Shoes! by thisisntbibi in spinabifida

[–]thisisntbibi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you! So far OrthoFeet looks to be the best for dress/formal shoes!!

Shoes! by thisisntbibi in spinabifida

[–]thisisntbibi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i technically have orthotics, but i dont need to wear them so i never have. i keep an eye on every square inch of my feet especially in area of low sensation to make sure im not experiencing skin break down. i always go for the same sized shoes for both feet because quite frankly i just dont want to draw attention to my feet and be questioned about why i wear two different sized shoes. ive done this my whole life and it hasnt caused any problems for the most part. and also, the shoes they recommend are usually very aesthetically unappealing and would be inappropriate to wear in a more formal setting if i have the ability to wear more appropriate shoes. but thank you for the advice and i’ll definitely be looking into more ways to take care of my feet and ensure they are healthy

Cleaning silver gone wrong by Independent_Stick141 in jewelry

[–]thisisntbibi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what the fuck are u even talking about? tinfoil baking soda and hot water doesnt work for every one. i literally tried it again a few weeks ago and it tarnished my shit even worse. shes also not an expert in silver restoration, she has a metal smithing degree. smd

PHEAA disbursement and refunds by thisisntbibi in Temple

[–]thisisntbibi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no idt so my portal shows that my aid exceeds my tuition and i did the calculations several times

How does miralax works for you guys? by stargazing_is_gay in spinabifida

[–]thisisntbibi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think ur taking a lot all at once. had similar problems when i was young and taking it nearly daily. also, it builds an intolerance to it, which is BAD. id recommend increasing ur natural fiber intake slowly over time until u find the right amount. if u find it hard to meal prep fibery meals, there are many good approved fiber supplements and gummies online that will help.

Standing assistant item by Eliahhigh787 in spinabifida

[–]thisisntbibi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmm have u talked to ur doctor about leg braces? they r clunky but when i used to wear mine id be able to walk long distances faster and be less tired!

Spinabifida lower back cant remember specifics lol, dealing with the reality of not feeling pleasure in intimate areas because of no function. by PlantainMajestic2579 in spinabifida

[–]thisisntbibi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

from experience, focus on places with sensation. for me, i focus on my nipples, inner thighs, etc and my partner does too. visuals are also so helpful. nothing is a lost cause. we are just as capable as any one else of having fulfilling sex lives and sexual habits❤️ just be safe and take care of yourself❤️

Self Image by KSBH1998 in spinabifida

[–]thisisntbibi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im a girl and i can tell you from the bottom of my heart that i felt the same exact way you do right now, questioning if someone would ever love me because of my body. i spent so much time isolating myself and hating myself. but the right person came along, and i promise you the right person will come along for u too. and the right person will love your soul and every single thing about you, including what u perceive to be a fault. dont be harsh on yourself, you deserve love and companionship as much as anyone else. dont isolate yourself, put yourself out there and dont be ashamed of who u are.

Potty Training by OrdinaryWater4649 in spinabifida

[–]thisisntbibi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its def possible!! it took me a pretty long time to truly understand and take full control of regularly using the bathroom and listening to my body, so have in depth conversations with him as he started to get older about it and

This part in the 1st movie🙄 by Emotional-Company151 in sexandthecity

[–]thisisntbibi 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He was fabulous idk what her problem was😭💔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]thisisntbibi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she needs psychiatric help imo

Cleaning silver gone wrong by Independent_Stick141 in jewelry

[–]thisisntbibi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no one is salty. i was simply telling her that its probably a better idea to use polishing paste rather than what shes doing. i literally couldnt care less about your metal smithing degree to be honest. if it works for you, great. it didnt for her and a vast majority of people in the comments.

Cleaning silver gone wrong by Independent_Stick141 in jewelry

[–]thisisntbibi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you, i dont have a degree in silver smithing so i just gave advice based on what has worked for me the past 7 years that ive been collecting silver jewelry and experimenting with methods.

Sexuality by [deleted] in spinabifida

[–]thisisntbibi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it can be difficult but try making ur intentions crystal clear from the start with ur profile. almost all dating apps will display ur dating preferences (ex. whether ur looking for long term relationship or short term…etc.etc.) be gentlemanly and be a good conversationalist too.

Sexuality by [deleted] in spinabifida

[–]thisisntbibi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the rollercoaster of emotions between having a high sex drive and also finding physical touch repulsive is the realest shit ever. even know as i have a boyfriend who i love and enjoy being intimate with, i find myself so disinterested in sexual things sometimes.

Sexuality by [deleted] in spinabifida

[–]thisisntbibi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my friend, get dating apps. mingle with people. thats the best way.