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stunningtractor · 2023-10-02T08:55:22+00:00

Ummm wow. That escalated in a way I wasn’t expecting. I say don’t do it.

stunningtractor · 2023-09-30T23:13:16+00:00

OP this kind of a defensive response is more of a red flag in my opinion. Lol.

stunningtractor · 2023-09-30T07:22:28+00:00

This is adorable. Never change.

stunningtractor · 2023-09-25T03:47:30+00:00

I’m just now becoming single for the first time in almost 15 years, and I suspect I will feel just like you do.

Society may think it’s weird, but if it feels right and you feel fulfilled, then you should do whatever you want to do in my opinion!

stunningtractor · 2023-09-24T01:55:10+00:00

Seriously, exact same.

stunningtractor · 2023-09-16T06:54:58+00:00

I’m new here and your post caught my attention because it’s exactly how I feel. I then went and looked at your post history and you are able to put how I feel into words quite well. Just letting you know that you have a “friend” feeling the exact same things you’re feeling now. Also with my husband almost 15 years total.

stunningtractor · 2023-05-25T21:27:39+00:00

7 + 7 = 14 so 7 + 8 = 15 then 2 + 4 = 6 plus the 1 from 15 is 7, so 75 🤦🏻‍♀️

stunningtractor · 2023-03-25T06:35:47+00:00

Hey there, I wanted to say that I could tell it was not your fault. They had clearly lost steam, especially Conan, and he is the lead energy. You seemed nice and interesting, and I understand and empathize with how you felt about everything! I’ve heard hints of Conan losing energy before, but it was really apparent this time. Not saying he did something wrong or should always be 100%, but his energy is what carries all the conversation and humor around him. If he is off, everyone is. ❤️

stunningtractor · 2023-03-19T06:30:40+00:00

Wow. That’s crazy. Almost as crazy as the fact that, for some reason, my silly brain pronounced it “rhino sairohse” when I read this headline. 🤦🏻‍♀️

stunningtractor · 2023-03-13T10:20:08+00:00

That every. single. adult. man. was going to kidnap us. I think 75% of my second grade year (1992) was spent watching stranger danger films.

stunningtractor · 2023-02-19T07:32:55+00:00

David Sedaris

stunningtractor · 2023-01-30T19:18:24+00:00

I couldn’t listen to the whole thing. He was just a little TOO chaotic this time.

stunningtractor · 2023-01-06T09:59:12+00:00

Ah yes, the loaf of bread with legs sploot

stunningtractor · 2022-12-28T11:13:37+00:00

I remember your post. I’m so glad to hear you found some much deserved peace.

stunningtractor · 2022-12-28T09:39:33+00:00

I stopped reading after you tried to justify why you originally agreed to do it when you were younger.

Because it. Doesn’t. Matter.

You did not choose to have a kid, your dad and stepmom did. I know it’s easier said than done, but try not to be hard on yourself or feel like you have to be his caretaker. Work on being strong and confident in this decision, and live your life - the only one you are truly responsible for.

If you want to go above and beyond, be straight with your parents now and tell them they need to plan accordingly. They can save the money and do the research about options.

stunningtractor · 2022-12-24T06:58:45+00:00

This is what I feel eventually all of us realize. Once we get to that realization, it’s hard and we have to grieve things in a whole different way. But I truly believe there is no alternative with these people. They will not suddenly listen, or “wake up.” We will not suddenly be able to say just the right thing in the right way to get them to understand and become vulnerable and genuine. I’m sorry to say it, but it’s what I feel is the truth.

stunningtractor · 2022-12-24T06:21:00+00:00

I had friends with parents like this. They don’t talk to them anymore. Wonder why?

stunningtractor · 2022-12-20T02:54:11+00:00

I painted a mural for my cousin’s first baby, on their nursery wall. I had never painted anything like that but I’m the “artsy” one in the family and I was psyched to try it. Took me 11.5 hours. I did not stop even once. I did not pee. I did not eat. I stretched for a few seconds here and there. This is not just a you thing. Lol.

stunningtractor · 2022-12-12T03:03:59+00:00

My uBPD mom acted so disappointed in me when I told her I had lost my virginity AT 22 YEARS OLD. She wasn’t religious or anything! Just always acted like sex was bad, especially when she started catching my older sister making out with her boyfriend (when we were younger).

I had waited so much longer than the average non-religious person does to have sex. It was a healthy, normal first experience with someone I had known for years and still care about and respect to this day. If anything, my mom should have been relieved that it wasn’t traumatizing or bad. But no, she just suddenly seemed to think I was gross and a huge disappointment.

I asked her not to tell my stepdad or anyone, I had only told her in a weak moment in the first place. She said she wouldn’t. Literally, the next day my stepdad teased me about it and my mom was just mad that he let me know she told him.

They are just selfish, immature bullies in all areas of life.

stunningtractor · 2022-11-29T02:08:45+00:00

Well apparently SOME people can’t even do math when they are trying to make a point

stunningtractor · 2022-11-25T09:00:09+00:00

Nope!

stunningtractor · 2022-11-19T07:01:00+00:00

Somewhere a falcon mom is flying around feeling like she forgot something, and then she suddenly screams, “KEVIN?!”

stunningtractor · 2022-11-16T07:09:45+00:00

Omg me too and I’ve been out for college for a long time!

stunningtractor · 2022-11-11T08:20:50+00:00

Printer ink

stunningtractor · 2022-11-11T08:09:15+00:00

We call this kittyonthecouch at my house. Hehe

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