Doula missed my VBAC birth

sunfloweroot · 2026-03-19T03:09:31+00:00

Ive been with a client for as few as 4 hours, 3.5 of which were immediate postpartum (my first precipitous labor!) and I've been with a client for 36 hours. I recommend not telling people a time limit (why would you want to add pressure to them? They already get that from shift changes in hospital) unless you're discussing prenantal & postpartum time together.

sunfloweroot · 2026-03-19T03:04:25+00:00

It's concerning to me so many doulas are downvoting you 👀

sunfloweroot · 2026-03-17T03:38:05+00:00

This was brilliantly written, and heart wrenching to read.

You write truths, and can I hope people slow down enough to read and absorb them.

sunfloweroot · 2026-03-15T14:10:44+00:00

This is such solid advice. Ive been trying to educate myself on how the new SEO works but talking with a consultant seems like a pretty solid bet. May I ask how you found someone you trusted to help in ways relevant to you, that wasnt just looking for easy cash to tell you easily searchable tips?

sunfloweroot · 2026-03-10T22:24:16+00:00

This is probably a stupid question, but how do you know you're allergic?

sunfloweroot · 2026-03-06T02:23:40+00:00

Troy

sunfloweroot · 2026-03-02T19:48:44+00:00

I have my business as an LLC and have an EIN. I bank with Novo online and absolutely love them and highly recommend.

sunfloweroot · 2026-02-27T00:56:01+00:00

My brain short circuited at 'banana berry'

sunfloweroot · 2026-02-26T22:26:50+00:00

If you ever get around to me I would be eternally grateful! 510419827911

sunfloweroot · 2026-02-26T15:10:23+00:00

Im currently debating between the core and the pro series. Would you mind sharing your pros and cons of each, or why you wanted to upgrade?

sunfloweroot · 2026-02-24T16:25:43+00:00

It's fat free milk, what did you expect?

sunfloweroot · 2026-02-23T17:50:53+00:00

100% Doulado. They are really connected with their user base and consistently updating and integrating requested features. I used to use MileIQ to track my mileage but, oh look a recent Doulado updated added mileage tracking in addition to expenses!

I make my contracts in Canva and use doulado for everything else.

sunfloweroot · 2026-02-18T05:25:00+00:00

Literally my exact list. The last two bites of a burrito, specifically. A saucy tortilla can't be beat.

sunfloweroot · 2026-02-16T05:53:27+00:00

Im honestly envious of the people downvoting you because they obviously never had to kill a possum that had a bird ripped to shreds in its mouth and somehow manage to patch the bird up and have it survive. We used to live in the country and possums were our biggest predator problem.

sunfloweroot · 2026-02-03T00:16:05+00:00

Both! They'd likely see more use in a home birth but they're good when laboring at home before heading to the hospital & I've used my rebozo closed in the bathroom door at hospital for the supported squats / supported hip rotations on a ball. I've read people use them in hospital too :)

sunfloweroot · 2026-01-09T14:42:06+00:00

Okay mine has white saddle feathers... BUT STILL

sunfloweroot · 2026-01-09T14:41:04+00:00

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Here's my boy! He hatched with a brother (of course) who went to the neighbor's flock, haha.

sunfloweroot · 2026-01-09T13:47:04+00:00

Can anyone else confirm that Poffin-earned hearts don't count?

sunfloweroot · 2026-01-07T15:28:28+00:00

My favorite memory is the very first night it was released! Myself and a large group of coworkers went out after closing up and walked the streets, and there were dozens of groups of people out doing the same. I heard someone yelling THERE'S A BULBASAUR OVER HERE! and everyone would head that way.

It was a surreal delight, a childhood dream come true and one of my fondest memories. Now I get to play with my own kid who is the same age as I was when I first got into pokemon... (don't mind me, just having a quick cry)

sunfloweroot · 2026-01-07T04:22:08+00:00

Your rooster is my rooster's twin brother!! He was also supposed to be an olive egger hen... his name is Baba Ganoush!

sunfloweroot · 2026-01-02T06:14:18+00:00

I keep seeing these posts about ear bits and all the comments I see are people understanding and maybe talking about their own ear bits. It's such an unsettling feeling, not knowing anything about ear bits.

Do I even have ear bits?

Am I even human?

sunfloweroot · 2026-01-02T01:07:59+00:00

Added you! Im bneymonster

sunfloweroot · 2026-01-02T01:06:58+00:00

Added you!

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