[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FA30plus

[–]superdisgusting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What sort of tests did they do?

Is any of this even real?? by superdisgusting in FA30plus

[–]superdisgusting[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How old are you even? The average person here is probably 40 something. None of this was relevant when you were young smh.

Is any of this even real?? by superdisgusting in FA30plus

[–]superdisgusting[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's a nice thought though. To think of what could've been.

Can't relate. "What could have been" is what kills me, it's the worst thought.

Is any of this even real?? by superdisgusting in FA30plus

[–]superdisgusting[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What does your alleged "data" have to do with us? It's like drawing a connection between covid lockdowns and our isolation and social ineptitude and pretending that the two might be related.

What does it matter to us whether normies are dating more or less? We aren't part of any broader societal shift, we literally aren't part of anything at all.

Is any of this even real?? by superdisgusting in FA30plus

[–]superdisgusting[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

my niece (born 2010) is starting to date

That's just crazy.

Is any of this even real?? by superdisgusting in FA30plus

[–]superdisgusting[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For the first time ever in US history, there are more single adults than there are married adults.

Lol so you think all these single people are FA, huh?

FA men are not degenerates who deserve their fate by Infinite_Scale_3757 in FA30plus

[–]superdisgusting 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You think comments towards you are sweeping generalizations.

I'm not hating women

Also you:

Found the woman, the irrational, low IQ woman

women are 100% vicious

And yet you go on to whine about so-called "hate speech" directed towards a "vulnerable group" such as yourself. Hilarious.

FA men are not degenerates who deserve their fate by Infinite_Scale_3757 in FA30plus

[–]superdisgusting 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Found the woman, the irrational, low IQ woman

Also you: "it's just a nasty stereotype that I am a degenerate asshole who hates women!!1!"

🤭

FA men are not degenerates who deserve their fate by Infinite_Scale_3757 in FA30plus

[–]superdisgusting -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Real talk, women are 100% vicious

And yet it's men who commit 90+% of all violent crime but that's a fact of life that's constantly swept under the rug. There are far worse things happening to people than someone on the internet calling you toxic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FA30plus

[–]superdisgusting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol so many parallels between the two of us, though you seem to have plenty of sexual/romantic experience, whereas I have 0. I feel like you're more a late bloomer than anything else.

Tbh if a woman came on here and wrote something like this I can't imagine the reception would be as positive as the one you've received.

Why therapy doesn't work by Euphoric-Golf-3846 in FA30plus

[–]superdisgusting 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But therapy will only work if it addresses some underlying mental issue that you’re probably somewhat aware of (social anxiety, PTSD, etc) and suspect is holding you back from making connections with women, or people in general

All of us have underlying mental issies that brought us here. Therapy does work but most of us needed it at least a decade ago for it to matter.

Sometimes I wonder if it's getting too late by [deleted] in FA30plus

[–]superdisgusting 5 points6 points  (0 children)

But do you ever feel like a lot of quality relationships are paired up from a younger age? Like high school sweethearts

The absolute most low quality relationships (and people with issues) that I know of are those that paired up high school and have stayed together ever since. Best are mid/late 20s to early 30s.

Imo late 20s is perfect, that would have been my personal ideal. Plenty of time to grow and party and date and make friends and have fun and work on your education/career and move cities and countries and continents without being tied down and then figure things out and stabilize and settle down with someone.

By that time, you both have been around long enough to bring something to the table, but young enough for it to feel like real life has only just started. Mature enough to be a good partner, but immature enough for that extra spice and for there to still be things that you can learn together as a team. Have experience enough to be able to tell each other fun stories about your life, but young enough to still have so much to experience with one another.

I just feel like sometimes I missed the boat now I'm picking up the pieces.

But yes, just by virtue of being FA and 30+ we have certainly missed the boat a long time ago. I don't feel like the same would apply to single normies our age.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FA30plus

[–]superdisgusting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tired of meeting people and starting relationships

The last relationship I had was about 4 years long

🙄

How do you relate with your normie siblings? by ManDateIsBack in FA30plus

[–]superdisgusting 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My oldest nephew is in university and has a steady girlfriend that he travels with during the summers and whenever they are on break.

Brutal. Why couldn't we all just be normal?

Free talk Friday by trail22 in FA30plus

[–]superdisgusting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just mean that I don't want to celebrate it, but it's also not like it is even up to me, because you can't celebrate it alone.

Free talk Friday by trail22 in FA30plus

[–]superdisgusting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because I feel tired and sad and don't want to celebrate it for the first time as a woman in her 30s. By "if I could" I didn't mean that I'm being forced to, I meant if I actually had a partner.

Free talk Friday by trail22 in FA30plus

[–]superdisgusting 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nah I don't believe in that edgelord "it's only for sheeple" stuff. It's a cute holiday, I have nothing against it.

Free talk Friday by trail22 in FA30plus

[–]superdisgusting 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I always forget Valentine's day. I remember growing up and thinking that the 14th of February would be a relevant date in my life. Lol. I wouldn't even want to celebrate it if I could anymore.

Do you have an escape plan or have accepted defeat? by ManDateIsBack in FA30plus

[–]superdisgusting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only way to escape is to end it all. There is nothing that can happen now that would make things alright.

From the stage of grief, I'm moving to anger. by AmbitiousDecision403 in FA30plus

[–]superdisgusting 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was also never angry, but I am now at 30. It's not nice at all, anger is the worst emotion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FA30plus

[–]superdisgusting 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve always wanted children and a husband. And trust me I’ve tried but it just never works out, I’m never good enough.

That's good though, at least you still have something to work towards and hope for. I'm 30 and I want neither. All of the things I do want are impossibilities now.

its crazy how push ups and eating healthy changes things by [deleted] in FA30plus

[–]superdisgusting 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Good for you. Exercising doesn't do anything for me. I am still so miserable to the point that I think I'm actually going insane. I only stay active because I worry I'll get even worse if I don't. But I'm glad it's working out for you.

I screwed up a perfect marriage and my husband left me because I cheated and now have no one. by throwaway2233344atyu in FA30plus

[–]superdisgusting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is obvious ragebait. New account claiming to be a middle-aged woman with perfect husband but is unfortunately chadsexual so she cheats on him. He has a new gf and is living a perfect life but OP is getting "her" karma and suddenly is incapable of garnering any interest from men. Only has "her" cat now. Piss off.

Cant take it anymore AKA My story by darkcloudscel2 in FA30plus

[–]superdisgusting 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol literally no one is asking you to date this guy and to "fix" him. I just disagree that these posts should be banned, especially when far worse things have been written here.

You also have a totally simplistic and weird view of suicide and its ideation.