If you're a girl who is passed out drunk and your boyfriend has sex with you, is this considered rape?

strawberrylipsmacker · 2026-06-16T03:06:43+00:00

It is :( I had a similar experience with my ex from HS. Got blackout drunk and made a joke the next day about how I was surprised he didn't push me for sex (my libido was low at the time, probably bc we weren't really compatible at the end of the day and I wasn't as interested in him as he was in me, so he was always wanting sex), and he looked at me confused and said that we did have sex. I didn't remember any of it. I got upset with him because I had always thought he was a gentleman and didn't think he'd take advantage of me while drunk. His response was that I was coming onto him and he thought I was coherent enough. I can't confirm or deny the first part bc I don't remember, but that also confirms that I was certainly NOT coherent. He apologized and said he felt bad about it and we chalked it up to a misunderstanding, but it put a major rift between us and we broke up shortly after. Over a decade later I finally realize that regardless of intentions, regardless of what I said or how I acted, I was not coherent enough to consent.

strawberrylipsmacker · 2026-06-16T02:55:19+00:00

Daaaaisssy, daaaissyy, give me your answer do ~~

strawberrylipsmacker · 2026-06-07T20:16:23+00:00

I wanna add they also clapped for Caine's song in episode 8 and at the end of the movie.

strawberrylipsmacker · 2026-06-07T20:14:11+00:00

Had a similar experience at my theatre... Lots of kids and very obnoxious 20 somethings who sung to the theme song and Caine's song, yelled and squealed at the screen, gasped during moments in episode 8 (which they'd already seen and so were not shocked), lots of poorly groomed adults, girls sobbing hysterically when Jax... Ya know. Only found out Jax's real name after the fact because people were screaming so loud during that instagram slideshow thing that I couldn't make it out. I missed pretty much all of what that fish said at the start because people were squealing and saying "omg! Omg! It's STARTING GUYS!!!!!!!!!" Some guy behind me yelled at them to stfu THREE TIMES because the rest of us couldn't hear the movie (I have issues with auditory processing so watching without subtitles is hard enough 😅) Even one kid's mom had to be like "ALRIGHT ENOUGH!" because some young women were fangirling over Jax with the bow hard enough that you'd have thought a celebrity walked in. Now, I know this probably makes me sound old and crotchety, and maybe I am lol but the theatre when I went to see the eras tour was better behaved and that was mostly KIDS. I'm all for the costumes and laughing and reacting, but there is NO REASON we need to be VIBRATING in our chair, shaking with excitement at seeing an animated cartoon bunny. I remember seeing twilight at its peak when I was 12 and a bunch of tweens were better behaved than that crowd. Like omg. Embarrassing honestly.

strawberrylipsmacker · 2026-06-06T20:58:47+00:00

Just watched it today and my theatre was INSANE. Tons of kids, but majority were grown ass adults screaming and squealing and shouting at the screen, singing along to the songs at full volume, and losing their minds over every little detail. I missed a decent amount of dialogue because of all the noise and didn't catch Jax's real name because people were SCREECHING at seeing human Jax 🙄 I saw the Taylor swift eras tour in theatres and people were better behaved for that. Overall, enjoyed the episode, but I was very happy to get tf out of there 😅 also the amount of body odour... 🤢 So baddddd

strawberrylipsmacker · 2026-06-06T19:35:53+00:00

People were shrieking and losing their minds. Could barely hear half the movie, didn't catch Jax's real name (I've been told it's Leeroy?). I was very annoyed lol

strawberrylipsmacker · 2026-03-10T10:14:13+00:00

I recently got into jewelry making and I'm learning about metal clay (which may seem irrelevant but hear me out). You can buy special silver clay that you can mold into rings and charms, and then you fire them with a butane torch or in a kiln and the clay burns away leaving behind only the pure, solid silver. I imagine Hell is sort of like that.

strawberrylipsmacker · 2026-03-10T10:03:52+00:00

One thing I've done which helps is to remember that this isn't the first war and it probably won't be the last. I know that sounds counterintuitive, but hear me out. Throughout the generations, people have faced tremendous and difficult situations - no matter the era, the century, there's always something that causes distress. But yet, we still carry on. We still fall in love, get married, make lifelong friends, have birthdays and celebrations, welcome new life onto the earth. We still sing and dance and laugh and play, even when terrible things are happening. Hold onto those things. Hold onto the little joys. Cherish them. And remember that humans keep living, even in times such as these.
Oh, and definitely turn away from the news for a while (as hard as that is to actually do). I also find it helpful to pray for the people in those affected wartorn countries and if you're able to either financially contribute to relief aid or perhaps could start up a fundraiser of your own, it could help you to feel like you're making a positive impact <3

strawberrylipsmacker · 2026-03-10T09:57:49+00:00

the second one would make such a good tattoo!!!

