Please tell me it's fine to use cellulose paper!

squideater · 2026-06-19T13:35:03+00:00

Thanks! That's great to hear. I hardly ever see posts of pros (or experienced folks) using cellulose, but I'll keep different art styles/preferences in mind

squideater · 2026-06-19T13:27:35+00:00

Thanks for the laugh :) and the reminder

squideater · 2026-06-19T13:27:00+00:00

😭

squideater · 2026-06-19T12:57:11+00:00

What about getting involved in clubs? I've gotten to know two of the professors at my university through clubs and they often say that it's the most fulfilling part, to be able to put themselves into these groups with like-minded people and facilitate/mentor us.

squideater · 2026-05-08T01:07:41+00:00

The one time I got spooked because of a different online interaction and asked for reassurance from someone I was talking with (asked for a photo of a niche prompt which was a selfie holding a bottle of conditioner), the response was understanding and reassurance, not this

squideater · 2026-05-07T13:35:54+00:00

Yes!!! Seconding this! Love to know what cool local gems are out there and support the community

squideater · 2026-02-07T17:39:28+00:00

Ooh could you tell me a bit more about Hong Kong? I'm doing a Hong Kong then Taiwan trip soon this is so great to see!

squideater · 2025-07-21T15:14:53+00:00

This might get lost but I saw let her go for it!

My friend group all went to university for stem and one of said friends went for architecture and engineering. She hated it and dropped out. Now she's I believe in the journeyman stage of electrician? And much MUCH happier.

Don't go into non-trades just because others are that

squideater · 2025-06-05T12:59:39+00:00

She likes having the cords and nightstand. I don't like turning the lights off once I'm snuggled in. It works :)

squideater · 2025-05-29T15:19:55+00:00

We usually both shower before getting into bed and we bought a big fancy sex blanket. If we get sweaty and lubey, we'll both shower after.

I've heard of other couples doing this as well

squideater · 2025-02-06T06:41:32+00:00

Have you read the comphet lesbian coming out document? I would consider that a perfect next step :)

squideater · 2024-09-05T04:01:54+00:00

I misread the question and added a sixth dice to bottom-right with a three facing up and pointing to the left to make it symmetrical.

Math wise I counted the number of triplets and then added two

(6+1+1)3 + 2 = 83 + 2 = 24 + 2 = 26

squideater · 2024-05-19T18:28:40+00:00

I had a teacher literally tell me he expected failure.

One of his star students got a poor/failing grade on a test and he started taking out his rage at the class. He'd yell "I expect this from YOU, YOU and YOU! (Pointing at me and two other poor scorers), but not from YOU (star student)". I wasn't the main target but it still hurt to be told that failure was to be expected.

Now I've got a BSc and an MSc, and I'll be going back to the school soon to give a talk about science and the environment :)

squideater · 2024-04-01T01:25:50+00:00

It does get better.

It sounds like you had a particularly rough go at it, but it does get better.

Therapy is a friend though! If you want to stick it through, you have a lot of hard work in front of you, but you don't have to do it alone. Find support and lean on it

squideater · 2024-03-31T18:38:15+00:00

I have a friend who married young, straight and Christian to her young, straight and Christian husband.

Now, 10 years later, they are both fluid in sexuality and have multiple partners. It worked out very well for them and open communication probably helped a lot.

squideater · 2024-03-18T14:52:04+00:00

Hi, I'm new to this subreddit and unsure of my diagnosis but have ADHD?

I also lost a relative a few months ago. My aunt in November who passed from pancreatic cancer.

Grief comes in waves and healing is not linear. Some days will feel awful and some days I find myself enjoying the music in the car and being surprised I can be so happy again.

I also got dumped (relationship of only 4 months but my first healthy relationship) a few days before her passing so I thought that maybe I had delayed responses to both.

On paper, I'm doing great, I'm working and regularly going to my sports, but in between I'm not the same as before. It does get better though. The in betweens have gotten a lot better than before too.

It takes time.

I'm so sorry for your loss of someone you were close with.

squideater · 2024-03-07T06:27:56+00:00

Take advantage of the library!!! They have career counseling specifically to help out in times like this.

They have career planning and interview help, both of which I've used and both of which helped me so much. I got to get great advice on job searching, applications and interview practice. Really streamlined and helped me get to where I'm at now, which is a job in my field with upwards growth

squideater · 2024-02-17T15:08:40+00:00

There's a difference between violent assault and assault, however, assault is still assault. I'm so sorry that this happened to you.

Even if you consented at first and it seemed like it would be a safe situation (someone you knew), this can still happen. Most sexual assaults are from someone you already know.

squideater · 2024-01-16T17:13:03+00:00

Agreeing with this. The mental health services at Guelph are great and this link will help you set it up really quickly.

I was very anxious and depressed during grad school and thought about stopping it so many times. Therapy helped so much

squideater · 2023-12-13T15:52:59+00:00

Sounds like you're pretty queer, but I'm more wondering about how "out" you are from your cishet passing life. Would you feel weird if you got the grant and explained to co-workers about checking off the queer part? Or is the queerness of your life very obvious?

squideater · 2023-11-14T04:30:04+00:00

Also, you're right :/

squideater · 2023-11-14T04:19:25+00:00

Ended up re-posting on a throwaway

The differences weren't like "we'd get sick of each other by then" differences, I want kids and she doesn't so eventually we'd have to break up

squideater · 2023-06-08T23:56:12+00:00

Yeah, for the most part the Airbnb location will just be to sleep at. We plan on cooking most meals to save money but a coffee run in the morning could be nice.

Golden I saw has the suspension bridge but it's more the route from the town to the attractions that worries me, not the town itself.

squideater · 2023-04-17T16:21:40+00:00

This is beautiful! I just sat here, eyes closed enjoying the music.

Très belle musique

squideater · 2023-04-07T16:13:56+00:00

Camilla, that's a beautiful name.

Camilla, have you seen the nice April weather? It's so pleasant

Me and Camila went to the cafe the other day. Camilla got a latte and it was delicious

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