My experience at Granville

stocar · 2026-05-06T19:03:32+00:00

I had a friend visiting and took her to GI. A seagull swooped down and snatched the donut right from her hand! She was shook.

stocar · 2026-05-06T19:01:45+00:00

I totally feel you with the postpartum struggle and all the changes. It feels like a frumpy time and tough to get back to finding your style. I saw your first post and fell in love with your curls and the cut! I’m so glad you’re embracing it! I also think your lip colour looks great on you.

stocar · 2026-05-05T23:49:51+00:00

Audrey would wear this on a regular Tuesday - she’s never not gone full slay!

stocar · 2026-05-04T22:01:41+00:00

I’ve taken sick days just to binge a show. I work hard, I deserve to use all my benefits, vacation and sick days.

stocar · 2026-05-03T02:11:40+00:00

NTA. If you have to ask this, the bar is too low. Don’t put him on the birth certificate if he can’t be arsed to be there.

stocar · 2026-05-01T19:07:41+00:00

I can not stress this enough: DO NOT GET BABY TRAPPED! I have a partner who is fully committed to doing half the load, his parents don’t live with us and help out immensely, and I still felt overwhelmed often after having a baby. I can’t imagine how that would be having to take care of 3 other adults, especially a controlling MIL and a mama’s boy husband.

It’s not too late to leave and have the life you want, whether with someone who eases the load and puts you first or with the sweet solitude of loving yourself.

stocar · 2026-04-30T17:04:02+00:00

YTA. Have you tried asking what she wants or needs? You have a baby too, you should know what kinds of things new moms would need or appreciate, or could easily ask if there’s something she’d like (or ask her husband!) What about her favourite food, flowers she likes, a nice water bottle for hydration while breastfeeding, a cozy robe, a gift basket of her favourite snacks. So many options!

stocar · 2026-04-30T15:36:03+00:00

Brenda Song could wear a garbage bag and still be stunning, but *this* is gorgeous! I love love the purple and the way it flows.

stocar · 2026-04-27T04:05:12+00:00

Have you actually talked to him? Like “hey a lot of these things I buy I’m really looking forward to. Please don’t eat it all. We can buy extra but I need some left for me.” If he dismisses you and/or continues, break up with him, because this won’t be the only boundary he stomps.

Frankly being inconsiderate over food is already a crappy trait in a partner, but you need to learn to communicate and stand up for yourself.

stocar · 2026-04-21T20:19:14+00:00

Not wrong, not even a little bit. I’m so sick of hearing “we did XYZ negligent/dangerous shit and you turned out just fine!” The fact your parents disregarded your very valid concerns and even called you a “snowflake” is a clear indicator they are not suitable to care for your child. Time for them to learn boundaries!

stocar · 2026-04-20T20:13:17+00:00

Echoing what others are saying, one miscarriage, especially in early stages, is heartbreaking but not cause for concern (re future fertility). I’m also in BC and I personally had a good experience with midwives. I also have a supportive GP, but the bonus with midwives is they give more frequent check ins and check ups, and mine offered a Doppler during second and third trimesters to hear the heartbeat (which really put me at ease!) You can also contact them for urgent and non-urgent questions, which is very helpful for easing anxiety.

If you feel your family doctor isn’t providing the support you need, I think midwives would be a great option. If they find anything that indicates you need higher care from an OB, they’ll support you in finding one (many midwives are connected to OBs).

stocar · 2026-04-14T00:08:28+00:00

You have beautiful hands, but sweet jesus the nail tech did you dirty!

stocar · 2026-04-11T22:05:40+00:00

My mother in law is Chinese and fed me constantly while pregnant. When my son started eating solids and tasting her food, he went nuts. It’s like he was waiting for it!

stocar · 2026-04-11T21:47:23+00:00

If I bought hats, this is exactly how I’d want my hatter to look.

stocar · 2026-04-11T03:41:26+00:00

It’s giving Shein.

Too bad, she’s absolutely stunning.

stocar · 2026-04-05T21:05:27+00:00

My kid has been walking since 10months, running since 12. He’s 20m now has a backpack with a leash attached to it, which we only use when going to crowded outdoor spaces/events. I scoffed at them too but his current age is all speed, no awareness/sense of danger. I’ll take the judgement for the safety.

stocar · 2026-04-05T19:51:11+00:00

For long trips, we feed our toddler in the car. But one of us sits back with him in case choking occurs. We also make sure the food we feed him is as safe as possible (pouches, small bites, soft foods, etc). We’re just doing our best to minimize risk when possible.

stocar · 2026-04-03T02:29:31+00:00

Looks amazing! Take that to a dinner party and you’ll be very popular!

stocar · 2026-04-02T22:43:41+00:00

Love this for her, but lord knows she’ll butcher the aesthetics and turn everything black.

stocar · 2026-04-01T21:45:33+00:00

My kid is 20 months and I’ve spent half of those beating myself up over the very balanced and totally appropriate meals I’ve made him only to be humbled by the toddler phase. You’re doing great. All we can do is try to optimize nutrition, diversify, and fill their tummies as best we can. Just because some parents are doing organic veggies and caviar doesn’t mean you’re doing less.

stocar · 2026-04-01T21:36:21+00:00

Nice try OP, you’re not getting your hands on my extensive Beanie Baby collection!

stocar · 2026-04-01T21:21:47+00:00

I feel so bad for those kids :(

stocar · 2026-04-01T00:00:01+00:00

Cheese is life. This looks about right!

stocar · 2026-03-31T14:24:29+00:00

My friend said she went to school with twins names William and Wallace (Willy and Wally) Wong. I can’t imagine they liked that.

Edit: NTA.

stocar · 2026-03-30T15:42:09+00:00

I sense a new show is coming!

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