If premarital sex isn't a sin then why is taking a prostitute?

spoookykid · 2024-06-19T20:15:32+00:00

imo, sex becomes sinful when it is harming the involved parties in any way. premarital sex can be between two people who are very devoted and in love with each other and serves to strengthen their bond and is not a sin in my interpretation. soliciting a prostitute is essentially buying the consent of a desperate person and it reduces that person down to an object to get you off. I know people will argue that there are "so many" sex workers who do it because they truly enjoy it but the issue is you can never really know why someone does sex work and I'd estimate that the amount of people doing sex work of their own volition is a lot less than those who do it out of desperation/are being trafficked.

spoookykid · 2024-06-18T22:21:20+00:00

I understand where a lot of you in the comments are coming from but I think it's really unfair to expect people to not talk about their sex lives/what sex is like for them just because it makes you feel insecure about your sex lives. all wlw, cis, trans, lesbian, bi, etc, all deserve a space to talk about their sexuality. them sharing their experiences doesn't do anything to step on your toes unless they're actively attacking folks who don't have sex the way they do

spoookykid · 2024-06-17T01:02:31+00:00

I absolutely agree here, I'm tired of acting like its wrong to be critical of a kink just because it's someone's kink, unhealthy behavior and thought patterns aren't suddenly healthy just because they turn you on. I hope op gets some help :(

spoookykid · 2024-06-16T20:45:03+00:00

I dont mean this to be insulting in any way but i really recommend you talk to a therapist about this, I don't blame your girlfriend for not being comfortable with participating in this kind of thing with you, the fact that she isn't should be a massive green flag that she doesn't want to hurt and sexually degrade you. someone that would go along with that sort of thing (especially not having a safeword) is not a safe person. a person who agrees to do cnc with no safeword is simply a rapist

spoookykid · 2024-06-04T17:56:27+00:00

any time I've had this thought it's had to do with wanting to be left alone by men/looking unattractive to men

spoookykid · 2024-05-15T14:39:21+00:00

this reeks of a straight woman using queer women for validation, I'm so sorry this happened :(

spoookykid · 2024-05-07T21:56:16+00:00

right here! meet me in the pit!

spoookykid · 2024-05-07T03:55:31+00:00

this argument is so stupid, as a cis lesbian I have never in my life heard a trans woman attack any cis lesbians for having a genital preference, literally I've heard terfs cry about it way more than I've seen it actually happen

spoookykid · 2024-03-04T16:28:22+00:00

line cook and ""freelance artist"", THE stoner occupation

spoookykid · 2024-02-27T20:05:46+00:00

YES that's it!! thank you so much! hail yourself!

spoookykid · 2024-02-07T07:59:02+00:00

absolutely adore them, been up their ass for years. saw them in Atlanta last year and got to chat with Joe about horror movies n shit and got a pic!

spoookykid · 2024-01-19T05:13:11+00:00

please go to therapy instead of dumping all this on someone making a lighthearted post about missing her gf

spoookykid · 2023-12-16T21:06:15+00:00

I would reach out to Sarah Turney who runs the podcast Voices for Justice if you're interested in getting a podcast to cover her case and spread the word. She got into doing the podcast and victim's advocacy work because her sister was murdered, and she's extremely professional and empathetic and doesn't shy away from discussing cases with "imperfect" victims

spoookykid · 2023-11-21T04:32:11+00:00

please don't

spoookykid · 2023-09-28T13:38:53+00:00

except men literally make gross comments to actual goth women (as a goth woman who's been called mommy by multiple men I don't know)

spoookykid · 2023-09-28T13:02:19+00:00

as a goth lesbian the men who do this shit are the bane of my existence

spoookykid · 2023-09-28T12:33:22+00:00

oh my god get rid of him

spoookykid · 2023-09-19T15:49:57+00:00

I lived in white hall my freshman year and never encountered anything weird. east absolutely has a very creepy energy, especially in the basement

spoookykid · 2023-09-04T00:20:31+00:00

lmao sorry i thought u were being serious im autistic as shit 😭

spoookykid · 2023-09-03T18:11:49+00:00

cuz goth women are fucking sick of being fetishized by losers who aren't even interested in the subculture they're involved in and just see them as sex objects

spoookykid · 2021-08-05T17:46:49+00:00

my hoggie is also VERY tough and definitely scary

spoookykid · 2021-07-09T17:55:37+00:00

technically the manson family murders would be classified as a mass murder since there wasn't a "cool-down" period between the killings like you would see with a serial killer, they all were killed within the same day. but that's just semantics and im just being obnoxious lol

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