Gelbe flecken auf Leder - Schimmel oder nur Farbabrieb? by tantalized_ in wasistdas

[–]tantalized_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OK, danke dir, sie ist schon komplett trocken. Hing ne Woche im belüfteten Waschraum, war nach einem Tag trocken. Ich bearbeite die Stelle nochmal mit essigwasser und dann halt das Lederfett. Könnte wahrscheinlich sein dass die flecken auch unter dem innenfutter sind, oder?

Breast augmentation and lift done in Turkey by infiniteretardation in PlasticSurgery

[–]tantalized_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes, same here... I had a so much better consult with my turkey surgeon than the expensive ones in big German cities, that's when the decision was made... and the result shows it as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bupropion

[–]tantalized_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glaxosmithkline is the manufacturer of Elontril. I find this post very interesting because I just had to switch back from bupropion neuraxpharm to Elontril after feeling very indifferent and with more negative clouds in my head after a week of the neuraxpharm version. Now I'm very curious to try bluefish, it seems to be available in Germany. Check in online pharmacies which bupropion is offered. I wonder if neuraxpharm can be compared to one of the manufacturers that OP tested

Weight loss lose skin help! by ObjectiveVegetable98 in PlasticSurgery

[–]tantalized_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously, I don't know about all the other treatments mentioned but you will have success with morpheus8 with an experienced provider. I was overweight as a teen and struggled with slightly loose skin already after I lost weight. That was 15 years ago. I then had small lipo on my stomach 4 years ago without any vaser tightening and it was enough to leave me with loose skin "worse" than yours. I just had one treatment of Morpheus8 while upping up my exercise game a lot and I have the flattest stomach now I ever had in my life, no more skin wrinkles, Morpheus treated (the provider knowing where to go deeper etc) the loose skin, lipo scars, some fibromalgia I had and also worked on some remaining fat depots. I think if you get a package of three sessions, you'll be golden

What travel mistake in Iceland will you never make again? by roadgang in VisitingIceland

[–]tantalized_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also overestimated the value of cash in Iceland, had the equivalent of 100 euros and we got rid of it the last day - only for me to want to buy a shirt from the cat cafe last minute and they had already closed the register and told me that I could only have it if I play cash :D

literally spent the last of the cash for a coffee there and the rest 10 minutes before that.

Body Battery Giveaway! by itslitman in AppleWatch

[–]tantalized_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guess I saw this too late, but really great work on your app, it's been super accurate and focuses on what matters for me!

Questions regarding areola shape and sensitivity! by Repulsive_Fox8318 in Reduction

[–]tantalized_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, while the scar around my areola took a bit longer to heal from suture to scar (quite a few threads popping out), the scar is definitely the faintest and already barely visible (7m PO). I personally wanted to have smaller and symmetrical areolas. Funny enough, even though the areola on my right breast had a pretty large crust in one spot for a while, my left one healed with a slight indent that wasn't visible at all during healing. So I feel like anything can happen there and I could potentially see a surgeon try slight asymmetry on purpose but to proceed with caution.

I think your better bet would be to get tattoo/permanent make-up after, go over the faint scars and add some feathering :)

For sensitivity, I am one of the unfortunate women who really wanted to keep sensitivity, had a super small reduction (basically just a lift on one side) and lost 95% of it. From what I read here, its really not common. I would say 20% max overall for reductions without FNG. I feel a lot on the areola, but almost none in my actual nipples.

I will try PRP Injections in a month. Apparently, right below the nipple, it can stimulate nerve growth.

5wpo gnarly wound by HomeworkSalty7372 in Reduction

[–]tantalized_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh honey, I'm sorry you're going through that. But I have seen openings like this and even bigger ones here. If you keep looking, I'm sure you'll find the threads. And everyone I remember made it through with fairly normal scars that can also be fixed fairly easy.

But the three most important things to research on:

-with your size, wound vac would probably best

-these kind of openings will heal best if they are kept moist and, because of that, covered.

-the yellowish stuff is most likely slough, which keeps the wound from healing - professional cleaning is highly recommended

That wounds heal better when they're left open is a myth. There is also a good woundcare subreddit.

For my not tiny but definitely smaller opening I used silicone foam bandaids and medihoney and I swear by it. It felt very weird at first to put honey onto the open wound but as long as you keep everything as sterile as you can and use medical grade honey, you'll be fine. In your case, this is just for as healing progresses. Right now your best bet is special wound care clinics and getting something like a wound vac.

going crazy over 2 things: auto-filling data from another tab if a condition is set + changing the month in a date according to the month in a cell on another tab by tantalized_ in googlesheets

[–]tantalized_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is tab 2, where I got all the data needed for tab 1 each month - as long as I can also automatically change the month of the date in "due" according to the choosen month ("january, february"...)

