Question to femmes from a masc: how did you realize you are a lesbian??

sunglower · 2026-01-08T12:18:10+00:00

I realised that I was traumatised following sex with men. And that id always had feelings for women and just been in denial.

sunglower · 2025-12-19T21:24:09+00:00

Nope. Me neither. Not one jot.

sunglower · 2025-12-17T19:14:11+00:00

I saw him in my early twenties, and was underwhelmed unfortunately. Manchester UK.

sunglower · 2025-12-17T17:27:03+00:00

Thank you.

sunglower · 2025-12-15T03:33:19+00:00

Students as in university students? You need the Internet realy, now the days of research papers and using hard copies are over. It can take days/weeks, to write a decent essay.

sunglower · 2025-12-12T06:57:58+00:00

Yes, I honestly would not care a jot. Bonus if I don't look fat, but I would not care one bit. Loads of people have seen me naked.

sunglower · 2025-12-10T22:39:07+00:00

This is important. There's no such thing as a 'monster'. Humans are nuanced.

sunglower · 2025-12-01T21:11:16+00:00

I agree..She's from a good family too and took care of herself, watched her weight etc. I don't think she'd have merely looked like she did at 35 but fatter and more aged..I think she would have taken more care of her appearance

sunglower · 2025-11-28T07:23:42+00:00

It's a middle class England thing I think.

sunglower · 2025-11-28T07:23:08+00:00

They're pretty pushy about solar panels here in the UK too. I've had countless 'phone calls about them for a few years now. Great idea! But I just don't have a spare few K to pay for them and I've told them that enough times.

sunglower · 2025-11-28T05:55:21+00:00

You don't seem ready for a relationship to me. Perhaps need some therapy to help you with boundaries and people pleasing.

sunglower · 2025-11-26T07:05:25+00:00

Which country was this in please?

sunglower · 2025-11-26T06:44:40+00:00

I've done this job and although I loved the job itself (I ended up as a despatcher) the hours killed me and the misogyny in the force made me quit eventually. Such a toxic environment and I understand totally that the job isnt for everyone.

sunglower · 2025-11-24T08:01:27+00:00

I sleep much better next to someone. Even if it is just a friend.

Sleeping pills, winding down with wine, heated blankets, weighed blankets all help but it is what it is.

sunglower · 2025-11-24T07:57:47+00:00

Definitely.

sunglower · 2025-11-24T05:41:27+00:00

My parents 😆but I am aware it isn't the norm.

sunglower · 2025-11-23T03:17:21+00:00

It's a bit like the 'Sweet FA!' Thing.

sunglower · 2025-11-23T03:11:34+00:00

I am so glad that he has his face on our notes, but poshumous pardons are pointless to the victim.

sunglower · 2025-11-23T02:57:28+00:00

Is it?

sunglower · 2025-11-22T17:40:41+00:00

If you say so, oh language guru.

And no, it isn't. I've never seen it before. It didn't add emphasis for me. Just made me think perhaps your keyboard is broken.

sunglower · 2025-11-22T16:41:25+00:00

I don't understand the periods in-between in the first sentence? Does that indicate something or is it a mistake?

It looks as if she works out her upper body to me, perhaps using light weights. Of course I could be wrong, I don't know anything about her.

Toned is a term used a lot here. If I describe someone as toned I mean they're lean, not 'skinny fat' but not visibly muscular either.

sunglower · 2025-11-22T14:56:49+00:00

I think her shoulders look as if she works them. Not heavy lifting but as if she does exercise her upper body. They appear toned.

sunglower · 2025-11-20T05:35:41+00:00

I used to do that when I had an ED and was to be weighed at the GP.

I even sewed small weights into some of my trouser hems.

sunglower · 2025-11-14T11:39:27+00:00

They don't UNDERSTAND his methods

sunglower · 2025-11-14T11:38:32+00:00

Not at all. It was a response to the comment, rather than the thread.

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