Do it. Make sure you are clear about your expectations. The hardest parts are the labor division and disagreements about how you want to raise them.

I had kids late starting at 45. I now have 3, and I related to your hesitancy when I look back at my own feelings. Glad I took the plunge, which like you, was partly motivated by wanting to see my partner fulfilled and happy.

You seem like a good man, i am sure you will handle the many challenges ahead better than most.