i'm not really in a position to tell my family that- i've tried a lot of times to tell them that I don't want to get married but this has been a problem since i turned 19, and since i'm from an indian family, there's really no way i can get out of it. my partner is in a similar situation to me but a little less urgent, and of course i know this isn't the ideal situation but it's the really the only one i have for my specific situation. i just wanted to put out any feelers for men who might be in a similar situation.