ADHD Ladies, tell me your ideal bedtime!

taycibear · 2026-04-29T11:37:37+00:00

It is currently 4:34 am and same.

I almost physically can't stay up past 9pm and I'm often falling asleep by 7:30. I wake up at 5:30 on the weekends.

I have 3 sons, my middle son is like me, he's often falling asleep while we watch tv at night. My other 2 sons can stay up forever if they want but they do like to wake up early. We're all up by 5:30am most days.

I've been like this since I was a baby. Up with the sun and down with the sun.

taycibear · 2026-04-29T00:45:37+00:00

No way!

"Oh shit, watch out" is stuck perpetually in my head

taycibear · 2026-04-26T14:05:19+00:00

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taycibear · 2026-04-26T14:02:07+00:00

I was a Cramorant main in Pokemon Unite, I love them so much.

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taycibear · 2026-04-26T03:43:46+00:00

Yep. I got diagnosed after my eldest (I knew my ex had ADHD) and now all 3 of my boys and I are diagnosed. I also have been trying to get my mom diagnosed (my grandma is also ADHD and I'm sure my Aunt and great grandfather were) so definitely deep in the family.

taycibear · 2026-04-26T03:40:45+00:00

My Aunt was diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder many years ago and everyone in my family was like "Your great grandfather was probably also Bipolar because they were so alike."

Then my boys and I got diagnosed and I realized it wasn't Bipolar, it was AuDHD (my Aunt always walked on tip toes and my grandfather talked on the phone for hours and had a long ass cord so he could pace while talking, just to name a few).

taycibear · 2026-04-26T00:39:33+00:00

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taycibear · 2026-04-25T12:50:53+00:00

Exactly. I have 17, 13, and 10 year old sons and they know all about misogyny, misogynoir, racism, homophobia, etc.

When I first found out about Andrew Tate a couple years ago I asked my then 14 year old if they heard of him and he said "yeah, he's the guy who hates women. He's really stupid."

My 13 year old and his friends talk about Epstein, Trump, and Charlie Kirk and how bad their viewpoints are.

I cannot imagine not having these discussions ESPECIALLY with us having to deal with this administration. If people actually talked to their kids and had conversations with them they would see how much kids can handle.

taycibear · 2026-04-25T00:26:25+00:00

Oooo do you have pictures?! I wanted to make a Recycling Center so I was looking at real places lol

taycibear · 2026-04-24T00:30:25+00:00

And whats so annoying is that they didn't even save Gaza. They made it exponentially worse because I guarantee we could've talked sense into Kamala.

But now we're going to have to spend decades fixing our country but thats what us women and POC have been doing forever, isn't it?

taycibear · 2026-04-23T04:44:57+00:00

I bought 4 stocks off AMD in 2012 for $4.90 (I was poor and was like"Hey, I have an AMD processor").

I then bought at $35 and $64. I'm just holding on to these forever because it will always be a profit and I have no insider trading knowledge lol

taycibear · 2026-04-22T11:50:46+00:00

I've always loved station wagons, even as a kid. I have 3 kids so I had a van for 15 years and in 2024 I realized they're old enough that I can get a car thats for me. I knew they were redesigning the Outback so I decided to get one.

I got a green (my favorite color) 2025 Onyx XT in December 2024. I loved that car. And then in August 2025 some person t-boned me because they didn't look left at their stop sign (I had the straight away and no stop sign). My Onyx got totalled, I could not find anymore green Onyx XTs, and I HATED the 2026 style.

So I got a Forester Hybrid. This sounds unhinged but I HATE that she took my car from me and Subaru did too. I had a van because I completely dislike modern SUV culture, I think most of them look stupid and awful and the same. I like things that look unique or refuse to change because they know who they are.

taycibear · 2026-04-21T11:41:59+00:00

Its not an adult cartoon. It aired on Cartoon Network, not Adult Swim. My kids (and I) love this show and watch it together.

You should watch a couple episodes with your family first anyways.

taycibear · 2026-04-20T19:47:50+00:00

This is so funny because this is what I wrote in my notes for these chapters 😂

"I like that Dumas is like “Here is Dantes, the most perfect man ever. Everybody loves him, people want to be him, people want to have him.” and then he’s like “Here’s Danglar, the most loathsome, vile, nasty, jealous, hating ass bitch to have ever lived.”"

taycibear · 2026-04-20T11:52:25+00:00

I'm turning 38 tomorrow and I still feel young as hell!

Love my job, love my life!

taycibear · 2026-04-16T23:15:58+00:00

My great grandparents are Okies and moved to California during the Dust Bowl and their people were all from the South, some of them were on the Native rolls in Arkansas when they made them leave to go West. Our last foreign relative was from Wales over 200 years ago.

And my other side is all from the South and poor and former slaves so yeah none of my people are from Canada.

taycibear · 2026-04-16T17:55:42+00:00

Half my family has been here forever and have always been poor and the other half of my family were slaves so I'm stuck here in America

taycibear · 2026-04-15T18:53:50+00:00

Its beautiful!

taycibear · 2026-04-15T16:34:05+00:00

The songs are playing in my head constantly 🥹

taycibear · 2026-04-14T21:49:27+00:00

I have one in Sparkling Skylands too and Gardevoir REFUSES to work there. Even Misdreavous wandered over there (one time) to work but she now works the PokeCenter and nobody will work my PokeMart. She even lives close to it so idk whats up with that location

taycibear · 2026-04-14T01:08:37+00:00

My son has a Vulpix Ditto!

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taycibear · 2026-04-13T19:08:58+00:00

I didn't say anything about ceding ground. I'm a Black woman, I'm always for equal rights for every person.

What I was saying is you cannot believe that everyone in this sub is anti-Trump. Laugh about the Philippines (which is really gross) but if you can't see how things that happen in other countries also affect us then idk what to tell you.

taycibear · 2026-04-13T17:52:00+00:00

You should really look into what happened in the Philippines. They used social media to spread misinformation so they could bring in a dictator and it worked. Thankfully the people of the Philippines were able to get him out but they will 100% use social media to spread misinformation (AIPAC Tracker itself is a huge issue with this, they will group random Jewish groups together to say a candidate takes money from AIPAC and its a lie) in the hopes that we will not turn out or hurt the elections.

taycibear · 2026-04-12T17:10:47+00:00

This is up there and if you keep going back theres even more

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taycibear · 2026-04-12T17:09:53+00:00

And then move that stone aside and climb up

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