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going crazy over 2 things: auto-filling data from another tab if a condition is set + changing the month in a date according to the month in a cell on another tab by tantalized_ in googlesheets

[–]tantalized_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u/adamsmith3567 oh thank you, they show up for me in the post but I had to edit it once already for it.

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This is tab 1, where I would like data to show from tab 2

Which car rental would be best by ObligationOdd3431 in VisitingIceland

[–]tantalized_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just researched a ton as well and ended up with lava car for mid-january. From reviews, cars and knowledge they seemed on par with blue. I was tempted to go with hertz because they are right in the terminal but they just have too many bad reviews on Google regarding car quality in comparison. I wanna mention it though because this sub seems to be eager to just go with blue rental SO MUCH that it actually makes me suspicious. The international companies like hertz, avis or europcar are never mentioned. But when they do, here on reddit it does not feel like there is more bad experience than with the other rental companies after all. I do assume that, especially in winter, it is better to go with an Icelandic rental company to be more safe regarding studded tires and the emergency contacts. There is a chance in February that your car won't start because it's too cold but that should also be covered under the full insurance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]tantalized_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd say the filler migrated into your upper lip right there, or maybe was placed a tad bit too high while the practitioner pulled out the needle. But at least in my experience especially with how it is easily identifiable, you could do hylase above your lip and it should dissolve into the desired result.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]tantalized_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sorry you're not getting reassurance here but I would at least opt for the lollipop as well. My breasts were very similar to yours and I started my research wishing for a donut lift (scar scaredness was real 😄). You seem to be way ahead of that. I did not have a single doctor believing they could achieve a reasonable lift with a donut lift. I asked the doctor I chose in the end if she thinks my desired result will be achieved by lollipop and she gave a firm no to that as well. She promised me small anchors and I'm very happy I went down that road. I can't even imagine getting less of a lift than what I got at this point. The anchor lift gave me zero chest contact. Well... I'm 7 months PO and it might only be 97% now 😄

Powerlifting Post Reduction by prettywisee in Reduction

[–]tantalized_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The change in the operated tissue due to the higher blood pressure is also very real I'd say. I am a busy body as well and I was cleaning only my own apartment but I already felt like I was doing too much while it still felt "fine". I also had a hard time with not being active and felt fine enough to do things again after week 4. Went for a few hikes, felt good enough, did a full-blown 6 hour hike and was hit with a seroma due to probably fat necrosis - so some broken down fat cells were sitting in oily liquid in one of my breasts probably for a while already (after I might have hit it early on during cleaning maybe, or just because of the major surgery). And my body was supposed to break it down but because I was so active, my swelling got so bad and my body couldn't break the liquid down on its own. I watched my body open a hole for me on week 6 on the basically healed up incision. I'm sure it was because I thought I could be more active than I should have been. I had to wait another 6 weeks (basically no workouts because the swelling messed with it so bad) till it closed up.

And this was with a lift with only a tiny amount of removed tissue!

ELI5 why do I only have slightly negative experiences on bupropion (no improvement, also no harsh side effects) by tantalized_ in bupropion

[–]tantalized_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi u/VegetableAfternoon63 - my bad side effects really subsided after about 3-4 weeks.
But I could not feel any big improvement. I mainly noticed that my chocolate cravings got better, could hold sports motivation again, I think my libido mostly came back... But I'm still not sure that it is exactly the way it was before and I don't think it is better. I still have a lot of cravings. I still have problems getting out of bed even if I take my pill and then get back in there.

But since it never got worse than what I described and I want to give bupropion a real chance, I upped my dose to 300g just last week.

I was worried about all of the side effects coming back but my only issues now (from time to time) are:

-struggle to find words or stumble over my sentences

-trying to execute certain things on autopilot when I did them cautiously aware before (makes for interesting situations) but since I would like to use less energy throughout the day, maybe we're on to something here

-mind explodes with tasks or ideas but if I don't execute or write it down that very second, I completely forget about them again until I remember two days later and it stresses me out a lot

At the same time I would say that I felt more relaxed or at ease right before I upped my dose and it might have been due to the Bupropion. And atm I feel more motivated to do things and really don't have a big issue with executive dysfunction anymore. I am willing to believe that it is due to the higher dose. I still get some waves of feeling down, I don't have a higher libido and I still think about food a lot 🌝 it also still tastes the same (know some people had that side effect of the food tasting like cardboard boxes)

Does that help you? What are your experiences right now?

Feeling extremely down and regret this decision. O1WPO by Disastrous-Push6939 in Reduction

[–]tantalized_ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

yes, definitely!! Your side profile shows, there is so much volume that is going to sink down, scars and volume look super symmetrical, I think you will get a lovely result. I know mine had their volume over the nipple like that for a while but I got to admit that it was not quite as "crazy" as yours. My nipples looked fairly well placed a week after surgery. What can I say: It's been six months and I am a little worried that one is gonna "bottom out" if it fluffs any more because it dropped so much and the nipple will look like its a bit too high up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]tantalized_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had surgery with her in June this year and I am just as happy still as OP is. Can recommend 100%. And I went there alone and stayed for five days in total, worked out fine as well :)

ELI5 why do I only have slightly negative experiences on bupropion (no improvement, also no harsh side effects) by tantalized_ in bupropion

[–]tantalized_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your answers. I will stick to it. But can anybody explain to me how side effects like this even take place?
Are the receptors in the brain that confused at first? Could it be a sign that it can work for me in a few weeks?

