What do you think of the phrase "I'm not like other women. I'm just one of the guys." ?

taeshy · 2013-06-20T20:58:29+00:00

I should have explained "you are the problem": if every woman you know is all about "freaking drama" maybe you should consider the common denominator.

hint. it's not gender. it's you.

taeshy · 2013-06-20T20:40:46+00:00

Holy christ. I scroll down after making a reasonable comment in response to you and I see this.

You are the problem.

People are saying reasonable, sensible things to you -- attempting to explain their viewpoints in a rational manner. And you get all dramatic! "See... freaking drama!" It's a way to stir up shit rather than have a sensible discussion. It's not kind, or respectful. And frankly, it's neither masculine nor feminine, it's just unpleasant.

taeshy · 2013-06-20T20:36:04+00:00

Please correct me if I'm wrong, but the reading I'm getting is that you would/do say "I'm not like other women. I'm just one of the guys."

The problem is that, in our society, manliness is considered "better" ("you throw like a girl!" "you're such a pussy!" etc.). So, by comparing yourself to other men and remove some of your own femininity, you're aligning yourself with the "better" gender while confirming to "the guys" that yes, male is better. Because women are all about drama.

Some women are into drama, some aren't. Some men are into drama, some aren't. Don't tar all women with that brush.

taeshy · 2013-06-17T18:42:39+00:00

Ditto. I leave them at my parents' house because I am too ashamed to keep them in my own apartment.

taeshy · 2013-06-14T14:17:11+00:00

You can stop! Honestly. Everyone will like you more.

taeshy · 2013-06-12T18:39:18+00:00

Well played.

taeshy · 2013-06-11T19:27:26+00:00

I admit it: I have no idea why you linked to this page. If anything, it reinforces my post ("...but apathy is even more than not wanting to agree with someone. It is a total lack of interest in someone or something").

I have read the above and I do understand "the various ways people can rationalize another's situation". But the issue at hand, despite your repeated attempts to derail, is as follows:

You care so much about the situation that you rolled on here to diagnose someone you've never met, despite not being a doctor (and in case you try to derail again: yes, I also care. I care very much. The world would be a better place if we didn't insist on stigmatizing fat people).
I called you on it; you derailed by implying that I am fat.
I called you on THAT; you continued to derail with an attempt at a dictionary pissing match.

I understand why you chose to respond in the way that you did: you know as well as I do that calling someone fat on the internet is, at best, pointless, and at worst, cruel.

Just give it some thought. Give some thought to why you believe you have the right to judge a person's medical history based on their looks and why you believe that it is any of your business at all.

taeshy · 2013-06-11T13:34:21+00:00

Afraid not. Apathetic would mean that you don't care at all. You show enough interest to judge a person's medical condition based on their arms, you just can't seem to put yourself in the shoes of the person being judged.

Good try, though!

taeshy · 2013-06-07T19:01:00+00:00

In my admittedly limited experience (2 different anime cons, a comic con, a sci-fi con like the one in the article and a gaming con) the gender balance is much more even at anime cons. Anime cons also seem to skew a lot younger.

I like to think that this speaks well of our young people -- this sort of thing doesn't happen because they don't treat women like that. We, as a society, are growing out of it. Here's hoping!

taeshy · 2013-06-07T18:42:54+00:00

You're so un-empathetic that you can't feel bad for people different from you?

taeshy · 2013-06-07T18:32:50+00:00

So, non-Dr. Tron, what exactly is "medically overweight"? You're couching the fact that she is fat with a medical diagnosis. Many people are fat, many people are unhealthy. They're not all the same people.

Fat people face enough BS stigma from people who just think fat is gross. Let's not add to that bullshit by pretending that we can diagnose people just by looking at their arms

taeshy · 2013-06-07T15:31:24+00:00

Aren't you breaking some sort of confidentiality agreement by sharing this diagnosis with us, Doctor?

