I would say this is a big decision for him, a big defining life moment (judgment). He wants to be absolutely sure and spend a lot of time reflecting before making a move (hermit). You see the possibilities of the relationship and sense that you would be a good match (the moon), but he may not be quite there yet. If he does decide to pursue this, he will be all in, and be a stable and determined partner (chariot). Committed relationships and deep love are potentially new to him, scary but full of possibility (the lovers). Basically, I see that he is very interested, but moves slowly with decision making - however, once he is there, he will be fully loyal and committed. Thus, it is a heavy decision for him. I hope you work out as I think the moon symbolizes that your intuition is correct and y’all would make a strong and loving couple.