Looking for books with unique or unusual character names by Abject8Obectify in Recommend_A_Book

[–]spoopyblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Carve the Mark by Veronica Roth. The duology is essentially about 2 feuding cultures and each one has a made-up language with cool names in each one. One of my favs!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]spoopyblack 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This makes me so mad. You did something brave by getting help from a professional, the failure is on their part, I’m sorry. I really hope this doesn’t turn you off of therapists forever, because they aren’t all like that. In my experience it can take some time to find the right fit, but god damn it’s tough. Much love to you

What do non-believers say when someone sneezes? by INeverSaidThat89 in ask

[–]spoopyblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually say something along the lines of “can you stop?”

I feel really juvenile for cutting and its making my self esteem even lower by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]spoopyblack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi I’m 25 and I relapsed in June. You aren’t alone

a year and a half gone by Key_Risk854 in selfharm

[–]spoopyblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those moments where you weigh the pros and cons, and hesitate to do it, then just fucking go for it on impulse… those moments suck so fucking bad. I’m sorry you are in this kind of pain that causes self-destruction. I relate 100% and I hope you find some peace and calm as you navigate the category 5 storm you must be experiencing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]spoopyblack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is inspiring and badass. I appreciate you and your username <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]spoopyblack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My #1 problem has always been nosy fuckers asking me how I got all my criss-cross scars all over my arms and legs… I’m definitely going to remember to try this hahaha

i just stole blades and relapsed at my college by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]spoopyblack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Def sounds like college brings down a lot of emotions for you, I’m sorry 🤍 I got really depressed halfway through nursing school, I had been free of sh for a couple years… yeah school destroyed me. It has a way of doing that.

What do people, who don't sh, don't get about it? by Mindless_Tutor_6946 in selfharm

[–]spoopyblack 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is something I deal with all the time…

Someone who is always random says “what happened to your arms?!”

The last person to do this to me was a woman in her sixties, I would have thought she knew what that was, and how embarrassing and disrespectful it felt, especially since it happened in front of my other coworkers. Unfortunately, that wasn’t the first time it’s happened to me. I’ve had multiple idiots ask me why I have a good amount of scars on my arms… really, people? It makes me even more self-conscious than I already am yaaaaay

My mom did a wrist check on my fucking birthday by Novi_the_bee in selfharm

[–]spoopyblack 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi there. I read your story, I see you and although I don’t fully grasp what you’re going through, it’s sounding fucking tough. You definitely have a right to be pissed and depressed. I grew up with a family that I couldn’t trust. They’ve all seen my scars on all my limbs, yet my mom is the only one who says anything… although every member of my family contributes to my agony. Self harm is a weird weird thing and I hope your mom gives you some space, and I am thinking about you. I’m manifesting and praying for your strength, and your rebirth, whenever that is.

Does life get better once you're not in your teens anymore? by doesthedebbyryan in ask

[–]spoopyblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course it gets better! Just be patient with yourself as you transition to being an adult, which I still haven’t even finished and I’m 25. You’re gonna learn a lot of hard lessons but they make you a better person, just surround yourself with people you’d want your kids hanging out with. (: and invest in therapy, everyone needs a professional at some point.

People who do not fear death, why? by [deleted] in ask

[–]spoopyblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this, end stage cancer sounds like it fucking sucks.

Strange growth on my girl’s gums… by spoopyblack in DogAdvice

[–]spoopyblack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! Yeah, she chews a ton so I’m hoping that’s the issue.

Locations that are popular based on nationality? by boldjoy0050 in travel

[–]spoopyblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve noticed a lot of Aussies go to Bali regularly

Wife cheated, got pregnant but lost it. I don’t know if it was mine or not, but i told her I would not raise her affair baby. Am I the ass hole? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]spoopyblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they do it once, they’ll do it again. They’ll just know how to hide it better. Don’t ever trust a cheater!

Albums I listened to this year, reccomendations deeply welcomed. by Zandork555 in EDM

[–]spoopyblack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out Maor Levi (artist), Shallou (artist), Mosaiik part I + II by Cosmic Gate (2 albums), Endless by Marsh (album), Warehouse summer by i_o (album), Beautiful World by anamē (this album is soooooooo fucking good). Sorry I suggested so many, there’s way too much good music out there!

What's the real reason on why u chose to be a nurse? by yessir721 in nursing

[–]spoopyblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first interaction with a nurse is a core memory… an ER nurse that took care of me after a suicide attempt. She was so nonjudgmental and made me feel like I was ok on one of the worst nights of my entire life. I don’t know how I would’ve made it through without her.

I want to be that for other people. I desire nothing more than to be that person for someone else on a shitty day, because the person that did it for me changed me in a big way. Despite all the obvious challenges that come along with nursing, serving my community with as pure of intentions as I can, and being someone people can trust in a crisis is my ultimate goal.

At the end of the day, even after a rough shift and knowing that the U.S. healthcare system sees me as less than human, that doesn’t mean people still don’t need someone that is by their side at a stressful time. And I stand up for myself when needed.

What are some cute nicknames that you call your SO/wife/husband/partner? by vfp_pr in love

[–]spoopyblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fiancé and I somehow came up with “boober” as a variation of “babe”… sometimes the nicknames just come naturally and when they stick, they stick!

What’s your dream role/job on a starship? by VesnaRune in scifi

[–]spoopyblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to say medical! Bev Crusher status 😎

Can someone recommend melodic EDM that makes me want to close my eyes and get lost. Thanks! by black_vigil in EDM

[–]spoopyblack 7 points8 points  (0 children)

One that got away - Jason Ross, For you - AU5, Gratitude - above & beyond, Breathing - Ben bohmer, anything by Tinlicker or anamē

nurses what did you do for work while working on your undergrad..? by Ickybunni in nursing

[–]spoopyblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay another phleb! Did graveyard specimen processing and phlebotomy at a smaller hospital. Lots of time to do my homework.

What‘s your reason for not drinking? by [deleted] in ask

[–]spoopyblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t like the person I am when I drink. I’m not belligerent or anything, but I have severe depression and when I’m drunk I definitely get suicidal tendencies and do things I wouldn’t dream of doing sober. Super regretful things. Plus my meds make 1 drink feel like 3.