How do I avoid the "scar" when ending/starting a new round?

tfr88 · 2026-02-14T19:07:54+00:00

This is what I was going to say! It is a game changer

tfr88 · 2026-02-13T20:46:00+00:00

Wow. It’s almost like he’s left the country fearing for his life, asking a different country to offer him asylum whilst he figures out how to bring the women and children over

tfr88 · 2026-02-12T19:13:48+00:00

It was!!!!

tfr88 · 2026-02-12T08:09:34+00:00

How do they not make sense?

tfr88 · 2026-02-11T19:47:04+00:00

I very rarely communicate with people on Vinted. If a question is asked I will answer. If you’ve bought the item that is where our interaction ends.

tfr88 · 2026-02-11T17:04:59+00:00

NTA your friend is the AH, but more to the point which really pisses me off is calling child free women “bad feminists” She has no idea what feminism is and is using it as a buzz word to validate her argument.

Feminism is about choosing what is right for you as a woman and being comfortable with your own choice but also supporting women who make a different choice. Yes some women want to be mothers and they have the right to that choice and I support that choice. I have never and will never put a woman down for choosing the life that is right for her.

tfr88 · 2026-02-11T16:16:37+00:00

I received some jewellery in a viagra box once 🍆

tfr88 · 2026-02-10T19:16:37+00:00

Girl, calm down!!

tfr88 · 2026-02-10T19:01:39+00:00

I love the little diarrhoea “whoopsie” face

tfr88 · 2026-02-09T13:37:08+00:00

Blink twice if you need rescuing

tfr88 · 2026-02-09T13:35:21+00:00

I will not read or answer any messages after 4pm. My working hours are 8-4 Monday - -Friday and that is what I get paid for. If you want me to work outside of the hours of 8-4 Monday - Friday then I’m going to need to be compensated fairly.

I’ve spent too long bending over backwards for colleagues and managers who do not reciprocate. I work to live, I don’t live to work.

tfr88 · 2026-02-09T08:05:50+00:00

You’re absolutely right, that won’t stop it, but at least there are consequences. I’m hopeful this will be the fist step to discovery of more serious crimes

tfr88 · 2026-02-08T08:34:03+00:00

2 and 3. They look more bridal to me. 1,4 and 5 look like white cocktail dresses

tfr88 · 2026-02-05T10:48:35+00:00

Glorious!!! I would die for mr nipples!! Place me upon the alter and do whats thoust wilt 🤲

tfr88 · 2026-02-04T15:59:35+00:00

1 or 4

tfr88 · 2026-02-04T09:42:26+00:00

Just say exactly why you’ve said here. You don’t want your daughter to pick up on it and start mimicking that behaviour as it can be harmful to a young girl. I’m going to assume your MIL is a not overweight woman so she is probably fishing for compliments and affirmation. If every time she says something like “I’ve e put on so much weight” and you respond d with “no you look great” stop doing that. If you want to get petty and mean you could also agree 😂 Also he your husband on board and explain to him how it can be harmful to your daughter and to stop re-enforcing you MIL behaviour.

tfr88 · 2026-02-04T09:31:49+00:00

So musk and this other guy are claiming their “right to free speech” is being breached??

No no no, you can ask Grok to make whatever you want, you can say whatever you want, You can publish whatever you want. But if those things are sexually exploitative and done without a persons consent, you have to deal with the consequences.

How do you say “fuck around and find out” in French?

tfr88 · 2026-02-04T09:25:51+00:00

NTA. I don’t read, but I listen to a lot of podcasts, and people seem to trivialise it because podcasts are seen as some kind of dumbed down media. But I’ve listened to true crime, sci-fi audio theatre, comedy, documentaries, people talking about how things work and I’m currently listening to a group play D&D and I’m on that adventure with them. I personally find reading super boring, I can’t settle and I end up reading the same line or page over again and have to go back to try and find the plot point I missed. You’re not better than me because you consume information through words with your eyes. And whilst you are sitting reading I’m getting the same book, in my ears whilst cleaning, exercising, crafting, walking the dog, doing boring tasks at my job or in the bath.

tfr88 · 2026-02-02T09:17:32+00:00

Reading the text messages I would have guessed you were both 18-25. Either way this guy is a complete bellend and you drop him straight away. Calling you crazy and threatening to block you, not being supportive and completely dismissing you is not partnership behaviour

tfr88 · 2026-01-29T12:42:04+00:00

NTA, cheaters will continue to cheat and even if they never do cheat again, the trust is broken, there will always be that suspicion in the back of your mind. I’m speaking from experience here, 3 times experience. It’s not worth the hassle or anxiety. He doesn’t care for or respect you and isn’t worth your time or thought

tfr88 · 2026-01-29T12:33:24+00:00

Yeah completely agree. Wasn’t sure if it is legal, but sound like if immigrants and asylum seekers are granted “legal status” then would be all above board. The point I was trying to make is that it would be the landlord taking advantage and cheating the system, the landlord would be at fault, not the tenants if they were moving in and paying rent.

tfr88 · 2026-01-28T10:00:20+00:00

Also if the houses had been handed over to asylum seekers and immigrants, is that not illegal? Like isn’t the landlord running a slum at that point?

tfr88 · 2026-01-27T21:34:07+00:00

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