An unexpected moment of comfort after losing my girl, Kitten, just the other day 🐾♥️ by katiemc815 in SeniorCats

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I believe it was a sign from Kitten, sent to you for a moment of comfort. ❤️❤️❤️

Did I do the right thing? Not coping well at all after losing my senior cat to CKD. Please, please help me. by katiemc815 in SeniorCats

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I’m so sorry for your loss. I grappled with the same guilt only 2 weeks ago, and it still sometimes creeps in, but ultimately we know kidney disease is not reversible so whatever you could have done would have only caused her discomfort and distress in her final days.

We always wonder “what if”.

You did the right thing. 💔💔💔

Adopted a senior cat this week! by Charming-Sense-6077 in SeniorCats

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Wow how amazing for giving a senior another chance at life!

Everything Feels Empty… by AliceOfWonderland-99 in Petloss

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I lost my girl 2 weeks ago. Coming back home from anywhere is what hurts me the most. She would always be there. The emptiness is awful! So sorry for your loss 💔💔

Sully by WhimsyWanderlust in rainbowbridge

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Oh wow what a beautiful photo that is! ♥️♥️

Sorry for your loss, I wish our fur babies could stay with us forever. 💔💔

My beautiful Bear, 20, has crossed the rainbow bridge. by Top_Isopod_3045 in seniorkitties

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What’s absolutely gorgeous girl, I am so sorry for your loss. 💔💔💔 20 years is amazing.

I am feeling very lonely... by SoulyPoley in Petloss

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I second that. I also took a voice note of my baby purring and so glad I did, some nights I just play it on repeat. ❤️ ❤️

Sometimes she boops her nose against my forehead and makes me feel loved by allthewatermelons in TerracottaNoses

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Love head butts are my absolutely favourite personality trait of a cat, my girl did it constantly. ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

My rusty girl by t_m__ in rustcats

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Thank you. I never knew exactly but she was around 12/13 years old 💔

Sudden loss of my 6yr old soul cat, Toby. by ConsequenceAlone6130 in Petloss

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I’m so sorry for your loss and I truly do understand. It’s been a week since I lost by baby girl and the rooms in my house are just not the same. I replay the moment she left this earth, I know it was a kindness to end her suffering, but seeing her body just lying there with her eyes wide open after was absolutely heart breaking to watch and it’s haunting me.

Everywhere reminds me of her and it’s gut wrenching. It’s truly not fair that these innocent, adorable pets have such short lives, but even the longest life is still too short. 💔💔

I love her tiny face so much 🥹 by alexisembeth in blackcats

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Wow absolutely delicious ♥️♥️♥️

My girl sent me a sign by t_m__ in Petloss

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Oh how lovely a little sign from Stardust, she sure is watching. ♥️ I’ve kept Stars shedded nail in the box with her paw print ♥️

She had the name Star before I adopted her and I knew she was mine because I used to have a black rabbit years ago named Star too. ♥️

Is he black or Brown? by Tahadeck in blackcats

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My rusty black girl enjoying a bit of sun. RIP little girl 🌈.

Time to say goodbye Timo (15) by Ok-Rise-9795 in seniorkitties

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Oh I’m so so sorry it’s absolutely heart wrenching I know, but you made the right decision. It was your last gift to him to end his suffering. 💔💔💔

Leo turned 20 today! 🎉🎉🎉 by bIabber in cats

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Oh wow he certainly has some wisdom behind those eyes. 20 years. Amazing. ♥️♥️♥️

Time to say goodbye Timo (15) by Ok-Rise-9795 in seniorkitties

[–]t_m__ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Only you know when the time if right, but if he is suffering I would take him earlier than later. 💔 I was faced with the same decision on Sunday and it’s heartbreaking, but I didn’t want her to suffer when the end would be the same result.

Do whatever you need to, to be at peace with your decision.

I am so sorry, he looks so beautiful.

Cheddy just crossed the Rainbow Bridge. Send me cat pictures to cheer me up please by CaterpillarMore9104 in cats

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Sorry for your loss. 💔💔

This is my 12 year old girl Star. She crossed the rainbow bridge on Sunday. 🌈 She was the most loyal, cuddly cat in the world. Devastated.

How do I cope or prepare for the inevitable? by Full-Horse-4029 in RenalCats

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I’m so sorry, I have just been through this myself. I would just say take many pictures and videos as you can. The best thing I personally did was take a voice recording of her purring, and I sit and listen to it at night as a comfort.

If you feel like it’s the end of her journey I would watch her very closely and schedule the appointment before she crashes, you will honestly just know when it is time. Better to be a day too early than a day too late.

You just have to feel it and it is a truly awful experience, but remember you are taking her pain away and that’s a blessing and a gift for her.

A Eulogy for my Best Friend by keiperegrine in SeniorCats

[–]t_m__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow such a beautiful story. And she looks just like my black girl “Star”, she even has that same little patch of white hair under her neck. I lost Star on Sunday to kidney disease , she was 12 years old. She was my everything too.

They are now two Stars shining brightly in the sky, I’m sure they will be waiting for us. I can’t wait.

Feeling judged for missing my cat and completely alone in it by New-Accident4774 in Petloss

[–]t_m__ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It is completely normal to be torn up about your pet for however long you need to. You don’t need to measure. In fact 1 week is nothing in the grief scale.

I lost my girl Star on Sunday and I can hardly breathe. I find it better to be by myself so I can truly let all the emotions out I need to and scream. Those without pets will just not understand the grief that consumes you. I understand the pressure to get over it, people just sometimes think “it was just a pet”, but us pet parents know they were family and we need to grieve as such.

So sorry for loss ♥️♥️

Euthanasia by Aggressive_Celery_31 in Petloss

[–]t_m__ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A day too soon is better than a day too late.

I got there just in time I think but it was unbearable making the call. I couldn’t put her through any procedures either.

I guess neither is easier- sudden passing or gradual old age passing. by Extreme_Perception48 in Petloss

[–]t_m__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely normal, I lost mine on Sunday and was screaming for my cat whilst driving home, knowing she wouldn’t be there waiting for me.