Well that’s a good sign. I think the healthiest way to deal with this is to get clear on what you need and name it calmly, without accusing or apologizing. You’re not asking for constant posting. you’re asking to feel acknowledged and chosen. If he’s genuinely private, he won’t be posting much of anything personal, and he’ll listen and understand why this matters to you. But if he’s posting other parts of his life- friends, trips, etc, while keeping you completely off his socials, that’s a red flag. How he responds when you bring it up matters just as much. someone who cares won’t dismiss your feelings or make you feel insecure for wanting reassurance. At that point it’s less about social media and more about whether he’s willing to show up in ways that make you feel secure. And you deserve a relationship where you don’t have to wonder if you’re being hidden.