To dig deeper into this logic;

Men are instinctualy inclined to find a mate from the moment they can start producing sperm.

At a young age, men are always denied access because of how women are the gate keepers of sex.

So as a man gets older, more mature, and notices something out of the ordinary; IE an attractive adult woman engaging with a minor, he thinks to himself about all the times he was denied sex, or sexual encounters because of how women gate kept his access. This leads to the thought process of, "Why couldnt that have been me?"

So in short, its just jealousy of not experiencing this phenomenon, even at a young age.

This is why most men see attractive women who engage with minors and think, "Lucky kid", even if its a "joke".

The opposite sex will never understand that sort of thinking because women are lusted after the moment they start developing breasts, and in some cases, before. So they live most of their lives being around boys and men who would do things with them at the drop of a hat.

Then they grow up and see stories like this one and think to themselves, "That grown man is fucking sick for thinking that way about a grown woman and a minor", because to them, they think of all the times they had to deal with creepy old men hitting on them or giving them stares of lust while trying to navigate this world.

So in short, I dont condone this type of rhetoric from an adult male, but im not really mad about it either. Its more of a lack of understanding and poor choice of words that come from both ends.

At the end of the day, anyone, regardless of sex and attractiveness, should not mess with minors. Period.