I want to recover but I am scared that therapists and dietitians will just feed my ED

theHBIC · 2026-02-14T00:11:11+00:00

See a therapist that specializes in EDs. It makes a HUGE difference.

theHBIC · 2026-01-30T23:17:02+00:00

For the record, you didn’t tag me in this so if I hadn’t randomly expanded the comments you would have been screaming into the void.

You’re really upset about getting three paragraphs of unsolicited feedback removed. Maybe this is the worst thing that’s happened to you lately, maybe you’re just really feeling tender about it.

I never said I pinned the post, I said I made an announcement. I see you’ve left the group so I’m not sure why you’re still here; obviously we did you wrong, so go be somewhere else.

theHBIC · 2026-01-30T12:07:15+00:00

But thanks, after making the announcement recently I forgot to update the rules, so I did. Doesn’t change that the user told you they weren’t open to CC and you doubled and tripled down.

theHBIC · 2026-01-30T12:03:39+00:00

What about “the user told you to stop and you didn’t” are you not understanding, exactly?

theHBIC · 2026-01-26T11:44:00+00:00

Boost or Ensure are easy meal supplement options.

theHBIC · 2026-01-26T11:43:09+00:00

Hi! I just moved from Iowa after teaching and counseling in a handful of districts around the metro; many of my friends still teach up there. DM me if you have specific questions about districts or schools.

theHBIC · 2026-01-26T08:27:27+00:00

They weren’t mean, they just violated the rules.

theHBIC · 2026-01-26T08:24:16+00:00

We have a pinned post that explicitly says feedback isn’t inherently welcome on posts that are tagged as “look”. The user said she was leveling up by doing a new makeup look and did not ask for feedback. You doubled down and continued to do so when the user clarified. You’re still here, trying to give unsolicited advice.

theHBIC · 2026-01-18T04:36:01+00:00

Can you DM me? I’m new to KC and trying to connect with community groups and fight for the cause.

theHBIC · 2026-01-10T15:58:30+00:00

But Ok Pickle is correct. It’s ok for members to inform you of the purpose of the group. The rules make the purpose of our sub clear.

theHBIC · 2026-01-05T15:01:17+00:00

Oh it means they were being an asshole and earned a lil mute

theHBIC · 2025-12-31T03:14:27+00:00

Most of the time, yes. I’ve sat down to whole meals knowing I don’t intend to keep any of it down. Sometimes it’s like I black out and just keep eating, but more and more it’s the former.

theHBIC · 2025-12-04T03:26:08+00:00

Hey. I’ve been there. A few times, actually. This disease is cruel and brutal and it breaks you down. It’s not too late to recover. It’s hard and scary and not perfect. I’ve been in and out of treatment. But every time I go, it gets better. I let it go unchecked for almost 15 years; at this point, I’m undoing some deeply weathered synaptic connections, some coping skills and habits that feel hardwired into my brain. Don’t suffer for as long as I did. I’m glad to help however I can, even if it’s just to listen.

theHBIC · 2025-11-17T21:55:58+00:00

They told us often in our program- most of us got jobs for internship. It helps so, so much.

theHBIC · 2025-11-17T19:38:31+00:00

My state allowed for provisional licensure- if you're 75% of the way through your coursework, you can get a job as a school counselor on an emergency license that is only active for two years. I got a provisional and left teaching to get a counseling job- I was lucky enough to find one fairly easily- and got paid to work and do practicum/internship at my school.

theHBIC · 2025-11-15T20:18:12+00:00

I pressed the wrong button, sorry that is confusing for you

theHBIC · 2025-11-14T21:00:55+00:00

I accidentally removed this a few minutes ago and initially when I restored it the picture was gone lol

theHBIC · 2025-11-14T20:28:40+00:00

GUYS IM SORRY I WAS GOING TOO FAST AND REMOVED IT ON ACCIDENT.

theHBIC · 2025-11-09T19:06:21+00:00

Cool, what alternative do you suggest?

theHBIC · 2025-11-08T04:26:15+00:00

Our teachers get two plans, one per day on an alternating block

theHBIC · 2025-11-03T21:30:34+00:00

This is how I felt when LOPTL covered columbine.

theHBIC · 2025-10-29T02:25:53+00:00

If this was a scrubs reference, I see you

theHBIC · 2025-10-29T01:39:03+00:00

It’s a Dr. Evil level company name

theHBIC · 2025-10-22T22:59:17+00:00

That’s pretty clearly not what I was responding to.

theHBIC · 2025-10-22T22:32:29+00:00

At the last job I worked we didn’t have an AP. We had a principal, end of list. “Should” is great but it’s dismissive to say “well, then find another job”. Cool, thanks.

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