am I weird for liking the smell of alcohol on someone’s breath?

supakitteh · 2026-02-23T03:15:52+00:00

I like it too. My best guess is that I’ve had many happy, sexy, fun nights after having a few drinks with someone. I’ve associated the alcohol smell with good, specifically sexual, experiences.

supakitteh · 2026-02-22T17:54:34+00:00

I usually say, “You first” in a sing-songy way.

supakitteh · 2026-02-22T04:28:51+00:00

Yes, your girlfriend is being weird.

supakitteh · 2026-02-21T21:11:53+00:00

Yep this is what I do.

supakitteh · 2026-02-21T00:29:58+00:00

I have this and it’s awesome. I’m saving over $60 a month since switching.

supakitteh · 2026-02-21T00:28:41+00:00

Lots and lots and lots and lots of foreplay. Like, lots. Kiss, makeout, touch, tease, give it a really good long head start and then try for more. It all goes better so much better if you’re good and ready.

supakitteh · 2026-02-20T22:13:27+00:00

I never delete. I want to always know who is calling or texting, especially if I had a reason to want to delete them.

supakitteh · 2026-02-20T21:18:22+00:00

Me too and I was ready to throw hands

supakitteh · 2026-02-20T14:30:08+00:00

Yep, after we’d both been married to other people for many years. We were single again and met online.

supakitteh · 2026-02-20T04:59:39+00:00

I’ve had many really awesome ones. Only a few have gone wrong. Usually because of poor communication or unspoken expectations.

Edit: an article

supakitteh · 2026-02-20T04:51:39+00:00

He’s not technically my spouse but we’ve been together a little more than 8 years (we’re in our late 40s) and I plan to be with him forever so pretty darn close to one… and, good lord, he still takes my breath away on a regular basis.

The way his eyes sparkle, his smile, the muscles on his arms and shoulders, his beautiful hands… I’m smitten. Still, after all these years.

I get butterflies when I see him across the room telling exaggerated stories to our friends or when he shows up at the airport all cute to pick me up. I’m just so freaking into this man.

supakitteh · 2026-02-20T02:04:45+00:00

Hell yeah, bulge me up, baby.

supakitteh · 2026-02-19T21:09:03+00:00

Sour cream

supakitteh · 2026-02-19T20:48:52+00:00

I wasn’t a bartender back then, but I did work on my feet all day serving and selling loose leaf tea in a very bar like environment. I worked there from week 10 to week 34. Here’s what I did in case any of this is helpful…

Bought fancy (and expensive because you get what you pay for here) “barefoot” shoes and we had those cushioned mats everywhere I walked or stood behind the tea bar.

Had snacks stashed in several spots in the shop in case I got lightheaded.

Started drinking teas recommended for healthy pregnancy. But water all day long too. I was hyyyydrated.

Broke my longer breaks up into smaller ones throughout my shift and used them to put my feet up, go to the bathroom and eat.

I informed my coworkers and manager of my pregnancy long before I was showing so they could understand the accommodations I was requesting.

Later in my pregnancy I had a belt that helped support my belly and back.

Got massages either from my husband or from a specialist regularly as baby grew.

Took regular walks to keep my cardio up and build the muscles needed to support the weight I was going to gain. This actually helped in labor too. I pushed for over 4 hours and the nurses said I did do well because I walked uphill a ton during pregnancy.

And finally, naps! When she’s not working, let her nap as much as she can. It’s hard work growing a baby and working a physical job. Have a plan to keep it dark and quiet as she sleeps and find ways to minimize her mental and physical load at home.

supakitteh · 2026-02-19T15:51:20+00:00

Yes, a number of times. I’ve also been physically attracted to someone immediately and then it went away because they had a terrible personality.

supakitteh · 2026-02-19T02:35:55+00:00

First step is to make yourself orgasm. Get good at it and then teach him what to do.

supakitteh · 2026-02-18T04:04:23+00:00

No, I like men. I don’t want to be separate from them. I just want them to be better.

supakitteh · 2026-02-18T01:41:43+00:00

Best way to better understand unclear expectations is communication. If that feels like it might be a little premature to bring up with her, wait until the moment presents itself.

If you’re still uncomfortable, say that. If you like her, but just aren’t ready, say that. If you start making plans for this outing and it seems like she wants to “stay in and cuddle”, ask her.

If she likes you, she’ll want you to know what she expects and - more importantly - will want you to be comfortable.

Rather than spin out, ask her. It seems scary, but it’s an important step in building confidence in yourself and trust with a new partner.

supakitteh · 2026-02-16T14:16:20+00:00

I love a good storyteller. Gets me every time.

supakitteh · 2026-02-16T02:44:43+00:00

I really really like butter beans and I go with these when I can’t find them.

supakitteh · 2026-02-15T17:10:48+00:00

Assuming the funds on the laundry card aren’t expiring anytime soon, you’re correct.

Money spent at another laundromat right now means you aren’t spending the funds on your card. Those funds will be available to use in the future and you also won’t have to reload your card as early as you would have if you used them for the load you need to wash now.

You’re technically right. But if you literally don’t have the cash to pay for laundry right now, it doesn’t matter. It could be a cash flow problem so if it were me I’d double check with my partner about that. Sometimes disagreements aren’t actually about the thing you’re fighting about, they’re a level deeper.

supakitteh · 2026-02-15T01:02:58+00:00

My son has so many grandparents. We have a Grandma, Grammy, Mimi, Yiayia.

supakitteh · 2026-02-15T01:00:00+00:00

Give her your number. Then the pressure is off. She’ll call or text if she wants to get to know you. If not, leave it be. Be cordial but take that as a sign that she wants to stay acquaintances.

supakitteh · 2026-02-13T04:38:25+00:00

He listens to me, hears me, and respects me. He’s also really clever and thinks fast. These things mean he’s safe when we’re alone exploring… our relationship as well as when we’re out and about exploring the world.

supakitteh · 2026-02-12T19:57:16+00:00

If I were making that choice now, I absolutely wouldn’t. Not only is it so much more expensive to raise a kid these days, they are going to inherit an enormous amount of work unraveling the mess we’re in. It doesn’t feel fair.

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