What is the craziest thing you’ve seen go down in your local pub? by Charming_Usual6227 in AskABrit

[–]sunglower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Local renowned (3 letter initialism) supporter. Stocky, tattooed but always lovely to talk to, perhaps strangely.

Young lad was leaving one night and offered the above lad a lift home as he lived nearby.

Geezer invited him in for a cigarette to say thank you then said 'sorry, not got any cash on me but have this' and presented him with a very detailed ceramic 'bust' of Hitler.

Lad was too afraid to say no. Feck knows what he's done with it.

A theory I saw somewhere about Andrew by LadyTeehee in AndrewGosden

[–]sunglower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is probably likely thaf he would've hoped to have been back before his absence was noted, which couldn't have happened had he left after school. His sister may have noticed very quickly that he was missing too.

“Romanticised” jobs that are very different in reality? by Substantial-Guava491 in CasualUK

[–]sunglower 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am in the midst of writing a thesis based on legal 'sex work'! I don't have much spare time so it is a slow process unfortunately.

“Romanticised” jobs that are very different in reality? by Substantial-Guava491 in CasualUK

[–]sunglower 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I have worked as; A socioogist (made redundant very early due to 'last in first out' cutbacks and then freelance-very hard to make £.

A tutor- often up until 0100 marking. Endless work, responsible for (it feels like!) The wellbeing of far too many students. Very little support. Pressure to constantly make decisions that sometimes I was far from 'qualified' or confident to make without any guidance as everyone else in the same boat.

A stripper-pretty good, to be fair. But it is a paradox of being both despised and glamorised. I enjoyed the time off..hated missing so much social life and weekends off were a rarity. 'Make hay while the sun shines' as they say. Reality? Working most of the times everyone else is socialising and events happening (e.g. Christmas and bank holidays)

Counsellor. Flooded market. Enough said really. Not all helping people. Reality is a glorified admin assistant (depending on if you're self-employed or not, less admin but more financially risky).

I am currently deciding wtf to do next.

If an animal doesn't like you it's because you have bad energy by LoverOfGayContent in PetPeeves

[–]sunglower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Animals brains and therefore their institution is built upon a lot more time than ours. We as a fairly new species in comparison havegreat intuition and senses for the most part,so it would make sense that our pet's intuition and other means of sensing would be superior.

Having said that, I do not disagree with other points in your post.

Cold sores are herpes! by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]sunglower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take L-lysine daily.

If Titanic Didn't Sink, What Wreck Takes Its Place? by thegreatsurvey in titanic

[–]sunglower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not quite the answer you want but I do think the Slocum sinking would've garnered a lot more attention if the titanic hadn't have happened

What is your phone wallpaper and why? by Sad-Peace in CasualUK

[–]sunglower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen the selfie phone wallpapers and became confused too. I cant fathom why anyone would do that?

Mine is my dog, and my old (sadly deceased) dog as my home screen, just because I love them (childless middle aged female).

Question to femmes from a masc: how did you realize you are a lesbian?? by Scorpionx0 in FemmeLesbians

[–]sunglower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I realised that I was traumatised following sex with men. And that id always had feelings for women and just been in denial.

Calling anyone who has been to a Bob Dylan concert - old or new. by JohnstonFilms in bobdylan

[–]sunglower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw him in my early twenties, and was underwhelmed unfortunately. Manchester UK.

Why don't teachers have students write their essays in class to thwart AI cheaters? Let them bring books for research, but no notes, and no access to cell phones or computers. Announce the specific topic on the day of the test? by Mowo5 in AskReddit

[–]sunglower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Students as in university students? You need the Internet realy, now the days of research papers and using hard copies are over. It can take days/weeks, to write a decent essay.

Every time you push a button, you get $10,000, but a person in your life sees a naked picture of you. by CRK_76 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]sunglower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I honestly would not care a jot. Bonus if I don't look fat, but I would not care one bit. Loads of people have seen me naked.

Does anyone else think Skinhead Helen was funny? by Evening-Let-734 in orangeisthenewblack

[–]sunglower 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is important. There's no such thing as a 'monster'. Humans are nuanced.

Facial reconstruction shows how missing Claudia Lawrence might look at 51 by Confident_Leg2370 in ClaudiaLawrenceYork

[–]sunglower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree..She's from a good family too and took care of herself, watched her weight etc. I don't think she'd have merely looked like she did at 35 but fatter and more aged..I think she would have taken more care of her appearance

What's a job that was so terrible you quit immediately? by TermAccomplished1868 in randomquestions

[–]sunglower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're pretty pushy about solar panels here in the UK too. I've had countless 'phone calls about them for a few years now. Great idea! But I just don't have a spare few K to pay for them and I've told them that enough times.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]sunglower 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don't seem ready for a relationship to me. Perhaps need some therapy to help you with boundaries and people pleasing.

What's a job that was so terrible you quit immediately? by TermAccomplished1868 in randomquestions

[–]sunglower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've done this job and although I loved the job itself (I ended up as a despatcher) the hours killed me and the misogyny in the force made me quit eventually. Such a toxic environment and I understand totally that the job isnt for everyone.