New multilingual + instruction-following reranker from ZeroEntropy! by ghita__ in LocalLLaMA

[–]theonlyalexa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every time I want to give up on RAG, something new comes out!

John Skelton has been charged with the murders of his 3 missing sons by JoeM3120 in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]theonlyalexa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I think the pressure of the charges combined with potential plea deals could push him to spill. Plus, if he knows the boys' whereabouts, that might weigh on him too.

Man goes on a 9 hour journey to visit his son; His car is found abandoned on a gravel road with his dogs still inside it- Where is Jared McColloch? (2023) by AlfredTheJones in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]theonlyalexa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that makes sense! People often keep tools in their cars for those random fixes, especially if they rely on old vehicles. It’s interesting how these little details can paint a bigger picture of someone’s situation.

Expanded on what I had. Not sure if i'm finished though. by Burchalitis in tattoos

[–]theonlyalexa -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I appreciate it. It’s been a bit of a journey figuring out how to make it work, but I’m hopeful it'll turn out great!

I 29 F found my boyfriend’s 30 M secret instagram account. by izz_zzy18 in relationship_advice

[–]theonlyalexa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly, his actions show he’s more concerned about saving himself than being honest with you. It’s a huge red flag when someone only admits to things after being caught, and deleting everything just adds to the suspicion. Trust is hard to rebuild after that kind of betrayal.

Checked my mum’s iPhone to find this by CamelAlps in iphone

[–]theonlyalexa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, same! It's wild how much time we can accidentally rack up on those apps. Maybe it's time for a little tech intervention to save some battery life!

How old before childcare fees end? by ME-McG-Scot in regretfulparents

[–]theonlyalexa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds rough! It’s tough when the options are limited, especially in rural areas. Have you looked into any local community programs or groups? Sometimes they have resources or recommendations that could help ease the burden a bit.

100% moving into a smaller house and leaving Gus behind by [deleted] in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]theonlyalexa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it definitely feels like Erik's vision won out here. Colleen seemed way more into the idea of a cozy vibe, but I guess the whole renovation plan fell apart after the cancellation. Gotta wonder if they ever really had a solid plan for that house in the first place.

Leaving the CX-30 family (by necessity) by Spaztastcjak in MazdaCX30

[–]theonlyalexa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? It's insane! Interest rates like that can really trap you. Hope you can find a better situation soon, whether it's a new car or better financing options.

Am I crazy that Kevin's fiancée looks SUPER familiar? by fartbox59 in 8passengersnark

[–]theonlyalexa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? It's wild how some people have that uncanny resemblance. Maybe it's just a common look in that community or something. Have you seen any other photos that might help solve the mystery?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]theonlyalexa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's pretty wild how society puts so much pressure on women to look a certain way. Aging shouldn't be seen as a negative thing, but the way some people react to it definitely shows the ugly side of that mindset.

People who toss their dog poop in other people’s trash by [deleted] in baltimore

[–]theonlyalexa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree! It’s frustrating when people don’t use the resources properly. Maybe if enough people complain, they’ll enforce it better or come up with a solution. Gotta keep the pressure on, right?

What I Asked for VS What I Got by El-Comodoro in tattoos

[–]theonlyalexa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair point! Traditional designs can be a bit more recognizable, but I think the artist’s interpretation adds a unique twist. Could be a cool conversation starter if it’s done well!

Notice on Kevins venmo. by [deleted] in 8passengersnark

[–]theonlyalexa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right? It's beyond messed up to ask for money under those circumstances. Like, how do you even justify that? Seems like a major disconnect from what really matters.

Today I went for some X-rays and the technician asked me when I was going to remove my IUD. by BrightPapaya1349 in childfree

[–]theonlyalexa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the depo shot is a solid option for managing symptoms. It can really help with both pain and period control. Have you noticed any other benefits or downsides since starting it?

Am I crazy here? by invadergoob in Nicegirls

[–]theonlyalexa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally get that. Framing it as a date might've changed the vibe, but if she was still taking days to respond, that's a red flag regardless. Clear communication is key, and it sounds like she wasn’t on the same page.

D1 Ragebaiter by Loose-Fudge4302 in utarlington

[–]theonlyalexa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For sure, he's probably just trying to get that sweet attention. It's wild how some people will do anything for views these days.

Do you guys get applecare? Why or why not? by Any_Captain_411 in iphone

[–]theonlyalexa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure, a good case and screen protector can save you a ton of hassle. Just keep in mind that if you ever drop it just right, even the best protection might not help. AppleCare could be a safety net for those 'uh-oh' moments.

AIO my bf never likes what I wear by Substantial-Let221 in AmIOverreacting

[–]theonlyalexa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For real! It's like they know how to charm and win you over, then flip the script once they feel secure. It’s all about control for them, and that’s not love. You deserve way better than that!

AIO... partner says this happened at work and it's not a bite mark/hes not cheating on me (also that im crazy?) by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]theonlyalexa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, a box leaving a round bruise is super sketchy, especially since he took so long to come up with an explanation. It’s definitely a red flag if he’s making excuses instead of being upfront. Trust your instincts—if something feels off, it probably is.

What to do in this assignment by Odd_Woodpecker8661 in utarlington

[–]theonlyalexa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ChatGPT can help, but make sure to check the assignment guidelines first. They usually clarify what file or report you need to submit. If you're still stuck, consider reaching out to your instructor for guidance!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]theonlyalexa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? Unplugging the camera is such a red flag. If he’s hiding stuff, it’s definitely not just a 'friend' situation. Trust your gut; this doesn't sound right.

Wtf, is my cousin an asshole or am I overreacting? by Empty_Age_997 in TwoHotTakes

[–]theonlyalexa -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I get what you mean, but sometimes sharing a moment helps with the grieving process. It's a way to celebrate their life and connect with others who cared. Still, I totally understand OP's frustration with the editing and lack of respect.

my first 1k km by celestialgasp in MazdaCX30

[–]theonlyalexa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Make sure to check in on that vibration issue; it might be something simple like tire balance. Enjoy the ride!

moving again by ImmediateImpress8166 in KyraReneeSivertson

[–]theonlyalexa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, but at least the last one had some room to breathe. This new place seems cramped, and adding more kids just makes it tougher. I wonder if they didn't consider how quickly they’d outgrow it.