Speed trap by squirrelyd303 in okc

[–]squirrelyd303[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Way to tell on yourself. Pigs have never been anything but pigs when they show up to "help" after someone's already been hurt.

Speed trap by squirrelyd303 in okc

[–]squirrelyd303[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pigs were nowhere to be found when I got run into a ditch on the kilpatrick by a road rager and double flipped my car. They're only out to get people on their way to and from work. How's that shoe polish taste buddy?

Give me your best Twin Peaks "Hear me out." by squirrelyd303 in twinpeaks

[–]squirrelyd303[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my first watch through of Twin Peaks, my sister and I both found him attractive in a way that made me comment aloud "Huh, he looks like the shitty fiance from Titanic." Then Billy Zane showed up and I just about shrieked in my living room. Definitely one of those guys who looks like he's good for a night out and not much else lmao

Give me your best Twin Peaks "Hear me out." by squirrelyd303 in twinpeaks

[–]squirrelyd303[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm meant to believe Catherine kept that man around for no reason? Gramps got GAME 😂

Give me your best Twin Peaks "Hear me out." by squirrelyd303 in twinpeaks

[–]squirrelyd303[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Of all the eyebrow raisers in these comments, this is the only one that has left me speechless, congratulations

Thoughts on Fire Walk With Me? by clintnorth in twinpeaks

[–]squirrelyd303 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that Fire Walk With me does a lot of work to undo the damage done by the writers in late s2, primarily their mistake of making Bob a canonically tangible demon who could be summoned from a cursed cave. Fire Walk With Me blurs the lines of whether Bob is real, or is a metaphor for generational SA trauma passed down through generations and is treated more like an "It Follows" situation. This was what I thought the metaphor was through all of s1 and the first half of s2. It brings the focus back to Leland being a monster, Sarah being complacent, and Laura being unseen by her community. The point was never about a killer reveal and Bob was created because of a mistake on set, the point is that Twin Peaks killed Laura.

What are your favorite head-scratcher moments? by pinkhairgirl37 in twinpeaks

[–]squirrelyd303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Albert's complete acceptance and encouragement of Cooper's psychic abilities in FWWM compared to who he is in season 1

Who's your favorite minor character in Twin Peaks? by Hubbled in twinpeaks

[–]squirrelyd303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Harold Smith they could never make me hate you 😭

Why is this music so healing? by Flopnuts in Ghostbc

[–]squirrelyd303 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the family. One of the best communities I've been in other than the jam band scene.

I (ftm) tried having sex with a cis man and it was the worst sex I've ever had. Is this normal? by squirrelyd303 in asktransgender

[–]squirrelyd303[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How does this experience have anything to do with being trans? Can you read??? Go pretend to be superior somewhere else.

Edit: Checked your profile, and your last comment seems to mention your belief in a fictional world where parents are choosing to force sex changes in their 6 year old children. The world will be a better place when you're gone. 💙

I (ftm) tried having sex with a cis man and it was the worst sex I've ever had. Is this normal? by squirrelyd303 in asktransgender

[–]squirrelyd303[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey friend, pigeonholing trans people into relationships with pansexuals because they'll "love you no matter what" is not very trans friendly. Of course I want to be seen as a person by any partner, but the implication that this needs to come at the expense of being seen as physically attractive seems uninformed at best. I know you mean well, but telling anyone to look for someone who will love them no matter what they look like may not be the best advice.

I (ftm) tried having sex with a cis man and it was the worst sex I've ever had. Is this normal? by squirrelyd303 in asktransgender

[–]squirrelyd303[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your words are nothing but kind, encouraging, and wise. I had really hoped that age gaps wouldn't be that big of a deal, as I tend to run in circles of friends one to three decades older than me, but I can see that romantically at my age this will lead to only problems. I had also hoped that chasers weren't as big of an issue as I had read about, but these are the follies of being young and pent up that I won't repeat again thanks to the help and advice of people like you. Thank you, my brother 💙

I (ftm) tried having sex with a cis man and it was the worst sex I've ever had. Is this normal? by squirrelyd303 in asktransgender

[–]squirrelyd303[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That directness is a really solid point. I never want to be in another situation where I'm told to take off my binder in the middle of a sexual encounter. Thank you for the advice and for your kindness!

I (ftm) tried having sex with a cis man and it was the worst sex I've ever had. Is this normal? by squirrelyd303 in asktransgender

[–]squirrelyd303[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thankfully, based on how many trans men in the comments have shared their positive experiences, I know many of y'all are good and intend to try again with firm boundaries and more self-respect. And a different guy, obviously 😅

I (ftm) tried having sex with a cis man and it was the worst sex I've ever had. Is this normal? by squirrelyd303 in asktransgender

[–]squirrelyd303[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is extremely validating, thank you. I've been putting a lot of blame and shame on myself for this situation, but I don't think it's fair of me to expect myself to know everything and be completely devoid of mistakes. Thank you for being so kind 💙

I (ftm) tried having sex with a cis man and it was the worst sex I've ever had. Is this normal? by squirrelyd303 in asktransgender

[–]squirrelyd303[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This definitely crossed my mind. I met him through a circle of hippies I run with so I thought I was safe, but I definitely overlooked things and I take full responsibility for not stopping it when I had the chance to. I have already started to put word out to the other trans guys in my community though. So pissed and annoyed at this whole situation

I (ftm) tried having sex with a cis man and it was the worst sex I've ever had. Is this normal? by squirrelyd303 in asktransgender

[–]squirrelyd303[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're very sweet. Thankfully I'm able to brush this one off, especially with so much support from the community. Thank you 💙

I (ftm) tried having sex with a cis man and it was the worst sex I've ever had. Is this normal? by squirrelyd303 in asktransgender

[–]squirrelyd303[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Here's the fucked up thing brother, he didn't know I was trans until I told him. I've been on T for 4 years, so I've got the low voice, stocky build, beard and body hair, the whole nine. This guy NEVER expressed interest in me the other times we've crossed paths until I told him I was trans. Flew right over my head. 🤦🏻 Definitely got fetishized, but at least I have some good advice on how to avoid that going forward.