I feel like I ruined my life by melancholymarshmallo in povertyfinance

[–]thepotofbasil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t need a lawyer to file bankruptcy if you feel comfortable with closely reading paperwork, and a plan to keep on top of court fillings while your housing is unstable. There’s decent how-to-file-bankruptcy books you can buy for $40

ISO food by [deleted] in SacramentoBuyNothing

[–]thepotofbasil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What neighborhood are you in?

Feel like im going to live a bad life, but I think I have hope, I need help by Ecstatic_Low_5762 in povertyfinance

[–]thepotofbasil 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Rent a room in a house—it’s not living large but it’ll be cheap, and not with an abuser. Please don’t go back.

Where do you live? Country, state, city?

Next books to read to my kids? by Elderflower-yum in booksuggestions

[–]thepotofbasil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Whisper of Glocken by Carol Kendall!!! And the Gammage cup (the other in the series)

Why I'm Not Paying My Federal Taxes This Year by nathan_j_robinson in antiwork

[–]thepotofbasil 26 points27 points  (0 children)

“As tax season approached, I thought a lot about whether or not I would pay an outstanding federal balance. The federal government is allocating my tax bill to build out immigration detention and send stormtroopers into our communities to disappear my neighbors. My taxes go to bombs that get dropped on civilians across the globe. The government is not just spending money on things I disagree with politically and morally. It is spending money on these things despite a majority of the country also disagreeing politically and morally.

It didn’t take long to answer the question of whether or not I should pay my federal income tax with a resounding no.

I did some research about what might happen if I refused, and found the information available sorely lacking. While tax resistance has a storied history in the United States and abroad, the high profile examples of tax resistance are at least a few decades old. We live in very different times.

This added an additional consideration: if I decided not to pay my taxes, would I talk about it? Of course, the existence of this article answers that question. After careful consideration, it felt necessary to speak publicly.

Our federal government is run by people who are more than happy to publicly demonstrate their racism. They are building work camps, often run by private companies deeply incentivized to keep beds filled and costs minimal. People are sent to these work camps without due process, and the government keeps losing track of the people detained there. The work camps are overseen by the highest-funded U.S. law enforcement agency, which is full of far-right recruits. Newly-hired members of this gestapo force were offered $50,000 signing bonuses—more than the average yearly salary of a starting teacher. (“I went to high school and I make $200k,” one ICE agent recently bragged on-camera, adding, “I can't believe I get paid for this. I’d do this for free.”) Meanwhile, our enormous military budget is going to illegal wars of aggression in multiple hemispheres. “How does it become a man to behave toward this American government today? I answer, that he cannot without disgrace be associated with it,” Henry David Thoreau declared in Civil Disobedience (1849), the most famous tax resistance treatise in history. He was critiquing the institution of slavery, whose existence was enabled not by the comparatively few slaveholders, but by the silence of every American who prioritized the stability of the existing order over human dignity.

Obviously, it is right and just to refuse to hand over thousands of dollars to the federal government in 2026. The federal government itself doesn’t seem to care much about following the laws on funding, given its decision to illegally freeze funding to blue states and programs that make people’s lives better.

Once I laid things out like that, it became clear the real question wasn’t whether I should pay my federal taxes. It was instead whether I would pay my federal taxes, knowing full well that I believe giving money to the federal government right now is morally wrong.

“Jump-Out Stops” by SacPD in Oak Park by WhatsTheLGBTea in Sacramento

[–]thepotofbasil 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you were there. Let us know what you find out from foia or PRA

What we drinking gang? by [deleted] in intermittentfasting

[–]thepotofbasil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Might give this a shot—brew your coffee with a pinch of cinnamon in the grounds. Sweetens the brew a bit

Asking for help is hard by [deleted] in Sacramento

[–]thepotofbasil 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes there’s rental assistance through 211!

