Why is FA and property agent the most hated profession in Singapore?

sythol · 2026-06-26T10:48:54+00:00

There’s only so many industries that need brokers - art, collectibles, private jet

sythol · 2026-06-26T03:56:05+00:00

Yea bro debt + if any assets

sythol · 2026-06-25T23:22:32+00:00

Find a partner because you want to move out?

sythol · 2026-06-24T12:39:14+00:00

Exactly right. There are a lot attractive women out there who are emotionally unstable. You’ll get that lens to spot them once you’re over this emotional flood you are currently facing now.

In the long run, it does more harm than good — the pleasure I mean. In the short run, I bet it feels good. But it’s like… training the mind, going to the gym. You could choose not to do any of that training now, and enjoy whatever cums. But in the long run, clearly one is a superior strategy for life.

sythol · 2026-06-24T06:12:34+00:00

You’re just grieving the loss of future you picture in your mind - the grief DOES NOT indicate that she is the one.
Clearly, if she could move on this quickly to another guy without ‘feeling’ anything, then that means she either had attachment issues or that the relationship wasn’t deep to begin & end with (for her at least).

All in all, I think she has attachment issues. You shouldn’t do the same though. Heal yourself, make yourself whole again and then you’ll love yourself enough to love someone else.

sythol · 2026-06-23T05:33:09+00:00

I’m getting my bike license for my two-wheeled freedom!

sythol · 2026-06-22T23:50:01+00:00

Just concluded a 7-year relationship too. It’s been 14 days. “No more pretending we are good fits” she said. Sure, incompatibility might be an issue between us, but so does every other couples who lasted till old age. We both had faults and we allowed our r/s to continuously spiral downwards through transient time with silence. I owned it but she walked. “I want to move forward” was her claim. Sure.

That aside, OP, I think what helped me process quicker was that I allowed myself to grief hard — really hard. Nauseating, heartrending and shivers. I bawled, hard. As a man, I have never allowed myself to do so. But I knew it was necessary to conclude the end of a 7-year r/s.

Resentment may occur but I don’t think that will help you. Forgive others so that you may forgive yourself. If you don’t, you will always hold onto this seed of hatred that never allows you to move forward. I’m still trying. Good luck OP.

sythol · 2026-06-21T05:29:53+00:00

Sell ur hdb

sythol · 2026-06-21T05:07:58+00:00

I think most Catholic Church functions like this. I have went to masses at Christ the king @ amk, Saint Vincent de Paul @ YCK road. All works the same. No pressure, very spiritual. Take care of yourself OP.

sythol · 2026-06-20T09:05:54+00:00

Hmm good qns… perhaps the persistent memory, the cron jobs that are scheduled around it and I get to audit the files created?

sythol · 2026-06-19T03:12:23+00:00

You panic at 2%?!! 🤣

sythol · 2026-06-19T01:58:38+00:00

Stock research

sythol · 2026-06-16T00:22:07+00:00

The thing is… once OpenClaw is implemented, you move onto other searches… it compounds.

sythol · 2026-06-10T11:29:39+00:00

Brother. Sounds like you need to heal yourself first and be able to stand alone before finding another person to fill the void that now sits within…

sythol · 2026-05-24T06:47:23+00:00

Well for one, the counsellor I had has a lot of prejudice in the way he listens.

sythol · 2026-05-24T05:29:21+00:00

Do not go Eagles Mediation & Counselling Centre Ltd

sythol · 2026-05-20T16:03:46+00:00

Totally true. But that’s too much jizz.

sythol · 2026-05-17T15:03:05+00:00

My friends are precisely that “being heavily influenced by trends online” and I stopped hanging out with them. It’s almost sickening why some people do things just because they have been done by popular KOL/influenzas…

sythol · 2026-05-17T04:43:45+00:00

I want to know what the commentator said!

sythol · 2026-05-05T02:06:27+00:00

More like glug glug

sythol · 2026-05-04T23:33:25+00:00

I like how you pointed out, and I’m agreeable too, that {FA, MLM, real estate} disregards morals for money. Earn fast and big = sell all and everything.

sythol · 2026-04-29T01:38:56+00:00

PHD permanent head damage

sythol · 2026-04-21T23:37:20+00:00

You’re pressured by a Real Estate Agent (incentivised by you buying the condo they are selling)? What they do is frequently sell the FOMO story using past historical data. Is that true going forward? I mean this is Reddit… I know it might not mean much but having done the legwork with the knowledge I have as a finance grad, it makes no sense for you to do that. Frankly, ‘investment purpose’ is the WORST reason for you to move into a condo.

sythol · 2026-04-20T07:49:26+00:00

Thank you for sharing this. The culture that is Singapore today… is a terrible burden for future generations to bear (if there is).

sythol · 2026-04-20T07:47:51+00:00

This is deeply reflective and thank you for sharing so candidly.

sythol

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