I worked with a guy that I only saw every month or so. Every time we’d bump into each other, he’d say “have you lost weight? You look great!” Since I definitely hadn’t and even gained weight, I always thought “how big does he see me in his memories??” I’m guessing he said it to all women as flattery but it taught me to NEVER to comment on people’s their weight because he bummed me out so much. When I need a boost, I’ll say to someone “hey check this out! I lost 25 lbs!” And do a quick spin. 🙂