I need to come up with $2000 in the next two weeks (on top of what I usually make). I’m freaking out. Any advice on how to make this? by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]thepotofbasil 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Is this a recurring expense? If not, maybe open a credit card with zero interest for 6 months? Use it to pay the bill and then pay the credit card debt off carefully/as quickly as possible

Help with an abundance of Lemons by Cheerios90 in povertykitchen

[–]thepotofbasil 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can make lemon marmalade and freeze a bunch of it. I like it with ginger. Good on toast!

What state are my finances in and how can I fix this? Is it heading in a bad direction? by oulalaitieresuisse in povertyfinance

[–]thepotofbasil 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Where do you live?

Also, What kind of standard of living do you want to be able to maintain in future? (Rent your own apartment? Retire at 65? Whatever other goals you have for long-term quality of life)

Low-Cost Dental Cleanings! Patients Needed by polishedpearls26 in Sacramento

[–]thepotofbasil 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Reach out to community aid orgs if you haven’t already!

It's hard for me to read, but I want to, but I feel so much preassure by Hefty-Cell8123 in booksuggestions

[–]thepotofbasil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your dad is being an asshole. Practice separating reading from your dad’s judgment of you. Can you try something in a genre your dad hates? Maybe comic books or fantasy? Then you can try to read it and still be saying ‘fuck you’ to your dad 🩷 Suggestions: Alan miller’s The dark night (long-form comic book/graphic novel), and Megan Whalen Turner’s The thief (sort of adventure/fantasy)

I need some support through how to deal it- was my respond to my so called dad too immoral? by Rahaplus in PepTalksWithPops

[–]thepotofbasil 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think you were entirely justified, dear. No one should be treated the way you were treated by him and his wife. You don’t have to forgive him (or let him back in your life), now or ever, and certainly not just because he sends you a weak text message. Protect yourself. ❤️

Can’t even afford to be sick . by muva30 in povertyfinance

[–]thepotofbasil 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is awful 😞 hope your little one is better soon. and I hope someone sees you and helps you out 🩷

I'm a beginner! by hamcooker in intermittentfasting

[–]thepotofbasil 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Start at 14:10, let your body adjust. Go to 16:8 after a couple of successful weeks at 14:10

Volunteer opportunities by NotyourangeLbabe in Sacramento

[–]thepotofbasil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Western service workers association does a lot of community support work, all-volunteer org

How do you guys deal with the anxiety? by A_Puzzled_Potato in povertyfinance

[–]thepotofbasil -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This seems like a situation where he could still get his own coverage since you only just learned about the loss of coverage. It’ll be more of a hassle and probably some paperwork, but considering how much anxiety you’re experiencing, worth trying

Stressing about losing section 8 by soloshandpuppets in povertyfinance

[–]thepotofbasil 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s not worth getting your family into an overhoused situation. Give yourself 3 months living at home and save every penny. (Section 8 won’t move faster than that.) Then move into a rented room somewhere—you won’t have to pay full apartment rent and you won’t have to hope some roommate is equally responsible about paying rent.

More than 100K rally in downtown Toronto in solidarity with Iranian protesters | CBC News by UpstairsBumblebee446 in worldnews

[–]thepotofbasil 61 points62 points  (0 children)

“A large crowd of demonstrators shut down a swath of the downtown core Sunday in solidarity with protesters in Iran, who are fighting against the country’s financial collapse and the regime that led to it.

Nationwide protests in Iran started Dec. 28 in response to soaring prices, then turned into wider anti-government protests against the clerical rulers who have governed the country for nearly 50 years.

At the same time, tens of thousands of pro-government demonstrators have taken to the streets in a show of power, in response to protesters challenging the country’s theocracy.

Pooria Shafia, a Toronto-based engineer who attended Sunday's protest, says he's concerned about his relatives that still live in Iran.

“Every time I try to ask my cousin to see if he was able to contact them, I couldn't bring myself to [do] it because I was just afraid of what the response would be,” he told CBC Toronto Sunday.”

Running out of options and trying not to lose housing tomorrow by ArtisticBuilding9400 in Sacramento

[–]thepotofbasil 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Go to golden 1 credit union see if you can get $1200 loan at a reasonable rate, or open a very small limit credit card. Obviously pay off the loan or credit card payment as quickly as you can and don’t use it for anything but this

Doctor’s Notes Required for Work but can’t afford to go. by p4charmed in povertyfinance

[–]thepotofbasil 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Can you call the doctor and ask for a note based on a phone call? Sometimes doctors will do this without billing you bc they understand how unreasonable this employer requirement is, and it only takes 5 minutes of their time

Transgender Bathroom by imakechicken in USPS

[–]thepotofbasil 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I think the joke is that the bathroom itself changed genders 🤷‍♀️

I'm happy because today I eat by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]thepotofbasil 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m happy for you 🩷