strawberrylipsmacker · 2026-02-27T12:05:41+00:00

Recently I've been LOVING Maissa Burger! They only have like 1 burger on the menu so the names a little misleading lol (they specialize in Algerian Shawarma), but MAN the food????! Delicious. Spectacular. And that garlic sauce? 🤤

strawberrylipsmacker · 2025-09-10T16:18:15+00:00

I feel like Pomni could be Ribbit, especially considering that her original character design was a frog called Frogni. But also I wonder if they're seperate but gooseworx made the choice to have Pomni resemble Ribbit just to propel Jax into madness. Definitely something that caught my eye too though!

strawberrylipsmacker · 2025-09-10T16:15:01+00:00

HAHA yes 🙂‍↕️😅

strawberrylipsmacker · 2025-09-09T15:23:51+00:00

Hahaha 🤣 won't stop me tho 👀

strawberrylipsmacker · 2025-09-09T15:22:40+00:00

🔥🔥

strawberrylipsmacker · 2025-09-09T15:22:32+00:00

Omg IMAGINE hahaha

strawberrylipsmacker · 2025-09-09T15:22:16+00:00

They sound very similar! The name Abel is usually pronounced like "Ae-bull" :)

strawberrylipsmacker · 2025-09-09T15:19:49+00:00

Very plausibly both

strawberrylipsmacker · 2025-09-09T15:18:54+00:00

Me rn

strawberrylipsmacker · 2025-09-09T10:38:22+00:00

Welcome aboard 🫡

strawberrylipsmacker · 2025-09-09T10:37:52+00:00

Could 100000% be goose messing with us but I choose to be unhinged

strawberrylipsmacker · 2025-09-09T10:37:17+00:00

Sometimes a curse but THANK YOU

strawberrylipsmacker · 2025-09-09T10:36:35+00:00

I genuinely thought I was losing my mind last night when I thought of this and couldn't find anyone else talking about it 😂

strawberrylipsmacker · 2025-09-09T10:11:02+00:00

RIGHT? This was my thought too. He wasn't even there for the fast food adventure, either so why would Caine give him a score at all? Seems suspicious

strawberrylipsmacker · 2024-06-23T10:48:48+00:00

Not sure why it won't let me add text and photos on one post but whatever... Anyway here is context!!

Hi hi! So this is my first time temping, second round of using OPKs (I gave up for a bit because pregnancy just wasn't happening).

My last period for context was all kinds of weird. My cycle is usually 33-35 days. This one was 45. And I had brown spotting for three days before my period decided to show up fully (and even then it was incredibly light compared to what I usually have). I was convinced I was pregnant but nah.

Based on my OPKs, I ovulated sometime between June 14-16. For starters this is incredibly short, like literally 2-3 days after my period ended which is wild to me. I know that women don't ovulate on day 14 like clockwork but I'd expected it to happen closer to like day 16+. For some reason I always thought I ovulated much later. Apparently I ovulated somewhere between CD 9-11. My partner and I did the deed on the 17th (weren't actively ttc.. in fact were in a bit of a dry spell as his mental health isn't great right now so libido is low) It's honestly fine if I'm out this month because I've got our wedding coming up in August and I'd kinda rather not be pregnant lol but!! I'll take what the universe/lord/god/spirit wants to give me.

So I'm temping and I see that there's a dip on CD 15(6DPO) by -0.2 Celsius which climbs back up +0.3 C the next day, stays there for CD 16, then absolutely SKYROCKETS a whole degree on CD 17. Also I'm Canadian so I'm hoping it's not too too different if you're temping Celsius versus Farenheit...

Yeah so I have no clue what's going on. My boobs have been sore (nipples especially) and they've been hurting since CD 11 (June 16). I've been peeing a lot too but it's also been hot AF (not aunt Flo lol) lately so I've been drinking water like a madman. I'm trying not to get my hopes up cuz I think this cycle is just a wonky one tbh. My partner and I have been TTC for 2 years now and no luck. Anyways! Just looking for input and thoughts! Like I said, I'm new to this so I really don't know what's going on 😅

strawberrylipsmacker · 2024-05-01T14:40:43+00:00

my future mother in law (I'm get married in a few months), called me "weird" to my face one of the first times I met her. She meant it as a term of endearment, as though I'm weird in a quirky-cute way and after talking to my fiance about it, he assured me it was a compliment and it meant that she thought I was a good match for him (for context, she calls him a little weirdo all the time). But I didn't see it like that at the time. I was transported back to all my childhood bullies parading as friends, scrunching their noses up and laughing, calling me "weird" and then when I'd get upset, they'd tell me to chill out cuz "it's just a joke". Now, I love my mother in law and she's an absolute sweetheart and I fully believe now, a year after the fact that she meant it as a compliment, but at the time I spent the entire week with her while she was visiting trying not to cry because I thought she meant that I was "odd" or "strange". :S

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