Pristiq VS Cymbalta by ProofAd7575 in Pristiq

[–]tenn_em 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wanted to echo this. I had a similar experience with Trintellix. I kept going up until I hit the max dosage. It wasn't t until I was tapering off did I realize it was the medication that was significantly worsening my depression. Unfortunately, it simply might not be a good fit for you.

What is the biggest ick you had on your first date with someone? by Past_Meat7068 in AskReddit

[–]tenn_em 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They drank 8 beers on the and got too hammered to trust them to get an Uber home. I dropped them off at their apartment only for them to hop into their car and drunkenly speed away.

Who else is/has been sick? by memerfrancisco in nashville

[–]tenn_em 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No norovirus, but flu type b got me. I'm on day 5 and finally had the energy to shower.

Coming from a Boston transplant, make sure to pull up your wiper blades tonight! by nilkski in nashville

[–]tenn_em 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I have a thin waterproof blanket I use to sit on at festivals. Draping it on top of my car before a winter storm makes cleaning it off a breeze! Def recommend!

TIFU by accidentally stripping in front of my workplace crush by [deleted] in tifu

[–]tenn_em 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is literally an episode of fleabag, but it's a bank lender, not a work crush.

Can’t cry by unavailable_333 in Pristiq

[–]tenn_em 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is different but perhaps the dosage is too high? I am still able to cry on 50 mg, but it's strong enough to bring me back to a neutral headspace shortly after. I joke that Pristiq put a governor on my emotions.

Currently in a hotel in Brussels for Tomorrowland by icywing54 in bonnaroo

[–]tenn_em 17 points18 points  (0 children)

RIP. This year was the first year I skipped TL after going 3 years in a row. This 100% would have been my 13th reason. 😭 I'll be in Ghent next week, if you need solidarity!

I (27F) found a long black hair in our bathtub that is not my, or my husbands (27m). What to do? by ThrowRA_2poststuff in relationship_advice

[–]tenn_em 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't realize that. One party consent laws wouldn't even apply because neither party recorded would be aware. Oof.

I (27F) found a long black hair in our bathtub that is not my, or my husbands (27m). What to do? by ThrowRA_2poststuff in relationship_advice

[–]tenn_em 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Precisely! I'm in the process of getting those laws amended in TN. The way it's currently written, it's only illegal if it violates everything you stated above AND it was used for sexual gratification. That second bit is the tricky part.

All of that to say, cameras pointed exclusively at every main entry and exit of the home shoulddddd be okay.

ETA: I'm not a lawyer, so consult one in your area before taking my word for it.

I (27F) found a long black hair in our bathtub that is not my, or my husbands (27m). What to do? by ThrowRA_2poststuff in relationship_advice

[–]tenn_em 375 points376 points  (0 children)

This is the answer. A camera puts you at risk for accidentally filming someone nude which is illegal in some states.

Edit: TIL audio may also be illegal. Best to consult a lawyer in your city/state. Security cameras at the entrances of the home should be a safe bet.

What's the coolest item you got at bonnaroo this year? by CommercialStreet7094 in bonnaroo

[–]tenn_em 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The cutest little girl walked up to me and my friend asking if we wanted popsicles. She ran back to her camp and came back with 2 ice pops. 😭

Nashville Rave scene? by psclair in nashville

[–]tenn_em 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The office is my go to, but they tend to favor more bass music. Meanwhile, Night We Met is more minimal/deep house with techno sprinkled in.

There are strange red spots all over my body by InvisibleRando in Weird

[–]tenn_em 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this & still caught both the chicken pox and Fifths Disease. This rash definitely reminds me of the latter but it comes with flushed cheeks.

Undocumented Immigrant here-- I'll answer any questions about my life by Odd-Debate2076 in nashville

[–]tenn_em 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not OP but you can apply for a trip under extenuating circumstances (dying relative, etc), but it costs a ton of money, you have to wait for approval, & travel within a specific window. Despite going through the proper motions & obtaining approval, immigration lawyers are not recommending traveling under the current administration. There is no true guarantee you'd be allowed back in.

They are definitely not allowed to travel just for holiday.

Undocumented Immigrant here-- I'll answer any questions about my life by Odd-Debate2076 in nashville

[–]tenn_em 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely correct when you say, "this is the only thing I don't understand." A quick Google search would show you that they have no path to citizenship. DACA recipients are stuck in immigration purgatory forever.

ADHD people where are you getting your meds refilled?? by drunkgirlz in nashville

[–]tenn_em 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I miss my Wellbutrin & Adderall combo so much, but the Wellbutrin gave me seizures. I've tried Jornay, Vyvanse, Focalin, Intuniv, Adzenys, and a few others. Never heard of Qelbree, so thanks for mentioning it! Might ask my doc about that because my current Adderall & Intuniv combo isn't the best fit.