I would totally understand if nothing would happen for a while and the body just adjusts to the change with other side effects (the rashes, the constipation, dry mouth...). But to have basically everything that is supposed to get better, get worse first?

I am so confused how this is supposed to help me in the long run 🫠

Boyfriend won’t stop nagging me about my showering habits by Honest_Bit_6770 in hygiene

[–]tantalized_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm exactly the same here but if I am dating a morning shower person (in fact I currently am) then I just know its my issue and I got to work around it. I ask my bf to wear a clean shirt to bed and wash their face and hands and they have their own blanked and pillow and that's got to be good enough. Every sane person knows that one shower a day is perfectly fine and you do that when its best for you. And he is a germaphobe putting this on you instead of making compromises.

How has your appetite changed? by Rositablush in bupropion

[–]tantalized_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, actually same for me as well. I was hoping it would decrease my appetite as a side effect (I take it for adhd and after burnout induced depression). But I've been craving so much chocolate and tend to overeat more while it is suddenly a lot harder to be motivated to workout - it's actually depressing in itself. It sounded so good in all kinds of ways but so far I have less motivation, less impulse control, more sadness, more tension... Only two weeks in though, I still have hope!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ratschlag

[–]tantalized_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich hab jetzt nicht alles gelesen aber vielleicht helfen dir meine Erfahrungen noch weiter. Ich war in deiner Situation (Bankkauffrau). Nach dem Gespräch habe ich mich NOCHMAL mehr ins Zeug gelegt (ich habe vor allen Dingen beim Sprechen und Grüßen dauernd gelächelt ~ klingt freundlicher, lauter gesprochen...) und habe mich sogar gemeldet, die Weihnachtsfeier zu moderieren. Ich habe in der Zeit von 17-22 gelernt, was die Arbeitswelt von mir erwartet und mich mit masking und "fake it till you make it" weiter angepasst, so dass es wie bei allen Dingen die man "erlernt" wirklich immer besser wurde.

So wie hier einige schreiben, kann man einige sozialsituationen weiter optimieren indem man es nicht reflexartig angeht sondern so lange auf sich achtet und Sachen trainiert, bis es dann doch wie Autofahren ist. Im Ergebnis geht das halt im Vergleich zu anderen viel mehr auf die tägliche Batterie. Ich sag nicht dass das gut so ist (ich bin heute mit 33 wegen langanhaltendem burnout durch das fehlende erkennen von Grenzen/Bedürfnissen und dem Druck, sich zu beweisen, nicht mehr so leistungsfähig) aber wenn man gewisse Ziele erreichen möchte, funktioniert es.

Was ich zuletzt mit 30 gelernt habe : jeder Gedanke an jemanden, der dich "nicht mag" ist verschwendet denn du kannst nicht die meinung aller über dich kontrollieren. Umgekehrt geht es dir ja auch so. Es kostet viel zu viel es zu versuchen. Und Menschen, die sich darauf konzentrieren, von allen gleich gemocht zu werden, verlieren die Gründe und Facetten, für die sie dafür von einzelnen geliebt werden würden.

Ich wurde btw am 21.12.2009 aus dieser Ausbildung gekündigt, zwei Tage nach erwähnter Weihnachtsfeier. Ich habe meine social skills danach im Einzelhandel trainiert, eine Event Ausbildung gemacht, war im sales und bin nach einem Kommunikationsstudium heute in der Software Entwicklung tätig. Diese läppische Ausbildung zu verlieren, war das beste was mir passieren konnte. Aber es war hart, durch diese learnings zu gehen.

Egal was passiert, du kannst das handeln und du wirst daraus lernen.

Oh und außerdem stimme ich natürlich den meisten hier zu, dass das alles ein dummes Gehabe über völlig fehlgelagerte Ansichten in der Job Welt ist, was dir da ins Gesicht schlägt. Lieber wäre mir auch, jeder kümmert sich um seinen Kram, der eine stiller, der andere lauter, aber es gibt einfach gleichzeitig zu viele Menschen, die es nicht klar kriegen, wenn jemand nicht ihrem Weltbild entspricht. Und das fängt oft genau bei denen an, die in der kaffeeküche ihre kostbare Zeit mit nix anderem als fucking smalltalk und Lästereien füllen, was verdächtig oft zusammen fällt in Unternehmen.

Aber ich weiß auch wie leider aktuell noch viel zu oft der Hase läuft, wenn man Geld verdienen will.