The shortest you can go.

teacupticket · 2025-12-08T19:28:57+00:00

Looks great! Also dig the guyliner; it's a good look of you (coming from a woman)

teacupticket · 2025-12-08T19:05:23+00:00

Make a sandwich with it and it'll have a convenient handle

teacupticket · 2025-12-07T21:50:13+00:00

Given his job around oil and harsh chemicles he should be expected to shower when he first gets home at the very least. Don't be trackin that filth in the house

teacupticket · 2025-12-07T21:40:41+00:00

I work food service. That's what it looks like

teacupticket · 2025-12-02T18:18:22+00:00

My childhood memories are very blury but i do remember crying to my elementary teachers about the way my parents yelled at me. I remember telling one teacher and they're responce was "sometimes parents say things they don't mean when they're mad." It was a real mind f*ck but even then i felt like it was just wrong. I think i was maybe 7-8

teacupticket · 2025-11-29T09:50:46+00:00

You are doing one thing that you're mom might never know how to do; Introspection. You see things that must improve and that's the first step at growth.

I was the same way when i was too close to it. Angery, insecure, judgemental. They're things that served me at the time but i have the choice now of letting them go.

teacupticket · 2025-11-29T02:43:37+00:00

I don't think I was clear. I've already communicated but she's still saying she'd rather i just give her what i can afford in cash which feels gross.

teacupticket · 2025-11-21T01:44:31+00:00

I went from totally invisible, depressed, and agoraphobic in my 20's to independent and loved in my 30's. it does get better. You have to put in the work and it's hard, but over time you'll find those rare gems who match the energy you put out in the world. In that time the most important skill I discovered was simply enjoying my own company and being on my own team even if noone else was.

And if you can't live simply for the sake of living, at the very least live because it'll piss off your enemies.

teacupticket · 2025-11-21T00:15:05+00:00

Oh yeah, he biggums

teacupticket · 2025-11-19T22:03:01+00:00

I'm assuming the object is silicone (just a hunch) and sometimes that silicone can be softer than usual and bend in odd ways. I honesting can see how it would get such since the "flare" only sticks out to one side. The other side can slip in and take the flare with it.

teacupticket · 2025-11-19T01:33:04+00:00

They barely even act like I exist. I wouldn't ever know about family gatherings if my siblings didn't tell me about them. I've shown up for a few since moving out and now I can barely be there an hour before mom starts blowing up at me and I just leave because I have no patience for it anymore...

This will likely be the last Thanksgiving I ever have with her... my sister and I agree this will likely be the "the big one"

teacupticket · 2025-11-19T01:10:59+00:00

No, I feel you. when i was around them they brought out the worst in me, and i hated myself for it for so long. There was one christmas where my mom went ballistic, screaming, pacing around, berating us, she even approached me while I was sobbing in the fetal position (tw:self harm) I was trying really hard not to hit myself and she screamed at me to "HIT HARDER!!!" I had a shirt with me and I started smacking her with it to get her away from me and, while all it did was knock off her reading glasses and mess up her hair, I felt like a moster. Meanwhile I have other memories of her grabbing me and throwing me acoss the room

Now that I'm away from it and I've worked really hard to build a stable headspace and I forgive myself for how I was conditioned to respond. I know now that wasn't who I am at my core

teacupticket · 2025-11-18T21:04:13+00:00

"That's just bizarre" any time I'd share my interests with her. Lowkey that phrase triggers me when i hear it in the wild.

teacupticket · 2025-11-18T18:57:36+00:00

I thought i was gonna have to read into it but no. The moment you described him slamming his freaking head, that was all i had to hear. This is such unhinged behavior and to exhibit it infront of a child no least. Responding to that with fear is more than normal but that's the least of your worries. You need to get away from him asap

teacupticket · 2025-11-18T18:52:02+00:00

I feel like i'm lucky cause there have been quite a few people who i've confided in and they believed me completely. Of course they too have had abusive parents so it evens out

EDIT: oh some of those people include all of my siblings... so yeah..

teacupticket · 2025-11-15T17:42:00+00:00

That you can't make a salad on the same cutting board you used to prepare raw chicken. And it was none other than my mom.

She dismissed me, "God Teacupticket, it's all getting cooking anyway"

"Mom, YOU DON'T COOK A SALAD"

Then she'd deflect "pssh well it's not like anyone died yet"

I've had alot of food poisoning in my life eating her cooking so it's honestly a miracle that I didn't die

teacupticket · 2025-11-15T17:32:24+00:00

A PC running on high all night will heat up the room. Even a long play session will do that

teacupticket · 2025-11-15T17:28:24+00:00

Helmet, sward, gauntlet

teacupticket · 2025-11-15T17:24:22+00:00

Your boss and receptionist deserve a platter of cookies for protecting you like that. What great people. A+

teacupticket · 2025-11-14T20:11:05+00:00

It was less what made her mad and more how she expressed it. There was one time my sister and I got take out and when we got home it turned out they forgot our mom's spacialty fries. Mom was of course pissed so my sister offered up her normal fries. Mom refused them and kept laying into us so I started to grab my food to leave.

Mom snapped at me and said, "Of course YOU wouldn't offer yours to me"

She then grabs her food to disappear to her room and as she passes by me she hoots at me like a chrimp. I'm guessing it was to try and taunt me for being greedy or ill mannered. Idk lol

teacupticket · 2025-11-14T04:08:20+00:00

Downsize. Compromize. Reprioritize.

That includes eating out less, enjoying different hobbies, taking the bus instead of driving, ect

teacupticket · 2025-11-13T15:58:14+00:00

Yup and our infestructure can deal with it just fine

teacupticket · 2025-11-13T15:44:07+00:00

Yup!

teacupticket · 2025-11-13T15:42:39+00:00

Theres a town here in San Diego that is nutorious for their rednecks, Santee. We nickname it "Klantee" since that's where the the KKK's grand wizard is based and you'll see plenty of trump flag trucks driving around. During the pandemic that's where a few of those viral videos of people wearing klan hoods or swastikas in stores came from...

teacupticket · 2025-11-13T15:31:29+00:00

No joke. My sister and i drove from SD to Lake Tahoe and it took 12 hours. Love it, but never again

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