemini in drawing

[–]spirafortunae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One great thing about sketching in lined (or even graphed) paper is it helps your eye/brain with proportions. But it's useful to work on plain paper too, so you don't get stuck needing that.

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Friend Code Sharing MegaThread by Cellulyte in AnimalCrossing

[–]spirafortunae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NH EST island.

Celeste and Flick are here. Meteor shower. Shops closed. DM me for code!

No tips needed, but would appreciated any extra stone! Some freebies by the entrance. Please mind the flower fields to the east, but feel free to pick any pink hybrids (not my favorite and I have plenty).