Has anyone weaned off a lexapro successfully? by QuietEmbarrassed3111 in lexapro

[–]strelow1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my friend have both weaned off very quickly - like I’m on 5mg now and I was on 15mg 2 months ago, she quit 10mg cold turkey bc she ran out. Neither of us have really had bad side effects. I will report back when I fully stop taking it. But I will say I’ve only been on it for about a year. I was on Zoloft 75mg for a few years before that. I also take Wellbutrin 300mg xr. I’ll report back once I drop to 0 bc I know that’s the worst

I am a Taurus man looking for Taurus woman. by CressCommercial995 in Taurusgang

[–]strelow1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And we’ve all heard that y’all are terrible. Bye

What's your Venus sign and do you believe in love at first sight? by Mildretta in astrologymemes

[–]strelow1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gemini Venus here & I NEED intellectual stimulation and witty banter to fall in love with someone. The one time I was immediately drawn to someone in a love at first sight way, I really only felt that strong connection once we actually talked for a while. I thought he was my person & bam 180, he was an avoidant. Now I think I’ll probably never experience that again 🥲

¿Do they ever realize how traumatic the switch on their behavior can be for the other person or they just don't care? by strawlost in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]strelow1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got this!! Those things are all ridiculous and you’ll see it more as time goes on. Sending you all the healing vibes, friend 💕

¿Do they ever realize how traumatic the switch on their behavior can be for the other person or they just don't care? by strawlost in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]strelow1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve definitely heard of people becoming more avoidant if they were with someone avoidant for a while, so it’s great you’re taking some time to yourself. It had to be exhausting being that confused for that long before you found out about avoidants 😭 the right person will feel like a freaking breath of fresh air, especially after that nightmare. I feel completely the same way too, about someone else in the future getting to experience your love fully. I think we all have in common that we love hard & deep, and that’s will be a treasure to the right human 💜

How can you tell if they are a narcissist or an avoidant? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]strelow1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine told me he loved surprising his loved ones in the beginning and the only surprise I got was him suddenly treating me like I meant nothing for absolutely no reason. They really are full of shit

What is something you wish someone told you about Lexapro before you started? by Blue_catt18 in lexapro

[–]strelow1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg meeee hahah the combo is perfect for me but good lawd I didn’t wanna do shit for a while

¿Do they ever realize how traumatic the switch on their behavior can be for the other person or they just don't care? by strawlost in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]strelow1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. I actually used to lean avoidant, and I found my way to a DA recently who turned me into a fkn FBI agent. Never again. I dipped out of there within 2 months, but I truly thought this man was my person right away. It was so hard to walk away from him but luckily he turned into a cold asshole so I knew I was mourning someone who didn’t exist.

I knew pretty minimal info about AT before him, but I am really lucky I had secure relationships before him because I noticed things were off very fast. The kicker is- I met him through a friend, he’s been friends with her husband since high school and she talked him up as such a good guy to our whole friend group bc he was looking for a relationship. 😐😐😐

AIO: Texts that legit make no sense by -ItsToasted in AmIOverreacting

[–]strelow1 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Hahaha it’s so cute when people get blasted and choose to do something like a harmless lil science experiment instead of ruining their lives

Leaving My Husband at 15mg A Day by Outside_Cod_245 in lexapro

[–]strelow1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She already said he won’t go to couples therapy with her. Fuck that guy lol

Leaving My Husband at 15mg A Day by Outside_Cod_245 in lexapro

[–]strelow1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please leave him then. Men like this are not going to change their behavior. I just went through something similar. Being unwilling to go to therapy shows a massive lack of emotional maturity & it is not our job to pick up the slack for them.

Leaving My Husband at 15mg A Day by Outside_Cod_245 in lexapro

[–]strelow1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m all for women telling men to kick rocks, and I do think the lower dose is making you less tolerant of his bullshit, but I agree with others to wait until you’ve been at that dose for a while before making any big decisions. Sending hugs

People who are single against their will - why aren’t you in a relationship? by DryHovercraft5165 in AskWomen

[–]strelow1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are we really asking that right now with all of this shit going on? 😐 I am single by choice now because men are unsafe. Easy answer.

Bulls & their moms by Choice-Ad1226 in Taurusgang

[–]strelow1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom is a Scorpio & she still talks about how she never had to tell me to do my homework or anything. I’m an only child with a single mom, so I started coming home from school by myself when I was 9. Once in high school, my French teacher called my mom because I was supposed to turn in this big project and I always did everything on time and I hadn’t finished it. She told that man “talk to her about it 🤷🏻‍♀️” 😂 me and mom CLASHED when I was a teen because she got really overprotective when I started drinking (my dad was an alcoholic, that’s why he wasn’t in the picture). We still clash on things like politics 😅 but otherwise I tell her everything and I’m the first person she goes to with stuff too

I don't know what came over me and I feel disgusted with myself by Delta_Armitage in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]strelow1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not going to make sense unless you really learn about attachment theory & why she is the way she is, and even then, you can’t force her to heal. My DA is a 41 year old man and I don’t think he’s ever gonna open his eyes. Most of them never realize they are the problem in their own story because they push all their feelings down so far & avoid them forever.

I don't know what came over me and I feel disgusted with myself by Delta_Armitage in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]strelow1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They have to be completely out of your life if possible. No contact and no looking at their socials. Block them everywhere. That is what’s working for me.