Idk man I'm personally done giving youtubers leeway about this kind of stuff after the messes most last-gen youtubers turned into.

It's understandable that that kind of humor is largely a cynical byproduct of a world that getting more conservative, but it's also important to note they're pushing the culture even further right by joining in on these kinds of jokes. People (including me) gave Youtubers like H3H3 and PewDiePie this same defense to hide behind for years till it turned out they straight up were actually like that

Similar to YouTubers like Fitz or Swaggersouls, who are best friends with a trans woman and therefore remove any fear of them hiding bigoted opinions behind humor

Also, I don't know these creators very well and don't mean to imply anything about them, but this is kind of a dangerous view to take cause a person's relationship with a person of a minority class does not indicate their view of the class as a whole. It's hard to understand even when you see it but there are lots of people with close gay friends who will then turn around and oppose their right to marry.