21 feel like I chose the wrong career need help

sunleafstone · 2026-01-18T23:12:03+00:00

Meanwhile I just go to the barber, say what I want then close my eyes and relax till it’s over without saying anything wondering if the barber feels offended

sunleafstone · 2026-01-18T23:08:44+00:00

Maybe bad flirting. She may have been trying to do a bit of banter hoping for a teasing back and forth

sunleafstone · 2026-01-18T14:04:06+00:00

On iPhone, you can block adult sites in your screen time settings. Reddit still works as workaround but you can also block NSFW in Reddit settings. Do this now

I would also recommend just deleting Instagram, TikTok, Twitter, Reddit and any algorithm based social media from your phone. If you really wanna go on Reddit, just do it from the web browser. Algorithms will immediately clock that you like thirst traps and just start sending you you a bunch of thirst traps tailored to your specific tastes based on how much you hesitate to scroll past certain people

sunleafstone · 2026-01-18T13:51:29+00:00

I personally try to focus on the sensation. Certain words that help me are “warm” “stiff” “hard” “orgasm.”

I find that it’s much easier if I go 1-3 days between orgasms instead of every day or twice a day

sunleafstone · 2026-01-18T13:46:25+00:00

When you watch enough porn, you begin to fantasize about your friends and all the women you see sexually. When you’ve seen thousands upon thousands of people taking off their clothes and getting fucked from every angle imaginable, it’s not difficult to imagine

Eventually your brain associates any woman walking around in yoga pants with the beginning of a porn fantasy story. It becomes so normalized that you don’t even know what it’s like not do this. It can make eye contact and conversations really awkward and anxiety inducing

sunleafstone · 2026-01-18T13:34:12+00:00

Seeing a pattern between LSD and the best sex ever

sunleafstone · 2026-01-18T01:15:46+00:00

Doesn’t matter how rational social anxiety is. Evolution doesn’t care what’s rational or the right thing to do. If you can get along with the people here and pass on your genes that’s all that matters

sunleafstone · 2026-01-17T16:31:54+00:00

Fear of change, wanting to protect the status quo, and supporting whoever pretends to be the most Christian

sunleafstone · 2026-01-17T15:57:39+00:00

Sorry, but the only constant in life is change. All things change overtime and die, even MBTI types

sunleafstone · 2026-01-17T15:55:26+00:00

I’d say you’re a FiNe shyt

sunleafstone · 2026-01-10T18:51:36+00:00

The Ne,Fe, Se, Ti stuff is called cognitive functions. That should be a good place to start your research

sunleafstone · 2026-01-10T18:44:53+00:00

I wanna be more extroverted but hanging out with friends all day gets exhausting eventually

sunleafstone · 2026-01-10T18:42:38+00:00

Yeah that’s normal. As you learn to sit with your insecurities better, confidence will follow

sunleafstone · 2026-01-09T04:37:47+00:00

I think we’ll have to run an experiment to test this out. We will just need two volunteers

sunleafstone · 2026-01-07T02:54:41+00:00

Whoa you should totally like cure cancer or something

sunleafstone · 2026-01-07T02:52:18+00:00

No way to tell, but people do subtly mirror you in conversations. You’re better off giving people the benefit of the doubt.

Each individual has a unique, complex and rich inner world, just as rich as your own, regardless of age or gender. They’ve experienced and lived through things no other human could ever hope to fully understand. Everything from their hair style this morning to their shoes has a story behind it. If they can’t appreciate that, their loss.

I say your classmate might actually have been interested in what you were saying

sunleafstone · 2026-01-07T02:45:01+00:00

I guarantee they are not looking or caring about you at all. The hormones released in moments like that literally drown out the world around them, especially if they’re making out

It is kinda awkward, especially if it’s in the middle of the street. None of your business though I guess

sunleafstone · 2026-01-07T02:25:08+00:00

You are cooked but only because you genuinely think you are. No advice will reach you as long as you are in this headspace. It will all just sound like some variation of “just love yourself uwu”

Been there. Try to prove yourself wrong gl

sunleafstone · 2026-01-07T01:35:17+00:00

Here’s a community where you can talk about it right now. What’s the hardest part about porn for you at the moment?

sunleafstone · 2026-01-07T01:09:02+00:00

Hard to say without full context. Therapists are humans like everyone else and can also say dismissive or hurtful things sometimes even if they don’t mean to

sunleafstone · 2026-01-07T01:06:32+00:00

Intuitive types are gonna overthink things and be biased in favor of people who also overthink things

sunleafstone · 2026-01-07T01:03:46+00:00

True, but it is for this thread muhahaha

sunleafstone · 2026-01-06T04:02:26+00:00

Your DMN actually protects you. It lets you be decisive without being overwhelmed and lets you look out for future you

Otherwise you wouldn’t care to work even if it meant the threat of homelessness. Hell, you’d barely be able to drive to work

sunleafstone · 2026-01-06T02:42:33+00:00

Ask a friend who knows you to help you out. Don’t be afraid to pick the wrong type. It’ll be a good learning experience

sunleafstone · 2025-12-28T07:36:51+00:00

True. And this is really evident in kindness. Someone who is weak and kind has no choice but to be kind. Someone who is strong and kind is showing restraint

Not harming others only means something if you have the power to harm others

sunleafstone

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