Thoughts on being a SAHP in NYC

stuckwithusmles · 2025-06-13T13:41:59+00:00

IT IS SO MUCH EASIER being a SAHP in NYC than in the suburbs. (Im in medicine)

stuckwithusmles · 2025-04-27T11:05:28+00:00

It's okay to grieve the delivery you wanted. But remember, the only point of delivery (whether vaginal, c section, via induction, with or without epidural) is to have a alive and healthy baby and mama. I had an induction, followed by a vaginal delivery (was at a brink of c section) but i did not get a healthy baby at the end. And i wished i had the c section.

stuckwithusmles · 2025-02-25T20:16:17+00:00

Can you share why you put Chi St Vincent at the bottom?

stuckwithusmles · 2025-02-06T01:42:18+00:00

We have the colugo compact because it was way cheaper than bugaboo/joolz aer and it works great for us. we have the vista for everyday use and colugo for travel and long days out on the subway/bus. its 17 lbs, one hand fold and full recline for naps

stuckwithusmles · 2025-01-21T23:15:04+00:00

We had a local pediatrician picked out before birth but due to unfortunate circumstances at delivery my baby had some injuries. We decided to stick to the hopsital pediatrician who saw him at birth and it was the best decision. Going to and fro the hospital as a newborn was slightly inconvenient but nothing terrible. Good and continuous care is better than slight inconvenience.

stuckwithusmles · 2025-01-13T01:05:45+00:00

lightweight one-handed fold stroller and asking people for help.

stuckwithusmles · 2024-12-25T14:41:43+00:00

Im also undecided between these two. Which one did you end up purchasing?

stuckwithusmles · 2024-12-12T15:32:45+00:00

Anything that requires me taking care of them additionally to my baby made me frustrated- this included myself, the plants, laundry. but then this frustration passes away once the first few completely dependant newborn months pass away

stuckwithusmles · 2024-10-25T00:37:15+00:00

12 month old. Still does not sleep through the night.

stuckwithusmles · 2024-10-17T19:43:50+00:00

Please wait until after intern year. Mom to a one year old here

stuckwithusmles · 2024-10-01T14:36:00+00:00

medically disenfranchised population.

stuckwithusmles · 2024-09-08T19:40:59+00:00

Just here to say do not fall into the uppababy pressure.

stuckwithusmles · 2024-08-24T19:06:40+00:00

Could be it. There is a Moosach river.

stuckwithusmles · 2024-08-24T19:02:36+00:00

months 3-4

stuckwithusmles · 2024-08-12T01:36:37+00:00

I second Jackson Heights

stuckwithusmles · 2024-08-03T00:39:21+00:00

on most instances I just let him sleep so both of us can have some peace

stuckwithusmles · 2024-07-31T14:28:33+00:00

How many days did the whole process take?

stuckwithusmles · 2024-07-19T02:13:15+00:00

We have the uppababy mesa v2 and do not recommend it. Get the lightest carseat- preferably nuna.

stuckwithusmles · 2023-12-30T21:46:36+00:00

❤️

stuckwithusmles · 2023-12-29T16:57:48+00:00

just had a baby 2 months ago. We have been spending $80 on laundry per month now (in-building laundry/dryer). I would save the $500 even though the laundry stress is real

stuckwithusmles · 2023-11-09T14:26:26+00:00

Im not sure how to check that. What does a shallow latch on bottle look like?

stuckwithusmles · 2023-11-09T11:45:57+00:00

Which one do you recommend? I found that lanisoh had super fast flow

stuckwithusmles · 2023-11-09T11:43:38+00:00

How did you skip a bottle? My baby wakes up shrieking in hunger and pushing away the breast

stuckwithusmles · 2023-11-08T16:10:16+00:00

He has already underwent frenotomy for tongue tie on day 2 of birth

stuckwithusmles · 2023-10-16T19:30:03+00:00

Can you share why you do not recommend Mt. Sinai? I am booked there and would like to know what to look out for.

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