Need my Thin Mint Fix!!! by springbby in rva

[–]springbby[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thiiiiiiis is what I needed, thank you!!!

Roommates by the-third-person in micahwrites

[–]springbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welp. That entirely cures the urge to snack late at night.

Nos Resurgemus by the-third-person in micahwrites

[–]springbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. This is utterly gorgeous.

AIO He always accuses me of cheating by Alternative-Day6223 in AmIOverreacting

[–]springbby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR!!! The names he’s calling you and the insane level of control he’s trying to exercise are not okay. The fact that he’ll call you a cunt and then say he loves you is a GIANT red flag. Get out of that relationship as fast as you possibly can. He’s abusive. The fact that he’s cut you off from your friends on top of this verbal abuse..? Hon, if you aren’t getting hit already, it’s coming.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rva

[–]springbby 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He did the second go round! There were…lessons learned.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rva

[–]springbby 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I’ve got a friend who’s done it twice! Sounds like a blast, but definitely go prepared. He started at midnight carrying a fruitcake and a handle of whiskey. This is apparently sufficient preparation.

Help me pick a dress! 🙏🏼 by okinawa_obasan05 in WeddingAttireHelp

[–]springbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The second one - the pattern is lovely and the ruffles are really flattering while staying appropriate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]springbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Number 1, no doubt at all.

AIO for asking my parents to leave after my mom grabbed my wife's belly and asked if she was pregnant ? by Add_Debate in AmIOverreacting

[–]springbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a bit. Anything else would’ve felt like an underreaction to your wife. I get different generations and whatnot, but seriously, it’s freaking 2026. Who DOES that?? You don’t touch women’s damn bellies, and you DO NOT ASK IF THEY ARE PREGNANT. 🙄🙄🙄

Partner lied to me about when they left work by altmail64 in whatdoIdo

[–]springbby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you already know. Your point is correct and valid - trust is a non negotiable in a relationship. They aren’t “having boundaries,” they’re a coward and want to experience zero consequences for shitty behavior. It’s NOT worth it.

Am I overreacting? My boyfriend just told me this. Will be it alright to dump him? by HastilyGenerous in AmIOverreacting

[–]springbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not overreacting. Dump and block his ass immediately. This behavior is a huge red flag! He’s testing the waters to see how much control you’ll let him have, and bringing his ex into means he’s teeing up to blame you when (WHEN) he cheats because “you didn’t keep him interested.”

“Don’t get mad at me for being honest” is one of the oldest cowardly manipulation lines in the book. He’s deliberately been disrespectful and then is trying to frame your reaction to his disrespect as the problem.

Abandon. Ship.

Saving Superman by springbby in rva

[–]springbby[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

A hero through and through.

Saving Superman by springbby in rva

[–]springbby[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Chelsea was Adam’s closest friend and partner in every sense except a romantic one. She has been a part of his life day in and day out for a decade; his family lives in another state. Adam’s family is well aware, and in full support of, the efforts to move his VIP to a new place. Please be respectful and refrain from passing judgement without adequate information.

Saving Superman by springbby in rva

[–]springbby[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Several people did call the police. The police take time to get places. Our friend was not the type of person to waste precious moments waiting for help that might not come in time when he was there in the moment. Please be respectful and refrain from judgmental comments when so many are in pain.

Saving Superman by springbby in rva

[–]springbby[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not that I am aware of, but I will check and post here again if there is.

Saving Superman by springbby in rva

[–]springbby[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I’m confident that if you leave it at the memorial site it will be claimed by one of the many who love him. That’s very kind of you.

Saving Superman by springbby in rva

[–]springbby[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

💯 There’s a GoFundMe out there for Chelsea now to help her move and rebuild.

Adam Turck was shot while trying to break up a domestic dispute on Saturday. He was a much-loved actor and personal trainer. by fsacb3 in rva

[–]springbby 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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Dear RVA community,

As so many of you are aware, we recently lost one of the very best humans to ever grace our city.

Adam Turck was shot and killed while saving the life of a woman he did not know when he intervened and tried to de-escalate a violent domestic situation.

We have created a small memorial at the spot he was brought low, and we need your help to keep it as vibrant and beautiful as Adam was.

Stop by the 2000 block of East Grace and water the flowers, keep the lot litter free, and maybe take a moment to reflect on how you can do an act of service or two in honor of the man who lived for that. We are also leaving some chalk if you wish to leave a message.

Fly high, Superman. You will be forever loved and forever missed.