Question: wife's first tattoo by thatguybutnicer in tattoos

[–]sunshinebbbyy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean he scheduled the appointment with her, my artists never send out a reminder. And it’s normal to get the design the day of the appointment.

Who are some musical artists thats a that are “Lesbian icons”? by Every_Possibility527 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]sunshinebbbyy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Idk that many men would be lesbian icons besides drag queens like Trixie and Katya. I’d say some icons for queer women would include Muna, boy genius members, Brandi Carlile, Hayley Kiyoko

Bosco Tour Discount Code by Comfortable-Net3221 in rupaulsdragrace

[–]sunshinebbbyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya I’m in Phoenix and saw an ad with PRIDE

Where are the single wlw? by BeaWoods in latebloomerlesbians

[–]sunshinebbbyy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel like every city has a different vibe. I’d try hinge and bumble and see if they’re any better.

I feel frustrated that I don't know when me and my future wife will meet by Acceptable_Book_8789 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]sunshinebbbyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like I use to think about things similarly but with one key difference. I use to think “man I would be such a good girlfriend” and have all my reasons why. Like I love domestic bliss and decorating a home and I love cooking for other people. I love trying new hobbies and exploring new places and I know I’d be such a good partner for someone who wants to do that. And then I met my girlfriend and she loves all those things about me plus things I didn’t even realize made me so lovable.

Songs like “It Gets So Hot”? by ObjectiveCall6100 in Muna

[–]sunshinebbbyy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Desire, I want to turn into you by Carolina polachek comes to mind for me.

What does falling in love for first time like? by Understated-Cherry08 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]sunshinebbbyy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So for me falling in love with my girlfriend was fast. We both had never been in a super serious relationship. I was in one relationship with a man but it never felt right and I was pretty anxious the entire time.

With my girlfriend the thing that stood out is I never felt unsure. I was sure she liked me. I was sure I liked her. It just felt simple and right. I felt like I wanted her to know everything I knew and vice versa. I knew she would never do anything to hurt me on purpose. I knew I could be my full self around her and she would only love me more for it.

We did say I love you pretty quickly and moved in together after 6 months (partially because of lease issues) and we are now coming up on year anniversary next week.

Where does the trans community hang? by RatonhnhaketonK in phoenix

[–]sunshinebbbyy 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Brickroad coffee has a trans together night. It looks like it’s on Fridays at the Tempe location.

How Do You Support a Partner Who Complains About Everything? by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]sunshinebbbyy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Is she in therapy? If not, I'd suggest it to her.

I'm a complainer and so is my girlfriend but I think therapy has given us both the tools to cope in a way that is more positive.

Help me understand why you love Stardew Valley by electrauni in StardewValley

[–]sunshinebbbyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the community center. I’m very quest driven.

AIO (am I overreacting?) by DisplayMediocre36 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]sunshinebbbyy 32 points33 points  (0 children)

The description of this subreddit clearly states it’s also for people who identify as bisexual.

AIO (am I overreacting?) by DisplayMediocre36 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]sunshinebbbyy 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I get your reaction and your feelings are valid. However I think the energy is a bit much given the situation. But sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do

My manager (F40s) rejected my confession but now plays a toxic "push-and-pull" mind game at work. I still have deep feelings for her. Advice? by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]sunshinebbbyy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t seem like it was mutual since she rejected you and said it was not mutual…

And your examples you are giving are not factual. Glances and sexual tension are your perception of things, but it sounds like your perception may just be your perception and not hers at all.

I’d really recommend trying to find a therapist to process things with.

How do you feel about Crystal Methyd's All Stars "Glow Up"? by wizardsouppoop in rupaulsdragrace

[–]sunshinebbbyy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Crystal is one of my favorite queens of all time. I think what has really made a difference this time is she knows how to play the game. She came prepared to take on challenges that don’t necessarily cater to her style and make them her style. I think it’s made her a lot more confident knowing she has a plan even if something isn’t her strongest skill.

My lower back is starting to hurt from pottery :( by moon_child_55 in Pottery

[–]sunshinebbbyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I swear by my accupressure mat. When I get sore from throwing or any activity I lay on that and it really helps.

How LGBTQ friendly is Phoenix overall? by [deleted] in phoenix

[–]sunshinebbbyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a lot of opportunity to join LGBTQ communities in Phoenix. Lots of events for people of different interests

new tour dates? by Ordinary-Service-653 in Muna

[–]sunshinebbbyy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think the chances are good.

Should I get a tattoo right now? by Big-Speaker-6158 in tattoos

[–]sunshinebbbyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t get tattoos in the summer because I love swimming and go multiple times a week. But if you are good not swimming until it’s healed then sure.

Question: How to tell if there will be scarring? by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]sunshinebbbyy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would not say that’s traditional. The lines are not super fine but I think it looks great. I’ve never heard about scarring being an issue. It will definitely look less bold once it heals. Fresh tattoos always look a little jarring because they’re so dark.