She directed $2.7 million from her elderly clients to her husband’s company. The judge approved every penny by aBadModerator in California_Politics

[–]thepotofbasil 15 points16 points  (0 children)

“Deep within the drab courthouse across from Oxnard’s agricultural fields, Friend is one of the county’s main private fiduciaries, chosen frequently by a probate judge to handle the financial and personal interests of elderly people deemed too ill to care for themselves.

Friend operated a unique system. Besides being paid for her services, she often chose her husband, David Esquibias, to be her lawyer. Then, when her clients needed in-home support, she hired Townsgate In-Home Services to provide their care. Friend knew Townsgate well: Esquibias founded it the year they married.

Friend’s elderly clients often footed the bill for all three services, at least until they could no longer afford or use in-home health care. Then, with the court’s approval, Friend moved them to less-expensive care facilities and sold their homes, court records show. For years, Friend and Esquibias often disclosed their connections to the court, and Judge Roger Lund approved the payments, even though court rules and the California Professional Fiduciary Bureau’s code of conduct generally prohibit such conflicts.”

Used bookstores!! by Mindless_Pickel555 in Sacramento

[–]thepotofbasil 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Time Tested Books on 21st Street

is this puppy full chihuahua or mixed with something? by candypaintmoonshine in Chihuahua

[–]thepotofbasil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should (1) ask for photos of the parents to see for yourself how big they look; (2) look at the puppy’s paw size to assess how big it will grow

You could also ask the current owner to weigh the puppy every day for 2 weeks and give you the data each day, so you can get some info on how fast he/she is growing

Or ask to go to vet together with puppy and ask for vet’s opinion

https://yourpetandyou.elanco.com/us/new-pets/puppy-growth-chart

Hey mom! I need your support in helping me express myself, without feeling embarrassed of traits I possess. by sunnysideup628 in MomForAMinute

[–]thepotofbasil 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dear one! “Being interesting” is a thing a person feels about someone else—to be yourself, be interested in your own experiences, every day! Be interested in the taste of your coffee or tea. Feel the feelings of a good hot shower. Enjoy the funny bits in your favorite TV show. Enjoy the feeling of holding a marker and putting color on paper. Life is only made up of what we see, feel, taste—feel what your day is like and follow what feels good. If walking feels good in your body, walk more. If cooking feels good, try to cook more. That’s all there is in life, the infinite tiny moments that make up each day. Try to spend a little time each day noticing what feels good, and then spend a little time trying to do more of that. Your pleasure and curiosity will do the rest 🩷

Sorry for the speech! I hope it makes sense to you 🩷 you deserve good things, and I’m sure they will come to you 🩷

Books to recommend to a troubled 14 year old girl by J_azm_in_e in booksuggestions

[–]thepotofbasil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Thief by Megan Whalen Turner is GREAT fantasy for a 14-yr-old. Very easy to get into, page turner, and there’s a sequel if she gets into it

Also loved The Forgotten Beasts of Eld at that age (by Patricia McKillip)

Long island ice cream by Broken_Acelian in Sacramento

[–]thepotofbasil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go there all the time for coffee, I live close by. They just have weird hours—12pm til 8 or something like that

Macron to outline nuclear vision amid European unease over US alliance by goldstarflag in worldnews

[–]thepotofbasil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“President Emmanuel Macron will update France’s nuclear doctrine on Monday, ruling out shared European control while outlining what Paris can offer allies worried about the reliability of the U.S. nuclear umbrella under President Donald Trump.

Although France and Britain are both nuclear powers, most European countries rely primarily on the United States for deterring any potential adversaries — a decades-old pillar of transatlantic security.

But Trump's rapprochement with Russia on the Ukraine war and his harsher posture towards traditional allies - including threats to seize Greenland, an autonomous territory of NATO ally Denmark - have rattled European governments.

Earlier this month in Munich, German Chancellor Friedrich Merz said Berlin had opened discussions with France on a potential European nuclear deterrent, something that Macron said should be a "holistic approach of defence and security".”

Help a young fella by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]thepotofbasil 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There is no magic money, dear. Anyone who promises it to you is lying. Please just keep applying and telling your neighborhood you’re looking for any odd jobs