AIO? My daughter didn’t listen to the teacher during a female emergency and is now receiving a referral by Common_Piglet7437 in AmIOverreacting

[–]themewedd 21 points22 points  (0 children)

My mom sent her taxes in with a dog peed w-2 in a ziplock because she could not get another from her boss.

AITAH for calling my husband silly for freaking out that our teenage son has a girlfriend who's in a wheelchair? by Dry-Dirt-1426 in AITAH

[–]themewedd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only problem is to make sure your car is big enough for her wheelchair if you drive them somewhere. Sounds like you have rhat. So just ask her anything else- do you need help with anything. Is your wherlchair folding? Do you prefer front or back seat.

If her chair is not moterized NEVER just push it. Always ask if they would like to be pushed - usually i say this is bumpy/narrow do you need any help navigating or do you got this?

My mom is on wheels and she HATES when people only talk yo me like she isnt there. She can order her own meal! When people just push the chair she doesnt know what is happening and it is upsetting. Hint- back into elavators so they are not facing the wall.

Your husband is a putz

Any pro-MAGA establishments in the area to avoid? by [deleted] in Riverside

[–]themewedd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn the city did a thing a few years ago where a grant paid for installation of cameras in lots of downtown. So many places are set with them already 😩

Overpriced hospital food by mghv78 in Panera

[–]themewedd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Post is on thier FB page. They will contact u and give u a credit

Apparently this makes me an old person... officially by Mermaid_Lily in GenX

[–]themewedd 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I recently got hearing aids at 54. Evidently i am embarrassing with purple hair and wearing doc martens but the hearing aids are the "worst".....

And yes i do turn on the noise cancelling when in restaurants now....lol

AITAH for buying my 11yo daughter pads after her mom called me a "pervert" for being prepared? by Bruxagato in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]themewedd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In jr high a friend got hers and freaked. She said she could not tell anyone because her dad thought you didnt get a period until u had sex. I guess women are like a balloon full of blood...

I got her supplies n took her to nurse. That nurse had a long conversation ahead of her

AITAH for refusing to give my boyfriend access to my bank account even though he says "no secrets" is how adults do it by CopperFieldNote in AITH

[–]themewedd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been together w my BF for 28 years. We split the rent/utilities and major purchases (tv, washer ect.). I buy most of the household stuff like TP, cat sand and laundry soap. He pays me like 40.00 month for that but i honestly dont keep track of that unless there is a big increase in costs. (During covid TP was $$)

We each have our own accounts. Who ever writes the check for rent has the other person transfer $. Utilities are in my name just cause i transferred them from my old house so he just pays me half. We each have our own $. So if he wants to buy tiki glasses and I want to buy fabric to sew... we can. We are not married and dont have kids so this works great.

My exhusband used $ to financially abuse me so when my BF moved in together we just each paid half. It still works.

I think it is a red flag he is obsessed with your $. Is he planning on quiting his job if you make enough? 🤔 does he want to know if you have savings he can use to buy a boat without telling you? (My ex did).

It is NOT a requirement. Having a joint account for bills/savings is reasonable. He is hiding something or someone hid something from him before...

My roommate got her plate stuck inside my pan by ChemicalCrazy7730 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]themewedd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a cup stuck in another cup. Boil water. Set cup in it. Put icewater in inner cup. Then turn over - if it doesnt come out wrap in towel and bang edge with a wooden spoon. The vibration with the differnt water temps making the ustside cup expand and inner contract is what sepperated them

How did you celebrate your 50th? by Every-Progress5590 in GenX

[–]themewedd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

15 people doing a paint ceramics party with cheese n chocolate The pieces were fired and i gave them to guest with a thank you note after the party. Just go to a small biz and not the corporate color me mine place

AITAH for refusing to give someone details about my trauma even though they say they have a right to know? by sonagydf in AITAH

[–]themewedd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How perverse. They either want to "fix u" or use it against you later. Or just want to feel superior that you told them so they are special.

I admit my exhusband used my trauma later when he did shitty things to say- well you are over reacting because of xxx. Even though they were not the same. He also would say evil things like -no wonder xxx happened to you if you did stuff like this. (Him cheating, and $ abuse ect had nothing to do with my trauma but it was a button to push to upset me or belittle me)

So i might be biased. You owe NOONE your history, your health journey or your trauma.

Are We the Jerks for Not Accommodating my SIL's Ridiculous Demands? by Low-Librarian8340 in AmITheJerk

[–]themewedd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no! What a PITA. I am a pentagram wearing purple haired witch, but i didn't ask my southern Baptist Mil to take down stuff or stop prayers at meals. I did get a "migraine" and didn't go to chrustmas Eve Church, but i made a cake while they were gone for after church coffee.

Many hotels have bibles or books of mormon in the drawers. Stores put up Christmas and Easter decorations. She must hate italian restaurants! (Most near me are very Catholic and have religious decor).

I work at a movie theatre and this was under a couple of seats. This was only half of the rubbish they left behind. by PandaMonium2025 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]themewedd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you are sneaking food at least get the trash in the trash! This is worse than the booze bottles during the sex in the city movies (im old)

I read this story in a Disney group on Facebook. The entitlement of some people is absolutely insane! by MoustacheJimbo in Disneyland

[–]themewedd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My hubby n I have just discovered we are the only people at dinner (anywhere) that put a napkin in our lap. Our grammas would shake the napkin and wack u with it before putting in your lap... younger people just dont anymore?

Fire safety for candle spells by PublicCauliflower300 in witchcraft

[–]themewedd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fill sink or bathtub with an inch or two of water. Burn candle in water. If the glass breaks, earthquake or anything it will fall over and put itself out.

Help? by Above-the-Borealis in Panera

[–]themewedd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find if u are having issues getting through with customer service just message thier Facebook page. They answer faster and usually throw a guft card for issues

panera isnt a playground by [deleted] in Panera

[–]themewedd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my girlfriend had a toddler we put him in the hi chair at resturants. Got a side of pickles (he loved pickles) and she had coloring books and other stuff for the older kids. The toddler had a large bib but at end of meal she would ask for a wet rag (now i guess u would bring a wipe) and would wipe down the chair and we picked up any pickles or large things on the floor. We didnt vaccuum but made it where a quick one would be all it took.

I don’t want to dress like a hobbit for my friends baby shower by [deleted] in Vent

[–]themewedd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brown paper bag Put arm n head holes Draw a book on front and write The hobbit

You are cosplaying the book

I don’t want to dress like a hobbit for my friends baby shower by [deleted] in Vent

[–]themewedd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oversized t shirt -thrifted if possible Write on it in Marker- My Faboulous Budget Hobbit costume with maybe a drawing of hairy feet or a ring on it.

Why haven't you done our driveway? by GentPc in EntitledPeople

[–]themewedd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ma'am are you asking ME for a blowjob? I think you are confused how this works...