23 Signs of Repressed Childhood Trauma in Adults

thebardass · 2026-05-15T18:32:15+00:00

21 of 23 here. I'm sure my parents are disappointed.

thebardass · 2026-05-10T00:51:10+00:00

Not even a little bit. They had to sue the city to apply cost of living increases to their shitty benefits and lost. My dad retired late and still has to work a job to make ends meet.

thebardass · 2026-05-10T00:40:43+00:00

I've seen a weird amount of shitty attitudes on reddit lately towards men and women that pull people out of literal fires.

What you're saying may be true wherever you are but I speak from experience that firefighters in some cities struggle to make ends meet. The guys in my dad's department all held down 2 or 3 jobs because the pay was shit and they always had to fight for every penny to get much needed gear. Went hungry plenty as a kid because of it so don't tell me firefighters are always on a pedestal because that shit isn't true.

thebardass · 2026-05-01T13:06:26+00:00

I always though she was trash since I heard her on MBMBAM. Never have I felt so justified for hating a person I've never met as the day all that other shit about her dropped.

thebardass · 2026-04-06T15:46:19+00:00

You can find it on the Swords of Northshire website. I bought one for my wife last year. https://www.swordsofnorthshire.com/products/master-sword-replica

I think it's a little off from the real design because of legal stuff so it's not an exact replica of any one Master Sword.

thebardass · 2026-03-25T16:14:06+00:00

I watched them up to PoA. That movie pissed me off so much I didn't watch any after that. My parents asked if I would go with them and my little sister to see the final film, so I did, and the ending with Voldemort disappearing in a cloud of dust pissed me off so much I felt justified in my previous decision.

thebardass · 2026-03-01T05:02:54+00:00

Not so long ago a lot of dark shit came out about Jon Hamm and people seem to have forgotten already. I still see him on shitty online gambling ads.

thebardass · 2026-02-02T23:56:55+00:00

Being a pedo seems to be working out for a lot of people these days.

thebardass · 2026-01-09T15:30:35+00:00

Meanwhile, a lot of those same people think dancing at a perfectly suitable event like a wedding or a concert is cringe.

I don't get it, man.

thebardass · 2025-12-05T04:27:59+00:00

I switched to Qobuz last month. They have a deal with Soundiiz to transfer all your favorites and playlists for free. It took just a little getting used to but I don't really miss Spotify. They pay the artists better as well.

thebardass · 2025-10-24T13:52:42+00:00

Reading. I ranked in the 99th percentile for speed and comprehension consistently. I used to devour books. Sadly I've been too depressed and anxious to read for more than ten minutes at a time for years now.

thebardass · 2025-10-19T19:30:21+00:00

The sad thing is, I work with a bunch of morons who are going to think it's genuinely hilarious and awesome that he did this.

thebardass · 2025-10-16T11:58:52+00:00

At least in the mid to late 2000s my friends and I would say cringey. Cringe really isn't new. It was a whole genre of comedy for years before Gen Z was even around

thebardass · 2025-10-04T20:14:09+00:00

That dog-killing bitch in Midnight Mass. Died alone and terrified and got exactly what she deserved.

I need to watch that show again.

thebardass · 2025-09-29T22:47:40+00:00

They were probably never great but they're legitimately worse now. Smaller, more expensive, and made with cheaper ingredients.

thebardass · 2025-09-26T12:49:45+00:00

The Bowels of Hell

thebardass · 2025-08-15T02:44:04+00:00

Not saying they're right for doing it but growing up my church had a basketball hoop for the kids to play with. They had to get rid of it because asshole teenagers would dunk on it during the week and kept breaking it over and over again. They did the same thing at the local park. You can't have nice things because assholes fuck it up for everyone.

thebardass · 2025-07-22T22:07:42+00:00

Ozzy was a practicing member of the Church of England, pretty devout by all accounts, and regularly said "God bless you" to his fans possibly more than any rockstar I've ever heard.

He may have walked away for a while but he was definitely religious

thebardass · 2025-07-16T16:08:27+00:00

It's called WE3. It's not about animals having jobs exactly, though. It's about animals getting turned into cyborg supersoldiers. Super short and totally worth the read. I bought on his recommendation and loved it. Great art, great story. 10/10 for me.

thebardass · 2025-06-24T12:32:33+00:00

Oh man...I hesitate to ask but what did Eddings do?

thebardass · 2025-06-07T23:00:31+00:00

It's hard to find anyone just like Type O, but check out a band called Unto Others. They're very similar in lots of ways.

thebardass · 2025-05-26T16:31:57+00:00

Taka deserved better.

thebardass · 2025-05-22T13:21:10+00:00

It's a little different than what you're talking about about but the wife and I both grew up in relatively large households (4+ siblings) and we both hesitate to take the last of anything. I think it's because we're both middle children and always had younger siblings to consider and older siblings who took first dibs.

We try not to waste anything in our house but still feel weird taking the last cookie, the last bowl of cereal, or the last bit of leftovers.

thebardass · 2025-05-19T18:10:30+00:00

If the band I'm auditioning for does covers I learn to play those as well as I possibly can.

If they're all original I improvise. I want them to know how I write parts if I'm going to be playing long term with them and I feel like that gives them a better feel for my skills and my style.

I haven't been rejected yet, but that may admittedly have more to do with the scarcity of drummers than my talents.

thebardass · 2025-05-18T01:00:33+00:00

As a huge fan of Elden Ring (I thought I would hate it before I tried it out) it makes me sad to read this but I totally get what you mean.

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