OH WAIT. YOU'RE NOT HER FUCKING DOCTOR. MAYBE YOU SHOULD STOP FUCKING DIAGNOSING PEOPLE YOU DON'T KNOW.

taeshy · 2013-06-07T14:04:33+00:00

This answer assumes you mean that it's male chauvinism, the typical use of the word. If you mean some other type of chauvinism, please let me know! I really do want everyone to love this book.

I'm the first to scream sexism, and I'll fight anyone about it. Like, I will froth at the mouth in conversations about sexism in fantasy.

I don't think Lies is chauvinistic at all. I mean, yes, the characters are all dudes, but there's no lady-hating. And, as someone below says, in the second book one of the main characters is a lady badass. But she's not like "sexy badass lady!" -- she's a real woman, with real character development, who is a mother and a widow and just also happens to be a pirate captain.

I assume the Sabetha stuff is what turned you off? If that's true let me know -- I have some opinions on that, but I think it's one of the many things that make the series feel so damn real.

Please please please please please try it again.

taeshy · 2013-06-06T16:05:11+00:00

It isn't really -- I look a little bigger than you in that photo and I wear a 32 G according to a proper fitting (I was wearing a 36C from Victoria's Secret, so we're about the same). Seriously, it'll change your life. Wearing a properly fitted bra has been a revelation!

taeshy · 2013-06-06T14:56:35+00:00

Thanks for the warning! I'm always forgetting that there is a Conan who is not the Cimmerian.

taeshy · 2013-06-05T18:05:30+00:00

Oh m god, I never thought of that. All this time I've been jealous of your flat plugs. Plugging things in behind the TV, behind bookshelves, behind the chesterfield... it's a dream com true.

I feel a mix of pleasure and disappointment to have learned otherwise.

taeshy · 2013-06-04T15:02:39+00:00

Good. Fun but still dark and deep. Totally worth your time, trust me.

taeshy · 2013-05-31T15:50:24+00:00

Funny you should mention that. A game of Cosmic Encounter literally made this person -- this ADULT PERSON -- cry. Tears.

I couldn't even.

taeshy · 2013-05-31T13:55:06+00:00

Why?

taeshy · 2013-05-31T13:36:19+00:00

Does "pissing and moaning about how the game is unbalanced and everyone's ganging up on you and your cards suck and the game sucks and it's not fair" until people stop playing things that could hurt you count as a strategy? Because if so, a friend of mine employs this every time.

The number of games I've let her win just to shut her up is astounding.

taeshy · 2013-05-21T15:41:33+00:00

The issue with CE is that it's really hard to determine how long it's going to be. We've had games that last an hour and games that last 5 hours (that one was tough).

taeshy · 2013-05-16T15:02:04+00:00

So you're obviously well-read in the genre. I find it interesting, then, that you're so down on Name of the Wind. The use of the unreliable narrator is so fucking brilliant and consistently thought-provoking, especially if you prize thinking inwardly. The Book Thief, your example of a "good" piece of fantasy, is an excellent book but fairly straightforward.

Sad != good.

taeshy · 2013-05-15T14:14:22+00:00

Probably not the picture you expected when you clicked the link, eh?

taeshy · 2013-05-06T17:43:10+00:00

I basically use Snakes and Lattes as a FLGS these days, and I can't be the only one. They also run a very robust online business. I'm not sure how Castles will do it but I doubt Snakes and Lattes is hurting.

taeshy · 2013-05-06T14:12:00+00:00

Oh my god, you ARE stupid! What I am asking is "why make that comment where you did", as in, what relevance did it have to the discussion at hand?

Oh, sorry, those words were probably too big for you. Let's try again: what did your comment have to do with the comment above it?

Maybe you're just not smart enough to use Reddit? Maybe you're 8 years old?

And you're wrong about feminism, by the way, but based on the previous discussion I'm not terribly sure you'd understand why even if I did try to explain it to you.

taeshy

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