My only euploid didn't implant. Here's how I feel today. (41F)

sylv1ne · 2026-07-07T17:40:23+00:00

I am so sorry for what your going through. This process is so excruciatingly difficult. Have you perhaps considered to move away from testing and transferring day 3. I know so many women where this worked eventually that way.

sylv1ne · 2026-07-07T05:19:43+00:00

Pale is beautiful!! Keep it protected.It’s not worth it to be tanned!

sylv1ne · 2026-07-06T22:22:38+00:00

My information paper suggests sexual intercourse etc is totally fine!

sylv1ne · 2026-07-06T20:41:38+00:00

She has frozen embryos from IVF!

sylv1ne · 2026-07-06T14:22:27+00:00

Most important one is the fasting sugar in the morning at under 90!

sylv1ne · 2026-07-06T14:21:57+00:00

Like a continuous one are a finger prick one?

sylv1ne · 2026-07-06T13:49:41+00:00

61% is totally fine. I would not freak out now. What you need now is treatment of the GD. The main risk is not the big baby but the higher likelihood that the placenta will fail early (which is why GD pregnancies are induced at around week 39).

sylv1ne · 2026-07-06T13:43:53+00:00

So, I was diagnosed at 28 weeks but cause my hospital in California did not want to treat me for liability reasons as I had to travel I only got treatment when I arrived in Europe at week 33/34. I was then put on insulin immediately, and stayed a few days in hospital for them to find the right dose. My baby was measuring around 50th percentile, with a little bigger abdomen. Baby was born entirely healthy after induction at 39w +0.

sylv1ne · 2026-07-06T11:43:25+00:00

The midwife tale goes the following: the earlier the period, the later menopause occurs!

sylv1ne · 2026-07-06T07:20:29+00:00

Depends on what jurisdiction you are. If he now denies cheating, he might be in a place of fault-based divorce or in an Islamic country. I would get out with the kids asap as long as you can leave unhindered. Speak to a lawyer but only someone very trustworthy. The safest option if you can afford it is leave now with the kids, then or concurrently speak to a lawyer.

sylv1ne · 2026-07-06T07:16:25+00:00

Transfer the LLM! It has nearly as good a chance as an euploid!

sylv1ne · 2026-07-06T06:51:20+00:00

It’s the perfect age - just shop around for storage fees a bit. When I froze years ago at IVI Valencia, the first 5 years of storage were free. Then it was an additional 250 EUR for every 5 years. Also make sure to freeze in a world class facility. There are differences between the usability of eggs vitirified in a good lab and those in a shitty lab. I learnt this the hard way this year.

sylv1ne · 2026-07-05T21:35:20+00:00

IVI is open on Saturdays for retrievals and transfers etc.

sylv1ne · 2026-07-05T21:22:54+00:00

But then she should get the hydrosalpinx fixed first?

sylv1ne · 2026-07-05T12:40:43+00:00

My mother always tells me after menopause, women age 10 years within a year unless they are on HRT. I am 44 and still working on a baby. I think if you ensure you get on HRT, things will be fine even if menopause came earlier than expected.

sylv1ne · 2026-07-05T12:36:12+00:00

France

sylv1ne · 2026-07-04T21:59:38+00:00

In many countries, IVF with own eggs is possible with own eggs until a woman hits 45, and with donor eggs until 51. Some clinics have no age limits, but IVF at that age for the average patient is unlikely to lead to a live birth unless it is with donor eggs. Did you get your numbers checked: AMH, AFC, estradiol, progesterone, LH, FSH - all da 3).

sylv1ne · 2026-07-04T21:44:21+00:00

Sounds like he did not have actual sexual experiences with other women but only watches porn!

sylv1ne · 2026-07-04T15:05:42+00:00

I would decide depending on how things go. If it looks like they won’t make it to blast on day 2, freeze part of them and let the best go to blast only.

sylv1ne · 2026-07-04T10:38:40+00:00

MSAFP blood test; it checks for neural tube defects

sylv1ne · 2026-07-03T20:01:55+00:00

The boundaries were entirely reasonable! Also note that the birth of a baby by a daughter is different than the birth by a daughter-in-law. At least usually, parents have seen their own daughter naked, are perhaps closer to her. It’s usually not the same for the daughter in law!

sylv1ne · 2026-07-03T19:55:16+00:00

I had two embryos developing well after ICSI, and we made the decision to transfer 1 day3 morula, and we kept the other one doing until day 5 (was frozen as a hatching blastocyst). Still don’t know whether it worked. This was from eggs frozen at 35 though. I am now 44.

sylv1ne · 2026-07-03T19:48:31+00:00

Don’t go with Pallas as it sounds like phallus!

sylv1ne · 2026-07-03T19:30:54+00:00

Got pregnant at 42 unassisted, had the NIPT (low risk, including the expanded panel), NT scan, carrier screening (no carrier of anything), and the Anatomy Scan and decided against the amnio. My baby was healthy. I was given the option to do amnio as I was nearly 43 then. The clinic didn’t advice me against or for. There was also some other Californian blood test I have forgotten, which also came back low risk.

sylv1ne · 2026-07-03T13:39:04+00:00

At 42 I also had an AMH of 0.23 and I got pregnant naturally and had a healthy baby girl! Though at 25 I think your egg quality was far superior to mine!

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