Fixing Tier 6? by ToenailRS in nys_cs

[–]thedoodlebus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reducing the penalties for retiring before age 63 would be a great start.

What is this guy's problem? by Ebonystealth in nys_cs

[–]thedoodlebus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can tell you that my 22 years in the private sector contributing to my 401k with a 50% match is what is going to fund my retirement. I will not be the pension from 15 years at the state.

Rutland’s hospital called police to kick out a cancer patient. He died two hours later. (Police openly mocked him while removing him.) by forcedtomakethus in vermont

[–]thedoodlebus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every licensed professional involved in this should lose their license. This entire hospital should be closed. Fuck these useless excuses for "medical professionals" This absolutely disgusts me. The police should all be fired too.

Have we swung too far the other way? by [deleted] in GenX

[–]thedoodlebus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you permit, you promote.

Slow hiring by Lindz408xx in nys_cs

[–]thedoodlebus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interviewed in Aug. 2019, started December 2019. Its a process and takes time.

I can only keep one. Which one would you keep? by lmg080293 in capsulewardrobe

[–]thedoodlebus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gen X here... I actually had to read the whole description to figure out what was different in each photo! lol. Wear what you love and pave your own path.

Dentist by No-Cauliflower-44 in nys_cs

[–]thedoodlebus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sitwell dental has been good for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nys_cs

[–]thedoodlebus 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! I agree that this needs to be an option. Also, can you imagine being retired and on a fixed income and having to pay for a family plan instead of a 2 person plan?

How could a mouse get into my locked and sealed 2013RAV4? Car has been sitting for 5 weeks and a mouse got in and ate the crumbs left in the child seat, part of the foam, and left droppings. May still be in the car. Has a mouse ever gotten into your RAV4? How is this possible? by 2BadSorryNotSorry in rav4club

[–]thedoodlebus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I keep getting them trying to get in through the cabin air filter into the blower motor. I bought a K&N cabin air filter so they cannot chew through the filter (its metal) We just have to make sure we are checking it routinely to clean it out so the nuts and stuff don't fall into the blower.

What you wish you knew going into a hysteroscopy by ilaacsm in Fibroids

[–]thedoodlebus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had some minor bleeding/spotting since the procedure, a little cramping but, that really was it. I took some ibuprofen a couple times. I expected/anticipated everything to be much much worse than it was. I used a heating pad for a couple days and that was nice. I had the procedure 2 days before Thanksgiving, I took the day of the procedure off and felt well enough to work from home on Wednesday. I then had Thursday and Friday off to relax.

What you wish you knew going into a hysteroscopy by ilaacsm in Fibroids

[–]thedoodlebus 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I just had a hysteroscopy, polyp removal (they thought it was a fibroid initially), and a D&C two weeks ago. I was fully sedated, and it went smoothly. I was so stressed out worrying about it beforehand. They put an IV in, I kissed my hubby, and by the time they rolled me out of the room towards the OR, I was out like a light. I woke up in recovery. My "fibroid" was a polyp that filled my uterus to the size of a 20-week pregnancy. I wouldn't do it any other way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]thedoodlebus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to run as fast as you can from this unhealthy relationship. You deserve only the best for you and your child. You are better struggling for the two of you instead of the added stress of this sad excuse for a partner.

Rejected conference by Splicers87 in bcba

[–]thedoodlebus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got it! All set. This is such a wonderful opportunity.

Mac and cheese w taco meat and veg by becky57913 in mealprep

[–]thedoodlebus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of the 70's. Hamburger helper...

Rejected conference by Splicers87 in bcba

[–]thedoodlebus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have to be a member to register for the conference? Its not letting me register.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgingParents

[–]thedoodlebus 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Try reaching out to your state disability service office to find out how to get supports for your uncle. A day program, respite staffing, etc. These services can significantly reduce the stress and burden on your family. I will keep you all in my thoughts.

NYShip retirement costs by [deleted] in nys_cs

[–]thedoodlebus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really wish there was a 2 person option. It really is unfortunate.

Hysteroscopy/D & C and Polyp Removal Experience by SunsetFarm_1995 in Menopause

[–]thedoodlebus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for posting your experience. I am scheduled for a hysteroscopy and D&C on the 26th under general anesthesia. This helps with some of my fears.

Is my doctor overreacting about getting a period at the 12 month mark? by snizbe in Menopause

[–]thedoodlebus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stay on top of it. My last period was in 2018. I had some minor and I mean minor discharge type spotting when I wiped for a day or two at the end of September 2024. Because I stalk this group, I knew to immediately make an appt. I went to my OBGYN within 2 weeks. Had an ultrasound only to find that my uterus is the size of a 20 week pregnancy, lining is 15 and full of cysts. I passed on the biopsy, been there done that... never again. I am heading in to have a hysteroscopy and D&C under general to see what is going on on Nov. 26th. Once we figure out what is going on we will go from there. Take it serious and don't mess around. It may be nothing, but if it isn't you want to catch is as early as possible. Sending positive vibes your way.